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rrjones1974

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    rrjones1974 got a reaction from summerseeker in 7 day post op mental breakdown   
    Pray…. Prayer changed things. Everything! Ask God for what you want and he will answer in due time. You came too far to give up or let anything make you go back.
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    rrjones1974 got a reaction from summerseeker in 7 day post op mental breakdown   
    Pray…. Prayer changed things. Everything! Ask God for what you want and he will answer in due time. You came too far to give up or let anything make you go back.
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    rrjones1974 reacted to Crinkles in April 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    Hey all!!
    Thought it would be nice to have a thread for everyone whose having surgery in April!
    My sleeve is booked in for 12th April!..
    Currently feeling really excited a tad nervous!
    Look forward to getting to know everyone!

    Shelley x
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    rrjones1974 reacted to Nina1987 in Surgery in April!   
    I did my surgery 4/5 at Pompeii
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    rrjones1974 reacted to lizzie320 in Surgery in April!   
    I’m doing mine in Tijuana in April 6! So excited!
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    rrjones1974 reacted to lunar.crunch303 in 7 day post op mental breakdown   
    Hey all. I’m 7 days post op from gastric bypass. I don’t know how to change my profile from pre op right now.
    Things have been going really great actually. I’ve been handling things really well all things considered. Meeting my goals, even lightly walking and exercising every day. My mood was fantastic and I was blessed with very little pain.

    Before my surgery I went through a lot. I already got postponed several times over the course of 2 years, I started pursuing this in Nov 2019. I finally got scheduled in the middle of March. However I have been dealing with battling legal issues (retaliatory eviction and a civil rights discrimination case), a severely abusive relationship that I ended in the two weeks of my pre op, reporting him to several police agencies for the abuse, and just a LOT of emotional stress. It was hard but I did it and I felt so proud, and until today I felt amazing about it. I felt it was truly a test of sorts because I did not relapse with nicotine once, I didn’t binge eat the entire time.

    I hadn’t heard a single thing from my attorney about my eviction and I never got a response to my civil rights case in almost two months so I wasn’t expecting to get an email today in which I was severely slandered and read several upsetting abusive lies about me. The email wasn’t so much what bothered me. I had a great morning where I had tons of energy, I sang in the shower and danced around a little bit. Did my make up. It was just a minor set back, until I went to go tell my mother who I am staying with for just a little since I live in a basement level with a huge flight of dangerous stairs in my house. She was really dismissive and she wouldn’t listen to me. The whole situation was triggering me but I did what I was supposed to do, go tell my support. She was really mean to me and it completely set me off. I think I had one of those hormone reactions I was warned about, or perhaps just several weeks without any kind of food, quitting all my vices cold Turkey at the same time, everything just hitting me all at once but I lost it.

    I sobbed uncontrollably for several hours and I raged. I was so angry. Every time I thought I soothed myself, the crying would start again. I cried so hard I felt like I pulled something and now I’m in a lot of pain. I seriously wept and wailed for so long. I tried to reach out to supports but they were incredibly busy today. I finally decided to just go to sleep so I slept for several hours. I woke up and I feel only a little better, having stopped sobbing. But I feel like I got steam rolled. I do keep having sniffles and little crying fits. I lost all my momentum and motivation I had and I’m sincerely worried I’ll be permanently depressed again, which depresses me even further as I have felt so good the last few weeks. I didn’t relapse with over eating, I didn’t break my diet other than not meeting all my goals but I’m trying to catch up. I’m just so nauseated from crying so hard. Please tell me this will get better. What can I do? I’m still dealing with several toxic situations or the aftermath of them. I’m trying my best but I’m scared right now.
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    rrjones1974 reacted to DianeD73 in February 2022 Surgery Buddies   
    February 17 Is my surgery and I'm going to Mexico. Have been on low calorie diet since the 26th of December to January 15. Then I go on a High Protein til Feb 13th. 14th and 15th of February Just liquids.
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    rrjones1974 got a reaction from summerseeker in Surgery in April!   
    Hello everyone I’m having surgery April 29,2022 at Pompeii Surgical in Mexico. Anyone else having surgery there?
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    rrjones1974 reacted to ClareLynn in Back to ER   
    I went to the ER last night, less than a day after being released after my surgery because I wasn’t peeing properly. Just a few drops come out when I knew my bladder was full.

    They put a catheter in me (it hurt so bad and still does that I’m afraid to move) and sent me home. I am stuck in bed, can’t move, can’t sit because it hurts so bad from the catheter pressure. I can’t take care of myself, and have to wait for my surgeon on Monday to see me. It’s not clear what he can even do, and may need to stay like this until a urologist can see me.

    The surgeon on call was no help just told me to go to the ER. I feel really abandoned and I am terrified that having a catheter in this long is going to make it really hard to pee by myself later. I don’t know how I got into this mess but I am so scared.

    I’m just focusing on pain management and staying hydrated. Also making sure the catheter doesn’t backflow, I don’t know what I’m doing and am so upset they wouldn’t re-admit me.

    I had a drug resistant kidney infection and almost died 2 years ago and none of this feels very safe to have to try to deal with without any training.

    Just like, pray for me please.
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    rrjones1974 reacted to armartin98 in Hey There! Any December 2021 Surgery Friends?   
    I got my surgery date for the sleeve for December 22, 2021 in Sebastian, Florida. Let's get through the pre stuff together.
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    rrjones1974 got a reaction from SleeverSk in This surgery is bullshit...   
    Pay attention to the measurements not the scale. Also switch up on what you eat to trick your body out of the stall but with healthy stuff
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    rrjones1974 got a reaction from SleeverSk in This surgery is bullshit...   
    Pay attention to the measurements not the scale. Also switch up on what you eat to trick your body out of the stall but with healthy stuff

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