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dmendiola

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    dmendiola reacted to Tb613 in Anyone for September 2020?   
    Completely agree! I'm allowed half a cup and after, I'm still hungry!
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    dmendiola got a reaction from deliadora in 1 week post op, stomache holding more than expected?   
    I am 1 week post op and everything I've read says 1/4 of a cup should fill you up. I ate 2/3 of a cup of thinned cream of wheat and i still felt like i had room for more. I also feel like I could drink an entire 11.5 ounce premiere Protein Shake without trouble. This makes me so nervous. Anyone else feel like their sleeve is larger than expected?
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    dmendiola reacted to IWantTheDream in Getting cold feet- VSG Pre-Op   
    I finally made up my mind after falling literally on my face three times and having to beg a stranger to help my daughter get me up while I had blood coming down my face at an amusement park when I fell in a dark spot on broken ground that you couldn’t see until I feel and was treated like a criminal by the young security guard that basically told me that thousands of people walk there every day and I was the only one who fell. I also had my mom die four months before that and she was bed ridden because she was over weight in the low 300’s but her hips and knees just gave out and wouldn’t hold her anymore. So she spent a year trapped in a bed and then died at home with me n my daughter who took total care of her. I myself was at 286lb and had high blood pressure and I was diagnosed with Barrett’s esophaguses and I said that’s it your only in your 40’s and your daughter needs you. So I just took a leap of faith and prayed I would make it out of surgery. I did. I got a hiatal hernia fixed and got the VSG on July 7 ,2020 as of today I am down to 226 LB . I would tell you take the leap and be there for your kids and yourself. You got this you can do it. Best of luck!
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    dmendiola reacted to LandoLivie in Getting cold feet- VSG Pre-Op   
    I think the nerves have settled...for the moment. I'm sure they will come back, but this IS something that I have to do. Thank you all for sharing your experiences and for the solid advice. @danahall5885. The last time I went to the doctor, I tried for the second time to back out as well. LOL. But after the doc and I talked I really felt better about my decision. Best of luck to each of you! I'm so proud of your accomplishments and drive to succeed. I'm looking forward to my next step.
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    dmendiola got a reaction from LandoLivie in Getting cold feet- VSG Pre-Op   
    I had to have bloodwork and a covid test on Saturday and surgery was scheduled for Monday. If I hadn't talked to a friend on Sunday whose 2 years out from this surgery I would have ran like Forrest Gump! I think last minute fear is very normal.
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    dmendiola reacted to catwoman7 in My VSG pouch too big?   
    you'll start feeling restriction once you start eating solid food, so no worries.
    I was able to drink much more quickly than I thought I should have, and I never had any pain or swallowing issues. I seriously started to think that maybe he didn't really do the surgery. But I sure noticed the restriction once I started eating solid food!
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    dmendiola reacted to catwoman7 in 1 week post op, stomache holding more than expected?   
    this is the most important time to follow your clinic's guidelines, since like the above poster said, you likely won't feel much (if any) restriction until you start on solid foods, and also, you likely had some nerves cut during the surgery, and it takes awhile for them to regenerate. So don't chase the full feeling - you're not going to get it for awhile. Just measure out however much you're supposed to eat or drink and just eat/drink that. I know it's weird, but...
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    dmendiola reacted to RickM in 1 week post op, stomache holding more than expected?   
    It's not that your stomach is holding more than you expect, rather as you are only having liquids and very soft mushy things, it is not holding it much at all, and letting move on through. Once you get onto more solid things, it should be much more restricted. Some will be very restricted on liquids if they have a lot of inflammation in the stomach from the surgery, but it's no problem if you don't (I didn't, either, and could down fairly large amounts of liquidy things even in the hospital, to no concern of the doc.)
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    dmendiola reacted to m5 in 1 year anniversary   
    Well today marks one year since I did the sleeve. I alsoo lost 200lbs. I cant even believe it. This surgery has changed my life. Thats all i wanted to say. Im proud of me
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    dmendiola reacted to MishaBusa in Anyone for September 2020?   
    Hiiiiii everyone!!! This is my first post and I am so happy I found this forum! AFTER A YEAR OF WAITING (covid delayed my surgery) I finally have a date of September 10th. Currently on the liquid diet and Im feeling great Sending lots of love & support xoxo
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    dmendiola reacted to MrsW6505 in Anyone for September 2020?   
    Sept 9 for me and Sept 23 for my husband! We are super excited to take this journey as we have tried everything you can think of over the past 10 years together. We have over 300lbs combined to loose and we are determined!
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    dmendiola reacted to drawingdami in Anyone for September 2020?   
    Same here. Still questioning if I am doing the right thing. I am so afraid that I will cause myself more health problems. But I am trying to just take it one moment at a time.
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    dmendiola reacted to drawingdami in Anyone for September 2020?   
    My RnY has FINALLY been scheduled for September 2nd. I was just about to get a surgery date in March when my state shut down due to COVID19.
    I wasn't a bit nervous earlier this year when I thought I would be getting surgery in April, but now I am like, AAAAAAAAAAGH! 😱😱
    My surgeon told me I will be in the OR for twice as long because I had a fundoplication surgery before and they have to undo that first. He also said I shouldn't be surprised if I have complications due to previous scarring from the fundoplication and my two kidney transplants (there is a whole lot o' things going on in there) But I am praying that I will miraculously come through with no problems. God is good.
    So yeah,😏 I could use a buddy.
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    dmendiola reacted to BriarRose in I DID IT !   
    I DID IT !
    I hit MY weight goal. NOT my surgeon's goal 10 years ago when I started this advent....that was to weigh145 pounds. Then he agreed that having started at 320, (and then 5'3" ) that a more logical goal would be in the area of 160 to 170. The lowest I ever got was 175. And I did not maintain that for even a moment. The the next 8 years of losing my only sibling to the Flu at the age of 49 (please get your flu shot) and then my surviving parent a few years later... personal illness and drama.... and creeping weight gain....
    14 months ago at 220 pounds and 63 years old I got my act back together.
    I went back to eating Protein - first and foremost - protein, healthy vegetables and fruit, and a smattering of healthy whole grain carbs and healthy fats.
    I ate mindfully - and intentionally to fuel my mind and body.
    I ate a treat daily
    I slowly changed HOW I eat, what I eat, and when I eat it.
    I did not announce it, I did not talk about it. I just did it.
    I lost 45 pounds in the past 14 months. Not fast weight loss, but steady
    And I may decide to lose a bit more. Or not.
    Thank you for being my sounding board. Thank you for being here for support.
    Today I am thankful for my sleeve, for saggy baggy hanging skin and not caring. And for being healthy !


