THANK YOU!!!! for replying, this has been the most intense thought on my mind. I have heard great success stories and obviously the bad ones, obviously just like doctors are humans, every human is different, so each person that has had this procedure has had a different experience, I also think that those who have not had much/ or little success may transfer that anger toward the whole experience in general. He did not share that information with me I came across it while research those who went to my doctor, some of the individuals, one in particular that I met in person is doing great has lost 140 and did his surgery in Dec 2009 so I can't say I haven't seen it first hand. I am just really scared, this will be my first surgery and as he told me stop reading, which I understand because it builds more and more fears but I want to know what are the worst case scenarios so that i'm not in shock if it happens.
My really good friend told me the same thing, some of the best doctors are not the nicest! I guess for me, that i'm a baby about everything I expect for him to be caring and empathetic or something...lol
Again thank you for replying!