Purpledva

I took off work for surgery in June (2015) and told my co-workers I was taking a "staycation" to work on some house projects. I started off at over 300 lbs, so no one started noticing my weight loss until October. By then, I doubt anyone linked it back to my "staycation" in June. When it did eventually come up, I just said what one of the above posters said - a medically supervised diet and exercise, which was actually true - I just omitted the part about the surgery. I rarely get those questions anymore because almost everyone has either already seen me thin or never knew me as obese, but it still comes up once in a great while when I run into someone I haven't seen in four or five (or more) years. Now, I'll sometimes tell them the truth if they happen to be obese (because we obese people know that the diet & exercise thing doesn't work), but if they're thin people, the diet & exercise excuse usually works - skinny people believe that schlock.

"why aren't you eating anything at my dinner party?"
No one has ever asked me that, and I went to a Thanksgiving dinner at a relative's house 45 days after surgery. I put a spoonful of each thing on my plate, ate a little, and played around with the rest.
But how about, "everything looks so good, where did you get the recipes? "
"how did you suddenly lose weight so quickly, is that safe?"
I did tell a few people I was on a doctor-supervised diet, but I think diet and exercise are also fine. "Thanks for noticing, I've been working hard at it!"
"where have you been for the past couple weeks?"
I told people at work I had an operation and wouldn't tell anyone what. They left me alone. "Oh, how sweet of you to notice. What have you been up to?"
"a little bit won't hurt you!"
Actually, I think it might make me feel sick. Please enjoy yours, though! "Oh, thanks for offering, it looks great, I'm full, though."

I didn't tell anyone either. At first when people would say, "Have you lost weight?" I would just shrug it off. Now when they ask how I've lost the weight I say, honestly, "Diet and exercise."

I tell them I'm focusing on my health. Eating far fewer calories than I had been eating, primarily eating Protein to keep me full longer, reducing carbs, and logging it all on an app to keep me accountable. I tell them that I am approaching the age my dad was when he died, and it just finally made me take action. Best of luck in your journey!

You've totally got this...eye on the prize

JamesL73,
I am glad you are coming along for the ride. Your bio speaks so eloquently [emoji4] about your triumphs and struggles in the WLS journey. By this time next week, I will be recuperating. I am still a bit nervous but anxious to crossover to the Post-Op side[emoji16]. We CAN do this!!!!

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Bullet,
If you really want to go through with the surgery then you will do whatever it takes.
I wanted to watch QVC this evening but turned to another channel. My favorite host, David Venable was on..... And the show had food products on it.😕 I didn't want to further torture/temp myself. I keep coming back to the forum for support and encouragement...... And you gals/guys are AWESOME. With the JuneBunch, I can get through this. Fingers crossed.✌️

Batty!!!😫
Now I really feel deprived. But it's all good though...😏
My Days since Monday are as follows:
Morning
Protein shake
Lunch
Protein shake
Dinner
Protein Shake
And if I get real creative I throw in at least 64oz of Water between shakes.< span class="ipsEmoji">😪

Happy Humpday Everyone,
Well it is Day 3 on the liquid diet. And boy I wish I could cook anything right now including the air.
Today has been extremely hard since not eating anything since Sunday😞
It's a good thing, I am strong minded/willed because if I wasn't I would've grabbed the first thing appetizing and ATE IT!!!! But has helped me through today and probably the rest of the week are the lovely people in this forum. I am reading about the ups and downs and then looking at the before and after pictures, and it is giving me hope and encouragement to soldier on.
Monday is coming and quickly. I can't wait for it to come and go. I am getting very nervous and my mind is playing all the scenarios of what could go wrong...😏
But Rome Wasn't Built In A Day!!!🙄

As far as Vitamins goes, we were instructed to get the patch for first month and then after that we can pretty much choose which Vitamin product we want. I will try the patch the first month and if I like it I will probably stick with them for a while.

