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Everything posted by tilly
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I will have to have a sleep study....need answers!
all I had the first night was a probe on my finger and I went to sleep. next night I had the tiny two pronged thing that they give you when you hve oxygen that just fit against the bottom of each nostril cant feel them at all when you have your cpap machine you can request those instead of the mask
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Pre-Op Diet
your liver holds about 4lbs of glycogen this is the "spender" of energy and its saved for the likes of marathon runners for when they hit that wall, out comes your glycogen and gives you a second wind. so the first thing you lose when you starve and need a lot more energy than your taking in is your glycogen deposit, as soon as you eat carbs again it comes back though natrurally if you lose the 4lbs of glycogen your liver gets a lot smaller and its easier for the surgeon to work in there.
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Why gas???
they inflate your abdomen and chest cavity with air so they can move around a bit easier in there, so a lot of people suffer with gas afterwards, I didnt so I was lucky, also for quite a while after banding your bowels are a bit off to say the least, your eating soft food and not a lot of fiber so you get quite windy as well
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What was your turning point?
I painted my daughter's bedroom the other day - something I would have never tried before (I wasn't going to put my 355 lb body on a latter with a 250 lb weight limit!!!). That made me stop and think, wow! this is really working for me! whaddaya mean you couldnt decorate when you were 355lbs !! I could have built a house as long as I was sitting down and you didnt want it more than my arms reach high lol I got to be a dab hand at everything providing I was sitting down or my back ached and my legs turned to Jello after 2 minutes oh and providing I didnt have to reach down to the floor its amazing how you cope when you think about it isnt it
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PBing on everything! Please read this!
yes your fill can get tighter, but its more likely that after the PBs your tum is swollen and needs to cool down whenever I pb I go onto soup for a couple of days to give it a chance, or I just keep on pb ing good luck awwww
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lap band LONG TERM
the benefits Ive had from my band so far are so good that I would have it removed and replaced in a heart beat, the pain after surgery, the messing about with the fills, all worth it. I hope this is permanent but if it goes wrong I would do it again and again and again. most prosthesis, like heart valves and hip replacements arnt permanant but it wouldnt stop me having them if I needed them.
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OMG I crossed my legs !!!!
the other night I was watching TV and my husband came into the room and stood in front of me and said "ive never seen you do that before" I said "what?" he pointed at my legs and I realised I HAD THEM CROSSED !!!!!!!!!! Its been years and years since I had done that and I did it without even thinking about it then I thought about all what I could do that I couldnt do a year ago like prepare the dinner without sitting down at the worktop stand and wash the dishes without leaning on the sink and doing them with one hand. walk to the bottom of our small garden without worrying how I was going to make it back breathe easier walk up stairs and not have to plonk myself down on the bed to get my breath back go upstairs for something without thinking about it and psyching myself up for the journey reach all parts of myself in the shower without using a long handled brush wearing shoes two sizes smaller so much more choice clothes 7 sizes smaller again much more choice the list is endless I think. wonderful isnt it three cheers for my band my true and trusted friend :clap2: :clap2:
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breast reduction questions
yes I would definately wait until you reach your goal or near it I was a 54dd bra one year later I am a 46 B and getting smaller by the day when I was my right weight for one brief shining moment I was between an a cup and a b so had to buy b cups and take them in by sewing along the cup a small seam. !! a lot of your bust might be simply fat, so wait and see what happens--you might be wanting to have them made bigger by then ha ha good luck
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What was your turning point?
well, I had given up, sleeep apnea and over 400lbs I thought well, ive been on a diet all my life and weigh more than 200lbs than when I started!! so I gave up, resigned myself to an early death and was in the supermarket, there was a tap on my shoulder and there was a friend of a friend whom, last time I saw her was 400lbs ish and there she was thin as a pole !! we went for a coffee and she told me she had had the band and I thought Ill have some of that !! and here I am thank god I met that lady or I would be on the way to my grave now.
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3 weeks out- question about pain in chest
yes sorry gas, lol no you can get wind anytime band or no band and at the moment your tum is particularly delicate or your eating a lot of gas causing mushy stuff lol or perhaps your bowels arent working right yet, under the heart is a prime site for wind the back and shoulders are also prime sites aww I feel for you as it can be very painful cant it Gas Pain Gas Pain is usually a sharp persistent pain under the left breast and sometimes up to the shoulder, associated with pain in the upper left abdomen and often with belching. http://www.byu.edu/shc/library/common/chst_pn.html
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3 weeks out- question about pain in chest
yes sorry gas, lol no you can get wind anytime band or no band and at the moment your tum is particularly delicate or your eating a lot of gas causing mushy stuff lol under the heart is a prime site for wind the back and shoulders are also prime sites aww I feel for you as it can be very painful cant it
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3 weeks out- question about pain in chest
sounds like wind, maybe try some wind pills see what happens I had the same until someone suggested wind and I thought they were wrong but they were right lol good luck
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PB? Worse Experience of My Life!!!
ordinary water or drinks dont work they make the pb worse, it has to be fizzy but beware its darned painful
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To Fill or Not to Fill?
Photonut, no you shuoldnt be hungry every three hours if your filled right, in fact Ive found once Im filled right, I never ever get hungry, peckish yes, head hunger yes, you know when you fancy a steak and all the trimmings but know darned well you cant have one lol but as for being hungry every three hours the only time ive been like that was when I needed a fill and could eat faster, eat more and wanted more food more often. but if your only eating 800 cals a day and are losing 2lbs a week steadily, your doing fine - marvellous in fact. its sometimes difficult to stay at 800 cals even with tight restriction as the rubbish goes down a treat doesnt it. like Cookies and candy and chocolate. you sound like your doing ok but you still shuoldnt be hungry --are you hungry?, tum growling etc. that could well be because your eating AND drinking at the same time, so your pouch isnt staying full, your washing away the food much faster than without a drink
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To Fill or Not to Fill?
nooo you wont be sealed at all, lol, dont worry, most of us experience the tighter band in the morning than the evening, I drink an ice cold glass of Water, that seems to tighten it up, once you have proper restriction you will learn what you can and cannot eat, unfornunately this is a trial and error process but if you stick to only eating what you can break with the side of your fork till you get used to it. I asked my surgeon what this tighter band in the morning meant and he didnt have a clue, he said its just a quirk of the band. so hey ho !! you will also find that you have good restriction one day and not so much the next so bear with it for a few days or even a couple of weeks after your fill and it will kick in properly. you will know about it if your ever "sealed" it happened to my friend, she thought the water had gone down that they gave her to drink and off we went. 100 miles later she was burping and couldnt swallow her own saliva without bringing it back up, so turned around and went back by which time she was extremely distressed and de-hydrated as it was about 6 hrs since her fill and couldnt even swallow a tiny drop. she tried coffee and PBd badly. the look of releif on her face when he did a quick un-fill was a sight to behold. so no, you are never sealed unless it is a complete seal and you need some taken out. always make sure the water has gone away before you leave the doctors office and make sure it isnt running away too fast either. it sounds complicated but you soon get the hang of it lol good luck
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Anesthesia with patients with sleep apnea?
Ihad severe sleep apnoea and my surgeon insisted I bring my cpap machine to the hospital. that night I wore it and every hour on the hour a nurse checked I was breathing ok. Its just encase your "wake up and breathe" instict doesnt kick in after the anasthetic other than that I had no probs whatsoever after the anasthetic or during it and I was super obese and a smoker and old, very very old *sigh
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Got 1st negative remark...
you know what they say, if you want to look thin, find a fat friend. shes not a friend shes a jealous catty **** and someone who cant bear for her husband to notice someone. sounds like a very insecure "friend" to me. I have been through something similar and that friendship just drifted away, I cant help wondering when I see her with her new found friend who is as big as i was pre banding and someone the old "friend" used to laugh at behind her back.
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after 8 weeks I lost 7lbs today
christmas eve I was rushed to hospital with a strangulated umbilical hernia 3 hour op on christmas day, nothing to eat for 4 days, the surgeon cut away 2kg of fat and skin, I hardly ate for a month for the first time in my life I had NOOO apetite. did I lose an ounce? NO have I been able to lose an ounce since? NO I was in despair after doing so well with my weight loss before the op. I ate 1000 cals I ate 300 cals I ate 700 cals I ate 1500 cals I ate 2000 cals I did exercise ish I stuffed my face I cried this morning I got up and 7lbs off since I last got weighed on SUNDAY whoo hoo its moved again
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To Fill or Not to Fill?
sounds to me like you need a fill. when your at the right level you cant eat a lot, maybe a side plate of food, cant eat bread (most people cant anyway) and are very full afte a very small amount of food, say a weight watchers microwave meal or a tin of Soup. a good way Ive found to tell if my fill is fine is to take a good gulp of Water or coffee and if you burp right away or you can feel it taking its time going down then your usually ok.
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Another newbie
hello from the UK and good luck with the op and the banding journey
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Home from the hospital
Im so glad your feeling well and looking foreward to the journey to being thin ish lol good luck
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Today Is The Day
OHHH good luck and see you when you wake up banded and looking foreward to a new life and a skinny one best wishes awwww good luck again
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Any singers out there??
Im an absolutely fantastic singer, I can tell cos the neighbours keep throwing bricks through my windows so they can hear me better !!
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Ban Food Ads?
considering the money the advertising industry pays for ads to go on TV,billboards, magazines,newspapers etc, surely they work. I would also say that they didnt make me want to go out and buy a particular thing, but I dont think these people would waste all that money if the ads didnt work. as for banning them, well, I still dont know about that question, but think about what you would put in your shopping trolly if there were no ads to tempt you or inform you,would it all be generic foods and all healthy choices? soap powder youve never heard of? cheapest perfume you could find, biggest and cheapest bar of soap? I still think better labeling on the package is the way to go so we can make those choices when were feeding our families, and even thats no use if there is no education about eating properly in the first place. best way to educate is by advertising and getting the info out there. then again, I doubt there are many overweight people who dont know about how to eat healthily, Im an expert, just cant do it, healthy food is in the main, boring, difficult to prepare and time consuming, chicken salad with alfaffa beans or a double cheeseburger?? I know what I would have if I didnt have this danged band lol
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PB? Worse Experience of My Life!!!
someone told me that if your having trouble dislodging the blockage, to take a drink of fizzy soda, it hurts but it brings the "lodge" right up only to be used in dire emergencys !! lol WHOOO HOOO OR SHOULD THAT BE COCKK A DOOODLE DOOOO I did the chicken thing and the chicken went !! thanks for the tip (the cat has left home) :nervous