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darcyjae

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    darcyjae got a reaction from jlb8080 in July 2019 Surgery Siblings Post-Op   
    Very happy to report that I've hit my 2019 milestone goal and dropped under 200 this weekend for the first time since my 20s. Next milestone is to get under 180 (my surgeon's goal for me) and out of the obese category! (Haven't seen that weight since my teens.)
    I hope the rest of you are doing well. I know the holidays can be a challenge with food, so wishing everyone lots of luck! ❤️
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    darcyjae got a reaction from Fatboyslim1 in Discouraged and need advice   
    You're clearly conflating this person's situation with your own journey. You may be fine and dandy with eating candy floss or twinkies or whatever you like—and if you are, and you are satisfied with the progress you made. Bravo. It's no one's business but yours.
    But no one is actually giving YOU advice in this thread. The distinction worth making it that they're replying to the OP, who ISN'T fine and dandy. They are discouraged. Unlike you, they are unhappy because they are losing weight more slowly than they'd like. They came here for advice on how to change that.
    Fact: It's considerably outside the experience of almost everyone here that a nutritionist would suggest regularly consuming a sugar drink as part of a bariatric diet.

    Fact: The OP is experiencing the EXACT result one would predict from loading up on sugar. The weight loss they would like to experience is slowed.
    Fact: Outside of blood sugar issues, no one actually needs to routinely consume sugary drinks.
    No one is being holier than thou. They're pointing out the obvious. You can argue about this food or that food and the benefits of carbs. But an empty calorie sugar drink hardly seems like the right rock to die on.
    I guess I don't understand why you would fight so hard against the suggestion that they make a change in their diet to see if it improves weight loss.
    I mean, it isn't a question of whether or not they have the "right to eat carbs" or "carbs being evil". It's a question of whether eating less sugar will result in faster weight loss for them. I guess you can argue it won't, but I see whole lot of data points around here that indicate otherwise.
    Peace.
  3. Haha
    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in 🎈 Pity Party🎈   
    Skin and bone.
    Specifically, in the sitting place. If I sit on the floor now at the gym it HURTS. I never expected that. Though my butt still LOOKS plenty padded. Have thin people always dealt with that? I was chubby even as a kid so I have no clue.
    Also, I get there's a general loosening of skin. Totally expected. But the loosening of skin in the booty area has resulted in a constant pinching sensation when I'm sitting. Is that just me? When I go to rowing class I need to use chafing cream to ensure I don't end up with... er... cheeky friction burns.
    Other bones are making themselves known, too. Curling up to sleep in the fetal position, my knee bones bang against each other now.
    Who knew bones were such an intrusive thing??
  4. Like
    darcyjae got a reaction from Fatboyslim1 in Discouraged and need advice   
    You're clearly conflating this person's situation with your own journey. You may be fine and dandy with eating candy floss or twinkies or whatever you like—and if you are, and you are satisfied with the progress you made. Bravo. It's no one's business but yours.
    But no one is actually giving YOU advice in this thread. The distinction worth making it that they're replying to the OP, who ISN'T fine and dandy. They are discouraged. Unlike you, they are unhappy because they are losing weight more slowly than they'd like. They came here for advice on how to change that.
    Fact: It's considerably outside the experience of almost everyone here that a nutritionist would suggest regularly consuming a sugar drink as part of a bariatric diet.