Happy Friday Eve Everyone,
Day 4 of the liquid Diet
I made it through another day of Protein Shakes and water😞
I would love to get a hold of some chicken or beef broth....Wait I wouldn't turn down veggie broth either..............
But I can't have that until Sunday (Clear Diet day)... I've been checking out a few websites like Amazon and here on Bariatric Pal, for food items geared for special folks like us. I will probably make a purchase of some of the Soup items, so I can have some variety after the next few weeks.
I have noticed that my sandals are a bit loose from last year. I guess with will power and determination, the whole WLS thing will come together. And then I can submit my before and after pictures like everyone else.
Anywho............Keep the faith everyone.....We CAN and WILL do this JuneBunch
btw, I got on the scale today and I am finally at (drumroll.........) 219😲
Alright, I know it may not in Onederland, but I will take it. Even though the doctor's scales have a 5-10 pound variance, I will take the 219. Ain't seen 219 since 2008. ☺️
Come on June 3rd.

Man, that Chicken Protein Soup sounds like a steak dinner right now.
Especially when you have been on nothing but Protein Shakes all week.🙄

TGIF Funky June Bunch,

Day 5 of the liquid diet…………

I made it through yet another day of Protein Shakes and Water.< /strong>

But I must be honest, I know I am suppose to have 3 -4 shakes a day but yesterday……

I just couldn’t stomach yet ANOTHER shake. Some Soup would be nice but my doctor said only Protein shakes and water for the first 6 days of the pre-op diet. Whoever said variety is the spice of life, they were not KIDDING!!!

I’ve been frantically getting my house in order. Cleaning up so I won’t have to worry about that and stocking up on some much needed supplies. Riley (a.k.a. The pug) will be placed in the kennel for a few days. I am bummed out about that…….. I keep telling myself it’s just for a few days.

The hospital called and my arrival time is 10:30 am June 3rd. Folks IT’S HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Riley and I went for an extra long walk, yesterday. Need to get a couple of extra walks in before June 3rd.

Well, I jumped on the scale again this morning and low and behold the scale came in at 217!!!!!!!!

I couldn’t believe it but when you are reduced to protein shakes, water and walking 10K steps a day. Then threw in walking atleast 4 – 6 miles, I guess it will pay off in the end.

June Bunch!!!!! It can be done………….Keep The Faith!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ashes,
I am with you on the Protein Shakes. If a girl could get some Soup, it would be so much more tolerable (sigh)😞

Saturday is here Funky JuneBunch,
It is June 1st…..
Day 6 of the liquid diet….Tomorrow is another milestone……..
I don’t know about anyone else but the shakes are now becoming a bit too sweet for me.
I will have graduated to the Clear Diet phase. I am so looking forward to this.
I can have coffee and broths….. I am an excellent cook/baker and I am getting excited about broths? Go figure. You don’t know how much this means to me…….
I didn’t sleep much last night. I guess I am just anxious with everything going on Monday.
When I finally got my surgery date, it STILL seemed like a million years away and now….It’s finally here.
My family and friends are staying clear of me this weekend. And I wanted it that way. The talk of getting together and going out for a bit to eat or going to the movies…………I just can’t do it right now.
I got on the scale this morning and clocked in still at 217. I am so pleased. Hopefully, with surgery they say you could potentially lose 40%? Oh Jimminy Cricket!!!!!!!!! I won’t know what to do with myself.
Anywho, JuneBunch keep the faith, if I can forgo a week a delectable cuisine, anyone can. This phase/state is just temporary. We have those lovely before and after pictures to pursue.



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JamesL73,
I am glad you are coming along for the ride. Your bio speaks so eloquently [emoji4] about your triumphs and struggles in the WLS journey. By this time next week, I will be recuperating. I am still a bit nervous but anxious to crossover to the Post-Op side[emoji16]. We CAN do this!!!!

