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blackonynx

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  1. Hi Tawanda, I hope to be where you are soon. Im getting banded in a couple of days, August 4th is my banding date. Am I nervous? Shaking in my boots. But I keep reminding myself of the main reason that Im doing this. and that is to better my health. I have type 2 diabetes and high B/P. for at least 12 years I've been on these meds and I feel the need to take control and try to get off of them. But if I start looking good along the way, then it's all good and I wont complain....LOL. I hope you read this message before my date and send me some tips and positive feedback. Thanks, and keep up the hard work.

  2. hello there, Our surgery date is nearing. Im still nervous but ready to get it started. Have you been sleeping well at night? Do you think you'll sleep well Monday night? ..LOL. Im going to do the best that I can. let me hear from you.

  3. Thanks again for the words that I really needed to hear right now. I hve been hearing good things all week long and told myself OK, now your're ready to do this. I went to the salon today and decided to mention it to my stylist "MISTAKE!". she immediatly said DON'T DO THAT! and went into detail about her cousin that is no long with us after a three month complication of a bowel blockage after gastric bypass. I told her PLEASE DON'T SAY THAT. my mind is set and I have too many medical problems that I need to try to get control of. she calmed down a minute on the topic and then later showed me a picture of her cousin. This is exactly why I dont want to tell folks untill about a month after its been done. Thanks for offering to talk when I need it.

  4. hey T, when you find out how to insert your pics, let me know. I went to my control panel and found no avatar..LOL

  5. hey girl, I read what you told lady-t, about not being afraid of the surgery, and about getting all worked up about it. because im doing the same thing, getting all worked up because of what Im hearing some say. I needed to hear those words fromone. thanks much, you're the only one that I've heard say dont be afraid, and dont get worked up........THANKS!!

  6. hey guys, If you have already had your surgery, was it hard for you to go to sleep the night before going to the hospital? I'm one week away from having mine and I cant even sleep now. I'm too anxious and nervous. It seems as if im waking up every 30 minutes thinking about it. Let me know how you dealt with it.

  7. blackonynx

    August Bios

    hey jailin, will you be doing any protein post-op. thats very essential Im told. feel better soon!!:biggrin:
  8. Hi, I was surfing old blogs and see that you had your surgery date the same time last year as I will be this up coming 8-4-09. its good to hear that you went back to work in a weeks time, because I am suppose to do the same if all goes well. reply if you can, Thanks!

  9. blackonynx

    August Bios

    OK here I go. My name is ebony and i am 47 years old. I am married with 3 grown children. I am 5'3" tall and weigh 250 lbs. I too have joint pain, diabetes, and high B/P. I will be banded on August 4th. I am excited,nervous and scared. My doc do not push the pre-op diet, but he said it would be ok if I wanted to do that. I know that doing the pre-op diet helps you to heal and helps the surgeon by reducing the liver. The optifast shakes is what I will start on Tuesday. even 1 week can be helpful. Good luck to all!!!
  10. thank you for the words of encouragement. Yes, I did belong to a support group, but I cancelled out of having surgery 2 or 3 times and when I finally made up my mind to do it, they were in the process of refunding my pre-op money. The Doctor Im seeing now also have a support group, but they only meet once monthly and not weekly. The process here is moving along so quickly that I've only met with the group once, and only 4 people there. The weekly support group was much larger but the people didnt talk to you at all. This smaller group is a lot more open,freindly,and we have even exchanged phone numbers. They are very helpful. And Yes again, I do want everyone here to be my support group...Thanks!

  11. hi, I too had to go through cardiac test for a host of things. One thing you were so right about, and thats the fact the we have to find a way to lose this weight. My Doc has been telling me for years now to lose the weight. I have tried and tried with little success. Lets keep in touch. I will post pics soon. I will be banded on 8/04/09. Keep me in your prayers, I need it. Thanks!

  12. Hi, I will be banded in 2 weeks and getting nervous. I really do want and need to do this, but I guess Im looking for all the support and encouragement that I can get. I will be posting pics soon.

  13. hi there, my date is also on the 4th. I was immediatly approved too. I am also excited, but nervous and scared as well. I've been thinking of doing this for years and now the time is here. Let's keep in touch I will post pics soon. If not tonight, than by tomorrow

  14. hi, you have so many responses that I started not to. But I had to let you know that I needed to see those pictures for inspiration to me. I'll be banded in 2 weeks and afraid of the whole thing, both before and after. thanks for posting

  15. hi, did you go through with it? I have my surgery set for 8/04/09. I had stage freight and backed out several times before, but Im hangging in there this time. keep me in your prayers and i'll keep you in mine. good luck!

  16. Hi, wells it good to hear that you didnt need pain meds. everyone is telling me that when they woke up, they said Lord, What have I done. my date is set for 2 weeks away, I hope I do as well as you. thanks for some positive words.

  17. blackonynx

    I was so stuck I thought I needed to call a plumber

    was it painful? when were you banded, and how much have you lost? glad you're feeling better. I haven't been banded yet, and that sounds scary
  18. blackonynx

    Surgery is Tomorrow!

    sounds like you have it all together. Im having mine in 2 weeks. I hope I can stay as calm as you sound. i'll be starting the protein shakes tomorrow. good luck, and Im sure you'll be fine.
  19. hey,I am. August 4th. When is yours?

  20. you've done well. keep it up. hope to join you with my own journey in about 4 weeks. hopefully, you can give me some helpful tips.

  21. blackonynx

    My Awesome Journey

    :thumbup::thumbup:yOU REALLY DO LOOK GREAT! THANKS FOR YOUR POSSITIVE INPUT. I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT THIS FOR YEARS. MY CO-WORKER HAD THE BYPASS AND IM GETTING JEOLOUSE. THE LAP BAND IS THE WAY THAT I WANT TO GO, BUT I'VE BEEN SO AFRAID TO DO IT BECAUSE OF ALL OF THE NEGATIVITY THAT COMES ALONG WITH WLS OF ANY KIND. THANKS AGAIN FOR YOUR INSPIRATION.
  22. I am searching for some of dr. Bour's band patients. I have started my pre-surgery diet, and getting nervous the closer i get to my surgery date. Com'on, give me some support. Let me know how you made it through these times and what to expect after surgery
  23. you go girl! I will be banded in 3 weeks. Am I nervous? Yes. Am I ready to start losing? Yes. This is an inspiring comment. Thanks a lot. bigmama3974@yahoo.com you and any other banders feel free to email me and keep in touch.

  24. blackonynx

    me 1 yr ago terrible pics

    congrats! you have done well
  25. Hi, I am so excited about posting on this forum. I am hoping to find a lot of friends here that are having the lap band procedure done. Please feel free to respond to this post. I am in the sc area. If you are having lap band, lets keep in touch!

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