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1- I have to call the doc and see how many CC's I have.... This band has not worked since I got it 11-17-09. I am regretful

I got my first fill today. Does it take effect ASAP or does it take time. I ate a reg dinner. Stopped myself from over-eating because I wasnt sure how the fill would affect me. I did NOT feel full sooner.............. what the hell is going on?:thumbup::confused::confused:

I got my first fill today. Does it take effect ASAP or does it take time. I ate a reg dinner. Stopped myself from over-eating because I wasnt sure how the fill would affect me. I did NOT feel full sooner.............. what the hell is going on?:confused::ohmy::confused::smile:

I posted your blog because I am a food addict and have lost 5 pounds since Nov 15th 2009. I am losing this battle

I am the last to give advice.... but 100 pounds that really impressive! Keep up the good work. I once lost alot of weight by eating only half the portion I once ate.. it worked! I would get another fill... The band is there to help... use all you can! Good luck :sneaky:

Thank you for the support. I took a positive step and joined the gym today. i am grateful for this. As for food making your band slip.... i am not sure which kinds. I just know they want you on liquids and Mushy food until your stomach heals.

Conflicted as always. Yes. I did not prepare myself for this surgery. I thought I could eat regular food after the surgery but the band would help me not eat as much. For the problem lies in the amount of food I eat, typically not the type. I have regret. I was not able to stick to any liquid diet. I was eating Turkey 10 days post op. I did not realize that my band could slip or pouch could expand by eating the foods I was eating. I mean I did know but didn’t put 2 and 2 together. It’s like when you’re a child and your mom tells you not to touch the stove and you do anyway. I am not 100% dedicated to the lifestyle that needed to be adapted to make the band work. Like I said before, I thought I could still eat like a normal person just not as much. Protein shakes, and mushy food is not what I consider normal. I did not gather my facts correctly and had a surgery that clearly will not work if I don’t work it. So here I am feeling REALLY guilty that I am eating and not following everyone’s advice. I did pay for this myself and since money does not grow on trees and economic times are tough, I feel even worse. Everyone says just say “no” walk away from the food, do it for your health. Thanks guys, but my brain is a powerful tool and I can’t seem to control it. Do I want to be skinny-yes Do I want to look good- yes Do I want to feel good and confident about my self-yes Do I want to restrict my diet to soups, protein shakes and other foods that I naturally do not eat – NO Do I want to cause myself harm by eating foods when my stomach is not healed-NO I feel guilty and ashamed. I am going through a mental battle and losing. WHY CAN’T I JUST DO IT. All of you seem to be able to. PLEASE

Conflicted as always. Yes. I did not prepare myself for this surgery. I thought I could eat regular food after the surgery but the band would help me not eat as much. For the problem lies in the amount of food I eat, typically not the type. I have regret. I was not able to stick to any liquid diet. I was eating Turkey 10 days post op. I did not realize that my band could slip or pouch could expand by eating the foods I was eating. I mean I did know but didn’t put 2 and 2 together. It’s like when you’re a child and your mom tells you not to touch the stove and you do anyway. I am not 100% dedicated to the lifestyle that needed to be adapted to make the band work. Like I said before, I thought I could still eat like a normal person just not as much. Protein shakes, and mushy food is not what I consider normal. I did not gather my facts correctly and had a surgery that clearly will not work if I don’t work it. So here I am feeling REALLY guilty that I am eating and not following everyone’s advice. I did pay for this myself and since money does not grow on trees and economic times are tough, I feel even worse. Everyone says just say “no” walk away from the food, do it for your health. Thanks guys, but my brain is a powerful tool and I can’t seem to control it. Do I want to be skinny-yes Do I want to look good- yes Do I want to feel good and confident about my self-yes Do I want to restrict my diet to soups, protein shakes and other foods that I naturally do not eat – NO Do I want to cause myself harm by eating foods when my stomach is not healed-NO I feel guilty and ashamed. I am going through a mental battle and losing. WHY CAN’T I JUST DO IT. All of you seem to be able to. PLEASE

Thank you for the support.. It really does make a difference :sneaky:

I over ate today. I just needed to admit it to someone. As soon as I woke up this morning, I knew I wanted to eat. I tried not to, but FOOD consumed my every thought today. "It" followed me like the plague...the thought of food... I pray tomorrow will be better.

I over ate today. I just needed to admit it to someone. As soon as I woke up this morning, I knew I wanted to eat. I tried not to, but FOOD consumed my every thought today. "It" followed me like the plague...the thought of food... I pray tomorrow will be better.

girlfriend... let me let you in on a secret... I was banded on Nov 17th.... YES I did ask my husband and pretended to be meek and unsure of the surgery. BUT i knew I wanted it and I was going to get it no matter what he said. I just had to make him feel included in the decision... after all we are married :thumbup:.. try this method.. it might work. He might feel left out of a huge decision.. so make him feel important :sleep2:... and your MIL- screw her and all her opinions.... "white" diet so outlandish and stupid!!!!!!!!!!! Good luck

well said! May God bless you on your journey! You have a beautiful spirit.

