sheryl2009
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2 years has passed since you registered at LapBandTalk! Happy 2nd Anniversary sheryl2009!
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Well looks as if my time is almost here. I have been thinking about this for sometime and no it seems as if everything is falling into place.Part of me dont know if i can do this or not the other half wants to very bad. I know that this is gonna be hard work see some people love to eat. We eat for different reasons .
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Well looks as if my time is almost here. I have been thinking about this for sometime and no it seems as if everything is falling into place.Part of me dont know if i can do this or not the other half wants to very bad. I know that this is gonna be hard work see some people love to eat. We eat for different reasons .
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Hi Sheryl,
I agree with you whole heartedly about trying to please everyone in my life except (me). Sometimes I feel my poor choices in my life have lead me to the point am at now. My 2 children are the center of my whole being, and they do need me more than anything in this world.I had my first official appointment today, and I feel really good about the choices am now making. I really do appreciate you being so transparent with me about somethings in your life. So many people betray having a perfect life and God knows I've never had one of those. My faith in God and loving support systems really keep me grounded.At this point in my life things can only get better for me. It is really hard for me to give back to myself, because am so accustomed to being there for everyone else! I really hope things continue to work out for you in your personal life and in your weight lost goals.
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Hi Shonette I have been reading your blog and some of your posts and my heart goes out to you. A part of me feel that you are trying to please other people and not yourself. You are a beautiful woman and I think your husband cheated because of his insucirties. I think that once you lose the weight he will either have to roll with the flow. You need a confidence builder take a good look at who you realy are. We are all strong black women who have forgotten that. So many times i have questioned myself i my husband has cheated or not. There has been months when we have not made love to each other. I have often questioned if my weight had something to do with it. I hope you get banned for you and i hope you find the happines you are looking for
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Hi Sheryl,
All of this is new to me and it's always good to be able to have someone with some of the same similiar concerns.
Stay focused on your goals.
Shonette
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How many people have looked at them selves and woundered what will I look like after the weightloss. My husband is very supporative but he has said that there are a lot of women who get the surgery that leave thier husbands. I feel that this surgery will not only change my apperance but will make me more confident. I dont think it will make me leave my husband. The women/men who do leave were just pretending anyway. Who thinks true love can with stand it all? Why do u think we put so much emphesis on looks? I think people are people no matter what they look like. Do any one feel that they did not get the job they wanted because of the way they look. We use to have to worry about our race or religion. funny how this world has changed. I am proud of everone on this site who has decided to take back the power from all those who make fun of us, or put us down to make themselves lool good.:thumbup:This is a new year lets make it one to remember.
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How many people have looked at them selves and woundered what will I look like after the weightloss. My husband is very supporative but he has said that there are a lot of women who get the surgery that leave thier husbands. I feel that this surgery will not only change my apperance but will make me more confident. I dont think it will make me leave my husband. The women/men who do leave were just pretending anyway. Who thinks true love can with stand it all? Why do u think we put so much emphesis on looks? I think people are people no matter what they look like. Do any one feel that they did not get the job they wanted because of the way they look. We use to have to worry about our race or religion. funny how this world has changed. I am proud of everone on this site who has decided to take back the power from all those who make fun of us, or put us down to make themselves lool good.:thumbup:This is a new year lets make it one to remember.
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What test did your doc require pre op?
sheryl2009 replied to sheryl2009's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Thanks everyone for your input. You are so right i will jump thru hoops to get my surgey. I have taken all the test the insurance rquired and I have my approval from them. Now it is just a matter of having the doc required test and setting a date. -
What test did your doc require pre op?
sheryl2009 posted a topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Do your doctor require any health related test before he performs surgery? If so what test. I have to meet with the surgeon on Jan 22 and i will get my surgery date. -
Today was a good day. This is the start of a new year and a new beginnig for me. I look at this as making my new years resolution and actually being able o keep it. We tend to make the same one all he time(this year i am gonna loose the weight). It is funny how excited and scared we become al l at the same time.There are so many things i have planned for my life once the weight is gone. My first change is to my career. This is what i have wanted for so long. I think as mothers and wilves we forget we are people to. We put everone else above us. But this is something just for me. I am almost 40 years old but that does not mean my lifeis over. I want to enjoy life to the fulliest:sneaky:
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Today was a good day. This is the start of a new year and a new beginnig for me. I look at this as making my new years resolution and actually being able o keep it. We tend to make the same one all he time(this year i am gonna loose the weight). It is funny how excited and scared we become al l at the same time.There are so many things i have planned for my life once the weight is gone. My first change is to my career. This is what i have wanted for so long. I think as mothers and wilves we forget we are people to. We put everone else above us. But this is something just for me. I am almost 40 years old but that does not mean my lifeis over. I want to enjoy life to the fulliest:sneaky:
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Thank you for your words of encouragement