    Fact: The OP is experiencing the EXACT result one would predict from loading up on sugar. The weight loss they would like to experience is slowed.
    Fact: Outside of blood sugar issues, no one actually needs to routinely consume sugary drinks.
    No one is being holier than thou. They're pointing out the obvious. You can argue about this food or that food and the benefits of carbs. But an empty calorie sugar drink hardly seems like the right rock to die on.
    I guess I don't understand why you would fight so hard against the suggestion that they make a change in their diet to see if it improves weight loss.
    I mean, it isn't a question of whether or not they have the "right to eat carbs" or "carbs being evil". It's a question of whether eating less sugar will result in faster weight loss for them. I guess you can argue it won't, but I see whole lot of data points around here that indicate otherwise.
    Peace.
  5. Haha
    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in 🎈 Pity Party🎈   
    Skin and bone.
    Specifically, in the sitting place. If I sit on the floor now at the gym it HURTS. I never expected that. Though my butt still LOOKS plenty padded. Have thin people always dealt with that? I was chubby even as a kid so I have no clue.
    Also, I get there's a general loosening of skin. Totally expected. But the loosening of skin in the booty area has resulted in a constant pinching sensation when I'm sitting. Is that just me? When I go to rowing class I need to use chafing cream to ensure I don't end up with... er... cheeky friction burns.
    Other bones are making themselves known, too. Curling up to sleep in the fetal position, my knee bones bang against each other now.
    Who knew bones were such an intrusive thing??
  6. Haha
    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in 🎈 Pity Party🎈   
    Skin and bone.
    Specifically, in the sitting place. If I sit on the floor now at the gym it HURTS. I never expected that. Though my butt still LOOKS plenty padded. Have thin people always dealt with that? I was chubby even as a kid so I have no clue.
    Also, I get there's a general loosening of skin. Totally expected. But the loosening of skin in the booty area has resulted in a constant pinching sensation when I'm sitting. Is that just me? When I go to rowing class I need to use chafing cream to ensure I don't end up with... er... cheeky friction burns.
    Other bones are making themselves known, too. Curling up to sleep in the fetal position, my knee bones bang against each other now.
    Who knew bones were such an intrusive thing??
  7. Like
    darcyjae got a reaction from Fatboyslim1 in Discouraged and need advice   
    You're clearly conflating this person's situation with your own journey. You may be fine and dandy with eating candy floss or twinkies or whatever you like—and if you are, and you are satisfied with the progress you made. Bravo. It's no one's business but yours.
    But no one is actually giving YOU advice in this thread. The distinction worth making it that they're replying to the OP, who ISN'T fine and dandy. They are discouraged. Unlike you, they are unhappy because they are losing weight more slowly than they'd like. They came here for advice on how to change that.
    Fact: It's considerably outside the experience of almost everyone here that a nutritionist would suggest regularly consuming a sugar drink as part of a bariatric diet.

    Fact: The OP is experiencing the EXACT result one would predict from loading up on sugar. The weight loss they would like to experience is slowed.
    Fact: Outside of blood sugar issues, no one actually needs to routinely consume sugary drinks.
    No one is being holier than thou. They're pointing out the obvious. You can argue about this food or that food and the benefits of carbs. But an empty calorie sugar drink hardly seems like the right rock to die on.
    I guess I don't understand why you would fight so hard against the suggestion that they make a change in their diet to see if it improves weight loss.
    I mean, it isn't a question of whether or not they have the "right to eat carbs" or "carbs being evil". It's a question of whether eating less sugar will result in faster weight loss for them. I guess you can argue it won't, but I see whole lot of data points around here that indicate otherwise.
    Peace.
  8. Haha
    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in 🎈 Pity Party🎈   
    Skin and bone.
    Specifically, in the sitting place. If I sit on the floor now at the gym it HURTS. I never expected that. Though my butt still LOOKS plenty padded. Have thin people always dealt with that? I was chubby even as a kid so I have no clue.
    Also, I get there's a general loosening of skin. Totally expected. But the loosening of skin in the booty area has resulted in a constant pinching sensation when I'm sitting. Is that just me? When I go to rowing class I need to use chafing cream to ensure I don't end up with... er... cheeky friction burns.
    Other bones are making themselves known, too. Curling up to sleep in the fetal position, my knee bones bang against each other now.
    Who knew bones were such an intrusive thing??
  9. Like
    darcyjae got a reaction from Fatboyslim1 in Discouraged and need advice   
    You're clearly conflating this person's situation with your own journey. You may be fine and dandy with eating candy floss or twinkies or whatever you like—and if you are, and you are satisfied with the progress you made. Bravo. It's no one's business but yours.
    But no one is actually giving YOU advice in this thread. The distinction worth making it that they're replying to the OP, who ISN'T fine and dandy. They are discouraged. Unlike you, they are unhappy because they are losing weight more slowly than they'd like. They came here for advice on how to change that.
    Fact: It's considerably outside the experience of almost everyone here that a nutritionist would suggest regularly consuming a sugar drink as part of a bariatric diet.

