I have work, so I am unable to read you entire post but I got the gist and you are right, that is haw doctor cywes is. But I have been going to him every month since my surgery on march 26 2007 and I'll tell you he is always trying to find a way to most effeciantly help each individual and untill you start meeting with him frequently one on one, you probably wont be able to see this. He does come off as quite the jerk sometimes but he isn't. He trully is a good doctor. He makes a lot of statements based on sterio types but give him a chance, he does have a LOT of patients and for a lot of them, these things are the way they live their lifes. I've lost 123pds since my surgery and I owe a lot of credet to cywes because yes, i did the work, but i couldn't have done it without him. you just have to be tolerant and patient. hear what he says and take what you can from him. he's a good doctor, i recomend him.
-Stacia Brownlee