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Speaking of unfills TracyinKS where are you? It was good to see you at the doc's office the other day. Are you feeling any better? How has the unfill gone?

Personally I still would have taken out some fill though maybe not as much as I did. The office only wanted to take 1cc out and I opted for 2.5cc when she told me that she had been able to pull out just over 12cc's in my 10cc band. But then again I was really struggling with being filled too tightly at the time. I had acid reflux something terrible and had just been dragging my feet on getting the unfill I knew I needed. I guess my non-medical advice would be that if you are comfortable that you could easily get in for an emergency unfill at anytime of day/night if you were to have a problem post surgery then I'd agree with the reccomendation you got to leave well enough alone. If however, you are somewhere that it is difficult to get in without a long drive or wait then you might consider a small unfill as a precaution.

Congratulations (I Hope?) I'd take that approval letter and run with it. Sue then sue them if necessary after the fact.

I am so sorry you are having to go through so many hurdles. Another view might be that all these roadblocks are there just to remind you afterwards how much you really fought for this, when you might need that little extra mental push. Good Luck and I'll be praying for you! "Belief preceeds the Miracle"

OK it is way too late for me to be posting responsibly. Worse I've already tortured one other thread with this post. But, please forgive me for the "Korn" factor. here goes.... I just got done watching a 4-hour silly Fantasy mini-series with Beau Bridges no less. I know I'm a geek. But two korny phrases kept popping up in the movie that I couldn't get out of my head. The more I heard them the more I felt them somehow appropriate. "Only through belief can one truly see" and "Faith preceeds the miracle." In other words for us to see ourselves reaching our goals we must first believe (or have Faith) that they are even possible. OK you can all stop gaggin now.

Thankfully I was able to get in for a fill yesterday. The doc I use has been very backed up for the last few months but has finally got some needed additional staff hired and trained. I can already tell I have some restriction back but am afraid it still isn't enough. Through the holidays I felt so loose I'd eat way more than I wanted and still not feel full. You would think I could have just embraced and enjoyed the freedom to eat old foods like pastas and breads. But it was miserable feeling constantly hungry and constantly watched with a critical eye by my family. Now with this new fill I am able to get full on modest meal but am still finding myself hungry and wanting to graze within an hour or two of eating. I have another appointment for a fill in 4 weeks. Hopefully this one was at least enough to stem any weight gain until the next one.

Hi Karey, I've been telling people who have been asking about pics to look at page 9 but just realized it is page 15 that has the one month pics added in. I have my 3 month follow up appt on the 25th and might post some more photos then but don't think they will really show any difference. Infact I fear they would show a regression. I haven't changed my ticker but I've been creeping up to the 180 mark which is real scary. I can definitely tell I still have swelling (all over not just in the stomach) but am having a hard time believing that I haven't gained some weight. After all I started pre-surgery at 173 then they removed over 10 pounds. I even hit 163 once, hence my ticker. So how could I possibly be walking around with 17+ pounds of swelling?

OK it is way too late for me to be posting responsibly. Forgive me for the "Korn" factor. But here goes.... I just got done watching a 4-hour silly Fantasy mini-series with Beau Bridges no less. I know I'm a geek. But two korny phrases kept popping up in the movie that I couldn't get out of my head. The more I heard them the more I felt them appropriate comments for this thread and for my own journey. "Only through belief can one truly see" and "Faith preceeds the miracle." In other words for us to see ourselves reaching our goals we must first believe (or have Faith) that they are possible. OK you can all stop gaggin now.

Try page 9 of this thread. I think that is where at least one set is posted.

Just noted the wierd "wording" on the links. Both links work but they don't read like they did when I typed them. The first link is to the E-Store area of New Hope Bariatrics website. The second link is to New Hope's main page. Odd but oh well it works.

Dianne we seem to be following each other around today. Some suggestions for starting the support group might be to start small. Get a few of you to agree to meet at a band-friendly restraunt and split a meal, or maybe even meet one or two bandsters at a mall and try to walk a few laps with them. Even if you do more shopping than walking just feeling free to discuss what is going on with someone else with the band can really help.

Sunsett - It was good to get a chance to talk to you over the phone. Here is the link. :: E-Store Just in case anyone is wondering. I don't get any kind of credit for anyone that purchases these garments just figured I'd offer the link for anyone interested in the discount. I heard about it at my last support group. It is a link through to a company called Countour MD from the :: LAP-Band® System :: Surgery Weight Loss Procedure website. According to the support group speaker from Countour MD if you link through from New Hope you get upwards of a 30% discount depending on the garment compared to if you just go straight to Countours website. Though to be honest I just tried looking a couple garments up by going through the link and by going straight to the website without the link and saw no difference. Perhaps it doesn't show until you get to checkout, and I didn't have time to check that out.

I know what you mean. I think its because the campains are so expensive to run that candidates with poor results in the first couple states just drop out rather than to continue to spend more money on what is beginning to appear to be a fruitless campain. Personally, I kind of wish all the states would hold their votes all on the same day like they do for the final election. I also sometimes wish when it comes to the final election for the presidency that the news media weren't able to start predicting results for the elections before the polls were closed across the entire country. It's not really fair to states on the West Coast who haven't even got out to vote yet and the media is already "declaring" a winner.

A few things I've done to try to kick my motivation back in gear have included: - Joining a weight loss challenge thread on lapbandtalk - lurking amongst the threads of new bandsters in the hopes that there fresh enthusiasm will rub off on me. - Attending local lapband support groups. - Setting a small (or large) reward for myself if I reach a small interim goal.