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    dmendiola reacted to BriarRose in update on 10 years out regain, and weight loss   
    I posted a while ago about my weight loss, and regain and taking control again.
    Started at 320 or there abouts 5'2" and 54 years old 10 years ago. VSG. Lost weight and got to 180 pounds. Over 8 years I regained to 220. Started slow weight loss / getting back into control in mid July this past year. I have now lost 30 pounds. Back to 190. I started my weight loss with a BMI over 54 in the 300's. I am still considered obese at 190 and a BMI just under 34; but darn it, I am so flipping proud of myself.
    Yes, I am 64 years old. No, I can't really exercise ... but I do some short walks and I garden and vegetable garden, take care of my chickens. I had to get a local teen to help me lift 40 pound bags of feed this year; but I can still haul the 25 lb bags.... and I continue to work full time in my career. Life is good.
    In my weight loss journey this time out, I stopped at 20 pounds lost and took a break. I experimented with adding in more foods, and balancing out what I needed to do to maintain that 20 pound loss, and did that for a month, then decided to lose some more. I think that i never really paid all that much attention to how much, what kinds of foods how I Prepare them.... and exactly how my body reacts to it. I use very little salt at home. When I eat out, I gain weight from the added salt. Yes, it is Water weight from the salt; but being on lock down at home and working from home, with no lunches out for meetings.... going to have to find places to lunch that cut the sodium out !!! Going to continue what I am doing. Taking breaks, slow weight loss and maybe make it down to overweight, or not.... but will be pleased to keep that 30 # off !!!
    Still using my VSG. 10 years later.


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    dmendiola reacted to Twism44 in A few weeks shy of my 2 year anniversary   
    Hello all,
    It's been a long time since my last post. It's good to see all of the new folks that have found their way to this forum. It was extremely helpful to me both pre & post surgery. My 2 year anniversary is right around the corner (10/8). It was one of the best decisions that I've ever made. I've lost 120+ lbs though I've been in a stall since the COVID-19 lockdowns began. It's been 9 months or so since I've had any kind of pain or dumping. At this point, I can eat just about anything though my stomach is still sensitive first thing in the morning. I can tell that my stomach has stretched some b/c I can eat more in one sitting now. I plan to try a 'reset' and then do some intermittent fasting to get back on track. I'd like to lose another 25lbs.
    I've said all that to say this, keep the faith, especially you newbies. I know it's hard but it's worth it and believe it or not, it does get easier.
    Be well and stay safe.
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    dmendiola reacted to Nole_fan1980 in Surgery after Covid   
    Yes, I had COVID in April and was sleeved 8-26. I still don’t have my smell and taste back 100%, and what I can smell and taste is off. That’s the only thing that has made this recovery hard.
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    dmendiola reacted to dmendiola in Surgery after Covid   
    Thanks for the info. Makes me feel better knowing others are doing well post Covid and surgery.
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    dmendiola reacted to Brittany the Sleevie in Surgery after Covid   
    I had COVID in April. I still have antibodies and did 2 negative COVID tests before my VSG surgery on 8/31/2020. I did not have any symptoms or anything that I think would be COVID related.
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    dmendiola reacted to deetee04 in Post Covid   
    Do you mean is there anyone doing surgery after they diagnosed by covid? Or is there anyone doing surgery during covid

    If its number one, then your surgeon will be the one that deciding whether you will be able to the surgery, since after surgery being hard to breathe is expected, and since the patient already have covid history then your surgeon will be the best to consult

    If number 2, then you can do surgeon during this pandemic, a lot of people did that including me

    Hope it helps

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