I have tried the protein shakes but have not been consistant. I use slim fast mostly. I am looking forward to the fill, but also want my doc to be proud of me for sticking to the plan,. Did you do better after your fill?

Still Struggling:crying: Well… I just seem not to be able to stick to this whole new eating agenda. My story- banded on 11-17 and suppose to be eating soups and mushy foods. Yesterday I was starving, I had mash potatoes and 2 hours later had some Mac and cheese. I can say I am only eating when I am hungry- which is a huge milestone for me. But I still have a major problem sticking to just shakes and soups. I am no succeeding. In fact I have only lost 5-6 pounds since the band. I am starting to think this was not a good idea. I pray to God everyday that he help me control my hunger and give me the will to overcome temptation. But so far I have failed. Is there anyone out there who started off “rocky” like me but ended with a victory? I would love to hear from all of you.

Still Struggling:crying: Well… I just seem not to be able to stick to this whole new eating agenda. My story- banded on 11-17 and suppose to be eating soups and mushy foods. Yesterday I was starving, I had mash potatoes and 2 hours later had some Mac and cheese. I can say I am only eating when I am hungry- which is a huge milestone for me. But I still have a major problem sticking to just shakes and soups. I am no succeeding. In fact I have only lost 5-6 pounds since the band. I am starting to think this was not a good idea. I pray to God everyday that he help me control my hunger and give me the will to overcome temptation. But so far I have failed. Is there anyone out there who started off “rocky” like me but ended with a victory? I would love to hear from all of you.

I feel your pain. I am banded 2 weeks and have not been able to stay away from food.

Girl you can get in done in south fla for 10k.. no need to go to Mexico

Thank you guys for the support and encouragement! YOUR right! NOTHING TASTE AS GOOD AS SKINNY

Went to my surgeon yesterday for a check up. I am not suppose to be eating reg food-got banded Nov 17th,. I thought I could eat in moderation after 10 days. WRONG AGAIN. So far my journey with this band has sucked. I DON’T WANT TO EAT SOUP UNTIL JAN 4TH!! I AM STARVING! CAN ANYONE HEAR M?. I swear if I would have known that I would have to eat like this for 2 months I would never have spent the money. Simply put- If I could eat like this on my own and had the will power, I would not be 5-5 and 206pds. I wanted the bands to fill full faster, not to eat like a vegan! Please help me! I need advice and support. Why am I so resistant to doing this diet? How do all of you do it?

Went to my surgeon yesterday for a check up. I am not suppose to be eating reg food-got banded Nov 17th,. I thought I could eat in moderation after 10 days. WRONG AGAIN. So far my journey with this band has sucked. I DON’T WANT TO EAT SOUP UNTIL JAN 4TH!! I AM STARVING! CAN ANYONE HEAR M?. I swear if I would have known that I would have to eat like this for 2 months I would never have spent the money. Simply put- If I could eat like this on my own and had the will power, I would not be 5-5 and 206pds. I wanted the bands to fill full faster, not to eat like a vegan! Please help me! I need advice and support. Why am I so resistant to doing this diet? How do all of you do it?

Your not alone. I was banded on Nov 17th and by Thanksgiving had mash potatoes and turkey. I am going to the doc tom.I have 2 cc's filled. I think i need more. Hand in there! This is a bumpy and confusing ride :confused:

Hey everyone, Well on nov 17th I was banded... did the whole soup and mushy food thing. Now I am eating reg food . Of course not as much- i was banded with 2cc. I have a doc apt tomor. So I will ask for specific directions then. i have lost a total of 7 pounds. Is this normal? Am I suppose to be eating reg food or not? I feel guilty just looking at food. Any advice? I am so confused

Hey everyone, Well on nov 17th I was banded... did the whole soup and mushy food thing. Now I am eating reg food . Of course not as much- i was banded with 2cc. I have a doc apt tomor. So I will ask for specific directions then. i have lost a total of 7 pounds. Is this normal? Am I suppose to be eating reg food or not? I feel guilty just looking at food. Any advice? I am so confused

Jerry! Hope your having a better day buddy! I got banded Nov 17th. I actually joined this group 1 month before. I am glad I did! I was so lost. I too have these band habits. Eat too much, love fast food, and candy is my favorite! The other night, I thought to myself why? Why, did I do this, if I am not willing to work on my "head" hunger and depression. It works hand in hand. Small victories. I need this band to help me achieve my goal, but I also need to love myself and celebrate small victories. Its a balance that we all need to find.. and its hard. We can all do this together.