This is one thing that I am very scared about. I love my bf of 2 years so much and he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Instead of saying that he is happy for me...all he says is that he's scared that once I lose the weight, I will want to start going out more and will probably meet a younger better looking guy. It really hurts me everytime he says stuff like this. I can never even imagine doing something like that to him. Along with reassuring him that I would never hurt him like that, I have started to tell him that we can both start watching what we eat and we can both start getting more exercise in. This way it's not only my weight loss journey...it's his too and we're doing it TOGETHER. This seems to help a little whenever the subject comes up. Hopefully, it works out after the surgery is done. Does anyone have any other tips to help prevent major issues between us after the surgery??:frown: