Leslie F

I'm 66. Scheduled for abdomenoplasty next month and was wondering if I was too old.. if I get 10 years with a flatter tummy, I'm not too old.
You have over half your life for a flatter tummy. Do it!

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I'm 66. Scheduled for abdomenoplasty next month and was wondering if I was too old.. if I get 10 years with a flatter tummy, I'm not too old.
You have over half your life for a flatter tummy. Do it!

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I'm 66. Scheduled for abdomenoplasty next month and was wondering if I was too old.. if I get 10 years with a flatter tummy, I'm not too old.
You have over half your life for a flatter tummy. Do it!

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I'm 66. Scheduled for abdomenoplasty next month and was wondering if I was too old.. if I get 10 years with a flatter tummy, I'm not too old.
You have over half your life for a flatter tummy. Do it!

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69 and going to have something done, just collecting some $$!! If you want it, go for it! Both my kids are older than you!

I'm the perfect age for a facelift...65! Just waiting for some money to land in my lap!! Go for it!

I know - I could have kids that age...

Wait... 38 is considered old now? 🥺😭

I am so sorry it has taken me so long to get back on here. I've been jumping through hoops all over the place.
I just got my surgery date for January 28th.
Husband still insists I don't need the surgery but he has finally stopped saying we don't need to be together if I do have it.
Not sure what he is going to be like after I have the surgery, but if he continues to be, or becomes a real jerk like he was again...I will leave him. Life is too short to be unhappy and be with a person who treats their spouse like this.

Thank you all for taking the time to read my post and answer it too. I appreciate the support. I will be back soon. :)

Sounds like this is HIS problem. Without knowing him, it sounds as though he's insecure about himself.
Advice from an old retired RN- your health comes first. You do YOU.

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Sounds like this is HIS problem. Without knowing him, it sounds as though he's insecure about himself.
Advice from an old retired RN- your health comes first. You do YOU.

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13 weeks sleeve post op. A little Hair loss just began but that's ok.
I am just not hungry. The thought of eating a meal makes me sick to my stomach (literally.)
I'm losing 1-2 pounds a week. sleeping well. Feel fine. But living on greek yogurt and Protein Shakes and applesauce with added collagen. Oh- some fruit and nuts too.
Is this ok or am I developing some eating disorder? Anyone else in the same boat?
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I was able to take pretty big mouthfuls by a few weeks out. But, I don't think it's so much the size of the mouthful as how much you bring the cup/mug/bottle/etc to your lips. I find when I'm at home I'm great about getting my fluids in because I keep it right next to me and pick it up every few minutes. When I'm at the mall or whatever, it's much harder because I hate carrying things (I don't even carry a purse).
I have found since surgery that plain Water just isn't as appealing anymore (I used to love it) and neither is diet soda. I use the Starburst and Great Value brand sugar free drink flavoring packets (like Crystal Light, but I don't like that brand) and instead of adding to 16oz of water I add it to 24 oz of water. I also drink a ton of hot tea. These things help me drink more.

How did the relationship change? Like did you lose intrest in it?

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Sounds like this is HIS problem. Without knowing him, it sounds as though he's insecure about himself.
Advice from an old retired RN- your health comes first. You do YOU.

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5 weeks post sleeve and I've been physically hungry all day. I've not yet felt this.
Made a pizza for the teenager and i had 3 bites. It's sitting like the dough ball that it is in my pouch. I feel awful.
Lesson learned, i hope!

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I used to guzzle it and could get in a gallon day. Sipping? I struggle to get 32 ounces. Any hints?
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Sounds like this is HIS problem. Without knowing him, it sounds as though he's insecure about himself.
Advice from an old retired RN- your health comes first. You do YOU.

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Fantastic news!!! So happy for you!

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If you have a Lidl store nearby, they sell Fairlife in gallons!

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I often make an omelet with 1/4 cup of liquid egg whites, 2 oz of breakfast ham, 1/4 cup of shredded cheddar cheese and 1/4 cup of pico de Gallo

I search Pinterest for some ideas for soft food and beyond and found some great Soup recipes and such a variety of thing made in muffin cups, so just the right size. I’m only 9 days post op, so still full liquids, but looking forward to different flavors next week.  Search Bariatric diet. 

When I moved on from the liquid phase I started with Oikos Triple Zero yogurt, farina Cereal with almond milk, sweetener & cinnamon. During the soft food stage, I added scrambled eggs.
When I moved on to the modified regular diet, I had eggs with other cooking methods, high protein/ low carb Bagels with light cream cheese, oatmeal with mashed banana or sweeter & cinnamon. I have also had Protein waffles & pancakes with sugar-free Syrup.
I recently purchased the Keto bread from Aldi and had that toasted with egg & cheese for the first time today. I often still start the day with a Protein Shake, just to make sure I get that protein in.
I think I want to start making smoothies with some fruits, veggies, & added protein now that I am getting close to 3 months out. I hope you get some good ideas! It is helpful to hear what others eat!

1/3 cup cottage cheese with a tablespoon of oikos insteadof fruit. That's what I do.

I understand the not being interested in eating as I was the same. Wasn’t hungry either but I knew I had to eat to get nutrients into my body. I’d decided I wouldn’t rely on supplements & shakes but get everything I needed from what I ate. I ate scrambled eggs or rolled oats from when I was allowed - purée & soft foods stages - & tossed the shakes. You probably do need to start adding some solid ‘real’ foods into your diet especially if you’re weak & shaky . Try some thick vegetable & meat Soups then some slow cooked stews & braises (perfect with your weather cooling now). You won’t eat much but you have to get your tummy used to digesting solid food again.