    Fact: The OP is experiencing the EXACT result one would predict from loading up on sugar. The weight loss they would like to experience is slowed.
    Fact: Outside of blood sugar issues, no one actually needs to routinely consume sugary drinks.
    No one is being holier than thou. They're pointing out the obvious. You can argue about this food or that food and the benefits of carbs. But an empty calorie sugar drink hardly seems like the right rock to die on.
    I guess I don't understand why you would fight so hard against the suggestion that they make a change in their diet to see if it improves weight loss.
    I mean, it isn't a question of whether or not they have the "right to eat carbs" or "carbs being evil". It's a question of whether eating less sugar will result in faster weight loss for them. I guess you can argue it won't, but I see whole lot of data points around here that indicate otherwise.
    Peace.
  10. Like
    darcyjae got a reaction from Fatboyslim1 in Discouraged and need advice   
    You're clearly conflating this person's situation with your own journey. You may be fine and dandy with eating candy floss or twinkies or whatever you like—and if you are, and you are satisfied with the progress you made. Bravo. It's no one's business but yours.
    But no one is actually giving YOU advice in this thread. The distinction worth making it that they're replying to the OP, who ISN'T fine and dandy. They are discouraged. Unlike you, they are unhappy because they are losing weight more slowly than they'd like. They came here for advice on how to change that.
    Fact: It's considerably outside the experience of almost everyone here that a nutritionist would suggest regularly consuming a sugar drink as part of a bariatric diet.

    Fact: The OP is experiencing the EXACT result one would predict from loading up on sugar. The weight loss they would like to experience is slowed.
    Fact: Outside of blood sugar issues, no one actually needs to routinely consume sugary drinks.
    No one is being holier than thou. They're pointing out the obvious. You can argue about this food or that food and the benefits of carbs. But an empty calorie sugar drink hardly seems like the right rock to die on.
    I guess I don't understand why you would fight so hard against the suggestion that they make a change in their diet to see if it improves weight loss.
    I mean, it isn't a question of whether or not they have the "right to eat carbs" or "carbs being evil". It's a question of whether eating less sugar will result in faster weight loss for them. I guess you can argue it won't, but I see whole lot of data points around here that indicate otherwise.
    Peace.
  11. Like
    darcyjae got a reaction from FluffyChix in Discouraged and need advice   
    Respectfully, when it comes to the consumption of sugary drinks, none of those variables has any bearing. Sugary drinks will block weight loss significantly compared to non-sugary drinks. Full stop.
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    darcyjae reacted to Taj in Discouraged and need advice   
    Hi Seimmaj. Just as there are bad doctors there are bad nutritionists. I have spent months reviewing Bariatric Eating plans from hundreds of hospitals and the most important factor is cutting out ALL refined sugars from our diets. It’s really alarming that a nutritionist would tell you it’s okay to drink regular Gatorade or anything containing sugar. Even adding a cup of regular Gatorade to 32 oz Water is sabotage. Powerade zero is delicious and has less sodium and zero sugar and I add water to it because after four weeks of absolutely no sugar I can’t stand the taste of anything sweet. Maybe your nutritionist is under the false assumption that all artificial sweeteners are bad, but stevia isn’t artificial and doesn’t effect glucose levels. It is simply a fact, attested to by the thousands of people on this site, millions of doctors, and years of research that any refined sugar, especially after bariatric surgery, will prevent weightloss and even cause weight gain. Think of your new stomach as a newborn stomach and ask yourself if you would give Gatorade to a new born baby. If you don’t believe us, maybe attend a group session for bariatric patients or maybe ask your surgeon their opinion. Wishing you a successful journey.
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    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in Non Scale Victories   
    Here are two more for me:
    1. Went from a three or four hook bra down to a two hook bra. (Cup size is mostly hanging in there. 🙏🏻)
    2. Walked into a DSW today and bought a pair of non-wide calf boots. Yikes!!
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    darcyjae got a reaction from ms.sss in Non Scale Victories   
    Here are two more for me:
    1. Went from a three or four hook bra down to a two hook bra. (Cup size is mostly hanging in there. 🙏🏻)
    2. Walked into a DSW today and bought a pair of non-wide calf boots. Yikes!!
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    darcyjae reacted to JerseyJules in Before And After Gastric Sleeve Surgery Photos   
    Before 5-11 1/2 and 298lbs with a 46 wiast after 223lbs with a 34 waist...