Hey there Georgia. I know where you are coming from. I've gone through the same bouts of slow to non-existant weight loss and all out apathy to working the band like I can/should. Infact I'm trying to pull myself out of one right now and make that final push to my goal weight. It's hard I know. And I can't give you any great advice. I envy those here that have been able to keep themselves motivated all the way through or are able to kick themselves back into gear quickly after a setback. Sadly, I'm not one of them. One thing that has helped me get through these times mentally at least, is to keep reminding myself that this is just a phase. The band is still helping me in that it is keeping me from regaining all the weight I lost while I'm in this funk and will be there to help me lose even more when I'm ready to get my head back into the game.

Can't help you much but thought I'd say "Hi" as I'm in the KC area as well. Would Omaha or Lincoln, Nebraska be any closer for you? I think there is also one or maybe two options in St. Joe though I'm not positive as I know several people from St. Joe area that still drive down to KC. Anywho - Good luck to you and welcome to lapbandtalk.

Oh YEAH BABY!! I was able to claim every nickle and dime I spent the year I was banded. I had a VERY nice refund that year. Don't forget once you hit the threshold you can claim everything your family spent. Dentist visits, doctor co-pays, pharmacy expenses, I've even heard you can include travel costs though I didn't include that on mine. You also don't have to worry about trying to track down every receipt, just call each doctor, dentist, pharmacy your family may have gone to throughout the year and ask them to send you a statement for the year.

Wondered when someone would get around to posting about Iowa. Got to say I'm lovin' Hilary's 3rd place showing.:whoo: Just can't stand that gal, tried, can't, sorry. My MIL thinks I'm an embarrasement to the female race for not supporting Hillary but personally I'd be more embarassed to be an American or a female if she was the best we could do for our first Female president. To all the Hillary supporters, I am sorry if my comments offend. Despite my lack of respect for Hillary I have nothing but respect for anyone else who chooses to take the time to get interested enough to back someone even Hillary:heh:.

Glad to meet you Ohiogyrl and good luck on your journey. I am sorry to hear about your best friend's reaction. Sadly, it is not an uncommon problem.

Subway type shops - Tuna or chicken salad in a Pasta cup with no bread. Chipotle - I like the Barbacoa Beef Burrito Bowl with black Beans & hot salsa (no rice) - If you can stretch it into 3 meals like I can when I'm at my "sweet" spot then its around 210 calories per meal with a high Protein / low carb count. Wendy's - Chili, Refried Beans I will also order Chicken Strips from Wendy's, Kentuky Fried or McD's in a pinch but it's not the best option considering its batter fried.

That makes me feel a bit better. I know the whole massage thing is helping keep the scar tissue from building but I just haven't been able to keep it up as much as I thought I should be doing it. I think I could handle 4 min a day, and I have been getting in for an hour massage once a month, wish I could do it once a week but its all I can afford right now.

Happy New Year to all of you out in Bandland as well. And now that the crazies (I mean locals) have finally tapered off with all their gunfire I'm going to sign-off and go to bed. Grrrrr... I may see banning gun ownership from law abiding citizens because of the large number of people killed by guns as dumb as banning cars from everyone because of the even larger number of people that are killed by cars each year. But blankety blank I still wish I could get the idio..(I mean gun safety challenged people) around here to stop thinking New Year's was an excuse to see how many rounds of ammo they can pump into the air at one time. Thank the Lord no one has died from any of the falling bullets so far but I've heard there is a lot of car and roof damage attributed to it each year. And here I am in little old mid-west Kansas City, I can't imagine what LA or NY must sound like. OK rants over. Sorry for hijacking your thread. Good Night

Hi Janie - I can so relate to what you have written. Especially the part about the nagging feeling there is something you need to do which only leads to going to the kitchen for some more food. Heck, over 2 years out and 90+ pounds down there are still days I feel like that but NOT everyday. And there is a big difference in the guilt level associated with falling prey to those old patterns but knowing I am now moving 2 steps foward 1 step back instead of the other way around. Choosing the band is a very personal choice. None of us can make that choice for you. On this site you will find those who have raced to there goals and passed them. Those that feel they are taking a much slower path than they had hoped and a few that the band hasn't seemed to help. Personally I was always able to lose weight on just about any diet for awhile. I just was never able to maintain the lifestyle necessary to keep it off, or to get to that ever elusive goal. The band has definitely helped me. I tend to lose faster when I'm on a kick of following the high-protein regime but don't gain much if any weight back when I don't. This has given me the hope that when I do finally decide I am happy with where I'm at and quit making any attempts to lose the weight I should be able to maintain it much easier than I ever was before. I swear it is a 4-letter word but yes, the band is only a T-O-O-L. For me it was the tool I needed to keep my hunger in check while I tried to learn a new lifestyle and loose my unwanted weight. I wish you nothing but the best no matter what you decide. Good Luck and Much Happiness in the New Year. Oh, and I've also been there done that with the "home-made diaper" I would roll up a paper towel and put it under there or an extra long feminine pad. I also used antiperspirants and occasionally Athletes foot spray when it really got sore.

There are several threads here including my own with some pretty graphic pics. Others I can think of are Spyder, JulieNYC & Puddin. There was also a website I found once on google with some before/after tummy tuck shots though they were a mix of weight loss and just excess skin from life (such as pregnancies).

Yup, I'm not a doc nor do I play one on Lapbandtalk. But IMHO I can't imagine why the prior tummy tuck should be a problem. In fact I'm pretty sure I remember hearing of at least one other bandster out here that had a tummy tuck some years ago after losing some weight then recently was banded after gaining much of it back. Maybe she'll spot this thread and chime in as well.