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So my hunni is blessed to be naturally thin...less than 5% body fat on him...lucky man he is! But anyway...ever since I told him I was getting this surgery...he has been drinking Protein Shakes and lifting weights...going to the gym like crazy...and everything! He says he wants a lot more definition...(for what? to accompany the 6 pack he already has?) Whats up with that?? Is he trying to compete with me? The other day we had an argument about me getting the surgery...He tells me I am already beautiful..and that I dont need to change a thing, then he says he thought I was a confident woman..and he may not even want to be with someone who feels as though they need to alter themselves...but the fact that I weight 287lbs means nothing to him!! What is the deal?? We are both 21..and he gets to run around like a regular man his age...but for me..he wants me to stay fat? hmmmmm Can someone please tell me what the hell is this man thinking!!! :thumbup::cursing::cursing:

thank you all...I am going to upload a couple of pictures of my hunni to my profile so you all can see the culprit.
I recently lost 40lbs on my own with sparkpeople.com, and he supported that to the fullest, we went jogging togather, and even got me a membership with the gym where he works. Then I gave up on my weight loss journey in April..and thats when I decided to have the surgery.
There is an array of things that he could be thinking, obviously and I really think he may be scared.
I met him at a party in college 3 years ago and I walked up to him and let him know he was going to be my boyfriend by the end of the week....no surprise that he was my boyfriend by the end of the week. He proposed to me last December and I told him I couldnt make a decision like this until I am finished school and making progress in my life. That way we will be able to grow togather completly. I really love him, and the things that we have been through I know he really loves me also (i.e. moving from NC here to DC knowing no one but me for us to be togather after I left college) I would hate to lose him because he is the first man that truly has loved me, all 324lbs of me when we first met.
Hopefully it will work itself out...

I am 13 weeks pregnant and I think my band has slipped because I am having problems with solids and with fluids. I am constantly throwing up. I have no Fluid in my band. I am done with morning sickness. Just can't eat or drink anything.
Has anyone experienced this while pregnant?