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    darcyjae reacted to Briswife15 in I'm so upset, I'm a slow loser   
    I lose about 10 pounds a month at the most. Be patient, and go easy on yourself. It'll happen!

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    darcyjae reacted to rs in 🎈 Pity Party🎈   
    Piggybacking off of my previous post.... Losing all my extra padding on my butt sure makes it hurt so much more when I fall on my tailbone. Ouch!
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    darcyjae got a reaction from RobertaMSN in Discouraged and need advice   
    It’s 100% the full sugar Gatorade that’s slowing things a bit (and probably the salt isn’t helping either). I also recommend Vitamin Water zero cut with water if it’s too sweet.
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    darcyjae reacted to Hop_Scotch in Discouraged and need advice   
    I think you have untentionally been consuming a lot more calories than you think you have...regular gatorade and Powerade do have a lot of calories and sugar in them. Two bottles of 600mls gatorade for instance has nearly 300cals and 66 grams of sugar. The sugar is probably playing havoc with your insulin levels too.
    I think once you reduce the gatorade and powerade that you will find your weight loss will improve.
  20. Like
    darcyjae reacted to New&Improved in Discouraged and need advice   
    Waaaaay too much sugar in regular and sugar turns into fat...
    Water them down or look for sugar free cordial
  21. Congrats!
    darcyjae got a reaction from Uomograsso in Death Clock   
    This might belong under the Non-Scale victories thread, but it felt like it warranted a thread, because I didn't see it anywhere else, here.
    Are you familiar with the Death Clock? http://www.deathclock.com/
    It's morbid and obviously a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the site "calculates" your approximate "death day" based on attitude, weight, and smoking status. I did mine a few years back and it gave me a date of December 25, 2061. I did it again today and I'm happy to report I've bought myself another 8 years with surgery! New "date of death" is January 2, 2069.
  22. Congrats!
    darcyjae got a reaction from Uomograsso in Death Clock   
    This might belong under the Non-Scale victories thread, but it felt like it warranted a thread, because I didn't see it anywhere else, here.
    Are you familiar with the Death Clock? http://www.deathclock.com/
    It's morbid and obviously a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the site "calculates" your approximate "death day" based on attitude, weight, and smoking status. I did mine a few years back and it gave me a date of December 25, 2061. I did it again today and I'm happy to report I've bought myself another 8 years with surgery! New "date of death" is January 2, 2069.
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    darcyjae reacted to JRT Mom in Death Clock   
    I added 10 years to my life by reducing my BMI from 37 to 31. If I get it low enough, I'll start aging in reverse!
  24. Congrats!
    darcyjae got a reaction from Uomograsso in Death Clock   
    This might belong under the Non-Scale victories thread, but it felt like it warranted a thread, because I didn't see it anywhere else, here.
    Are you familiar with the Death Clock? http://www.deathclock.com/
    It's morbid and obviously a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the site "calculates" your approximate "death day" based on attitude, weight, and smoking status. I did mine a few years back and it gave me a date of December 25, 2061. I did it again today and I'm happy to report I've bought myself another 8 years with surgery! New "date of death" is January 2, 2069.
  25. Congrats!
    darcyjae got a reaction from Uomograsso in Death Clock   
    This might belong under the Non-Scale victories thread, but it felt like it warranted a thread, because I didn't see it anywhere else, here.
    Are you familiar with the Death Clock? http://www.deathclock.com/
    It's morbid and obviously a bit tongue-in-cheek, but the site "calculates" your approximate "death day" based on attitude, weight, and smoking status. I did mine a few years back and it gave me a date of December 25, 2061. I did it again today and I'm happy to report I've bought myself another 8 years with surgery! New "date of death" is January 2, 2069.

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