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Sex is sooooo much better when I'm thinner.
And even with looser skin, I am waaaay hotter than when I was obese. And not just because I am thinner, but because I am more CONFIDENT and sure of myself, and the weight loss was a big part in re-cultivating that.
You are really worried about how you will feel/look after weight loss (I notice this is your second post on the topic ♥️). But are you happy with your situation right now? I'm guessing that you aren't since you are moving forward with the surgery.
Change is scary. But if you put in the effort, it will totally be worth it. 100%. ♥️

What's up all you June misfits??? It is officially our month finally. It is also the first official day of my pre-op liquid diet, even though I started on 5/15 and as of this morning am down 11 lbs. WooHoo. Wishing a warm welcome to all of our newbies that have joined in the last couple of weeks.
I know a lot of people get nervous as their date gets closer but I am actually anxious as hell. It's like the days are going by sooooo slooowww. I am so ready to be sliced and diced.....for the second time. Just hoping and praying that it will be done right this time.
Anyway, best wishes to all getting ready for surgery this month and on the journey afterwards to a new and healthy life.

You look AMAZING! You are an inspiration to people like myself, who are just starting this journey. I know there will be some difficult days ahead but seeing your photos keep me encouraged [emoji6]

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My first opportunity to post on this thread. Nothing spectacular, just a scrambled egg with 1/8 cup of 1% cottage cheese. A few little bits of chives, and a sprinkle of hot sauce.

I was in heaven! My first soft foods meal. I managed to eat it all, but I'm thinking I should have left the last couple of bites on the plate.

I included a shot of one of our regular dinner plates for comparison.  

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My before and "almost after"! Hoping to lose 15 more pounds and tone up, but I'm feeling pretty good. Just fit into my initial goal jeans!

It's been a rough year for me since my surgery on 7/2/18. I was rocking it with the exercise for the first several months. Then my company got bought, had a very stressful first project at work that lasted months, and my mom's terminal illness worsened and she passed. While sometimes I feel bad about myself for not losing as quickly as I'd hoped, I know I've done great. I'm certain that if I hadn't had the surgery before my life derailed this last 10 months, I'd be pushing 300 lbs and would have had an even harder time dealing with all the stress.

Looking forward to my one year follow-up appointment and going to try to rock it on exercise this next month. And stick with it more regularly. :)

I am soooo looking forward to the following...............
Being able to wear high heels again. Bending over and not having that extra real estate in the middle Going up a flight of stairs and not be out of breath Being able to get around much better Shopping for a new wardrobe

I have a surgery date of June 3rd. I am 66 yo, married to a wonderful man who has been so supportive throughout this process. We have 4 grown boys, all happily married and 7 grandchildren. I have tried about every diet out there without success, so here I am!! I am excited yet nervous too. Looking forward to following along with all of your journeys as well. 😊😊

Ashes,
I am with you on the Protein Shakes. If a girl could get some Soup, it would be so much more tolerable (sigh)😞

TGIF Funky June Bunch,

Day 5 of the liquid diet…………

I made it through yet another day of Protein Shakes and Water.< /strong>

But I must be honest, I know I am suppose to have 3 -4 shakes a day but yesterday……

I just couldn’t stomach yet ANOTHER shake. Some Soup would be nice but my doctor said only Protein shakes and water for the first 6 days of the pre-op diet. Whoever said variety is the spice of life, they were not KIDDING!!!

I’ve been frantically getting my house in order. Cleaning up so I won’t have to worry about that and stocking up on some much needed supplies. Riley (a.k.a. The pug) will be placed in the kennel for a few days. I am bummed out about that…….. I keep telling myself it’s just for a few days.

The hospital called and my arrival time is 10:30 am June 3rd. Folks IT’S HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Riley and I went for an extra long walk, yesterday. Need to get a couple of extra walks in before June 3rd.

Well, I jumped on the scale again this morning and low and behold the scale came in at 217!!!!!!!!

I couldn’t believe it but when you are reduced to protein shakes, water and walking 10K steps a day. Then threw in walking atleast 4 – 6 miles, I guess it will pay off in the end.

June Bunch!!!!! It can be done………….Keep The Faith!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!