My bad surgery day story is about the hospital and not the surgery itself.
I was taken from recovery to my room, where shortly after the anesthesia wore off. I asked for pain meds and was told she would be right down. I also needed some ice Water and those sponge things to wet your mouth because I was so dry I couldn't talk. My mom got me ice because the nurse wasn't coming. When the nurse finally came in she said "you're in this much pain, I need to call your doctor". Whatever, just give me what you got cause I felt like dying. I got meds at 11am and then again at 2pm. This same nurse got me up walking and said she'll show me the first time, but I'm on my own after. I was forced to get out of bed alone, walk around, reach behind my bed to the other side and unplug my IV pole. Upon return I had to do the same to plug it back in. She put a hat in my toilet to measure urine, but never came back. It was overflowing in my toilet. I saw her at 2pm and didn't see anyone again until the night shift nurse came on at 8pm. I had no pain meds from 2 till 8. I asked many times. The same nurse upon my first walk put the heart monitor in the pocket in the gown, then tapped it twice saying "there you go", right on the biggest incision. I went to the moon! I was left alone for 5 hours and I laid there crying. I called my boyfriend who was out of town and cried some more. The night nurse came on and said I shouldn't walk alone on morphine, that unplugging the machine was her job, that I shouldn't go 5 hours without meds when I have morphine ordered up to once an hour if I need, and she got me water, which I didn't have since 11am when that original cup came. She apologized for the lack of care and told the nurse manager about my care. The following day I was taken for x-ray. The tech leans in and asks if there's any chance I'm pregnant. I told her I just had abdominal surgery....no I'm not. She then asks if I have a belly ring in. I think they'd make you take it out for surgery if I did. They didn't know how to help me onto the table and back up again. Then I go back up to my room and some new nurse comes in to take my blood pressure. She puts the cuff on the arm with the IV!! That hurt SO bad! The blood from my arm went back into the iv line and also spurted out of my hand. Once again I cried, wanting to go home already. The nurse manager came in and went over my chart, noting the 5 hour lapse in pain meds and apologized. The following day home from surgery the hospital administrator called to apologize and to assure me that the nurse would be reprimanded appropriately for her actions and assured me that witholding medical care is not what their hospital is about. I have yet to tell my surgeon because I am only 4 days post op but I'm planning on it during my first visit for the staple removal.