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Everything posted by starladustangel
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How much had you lost at 1mo, 6mo, 1yr ?
1 month was 18 pounds down.
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Food Before and After Photos
Haddock and steamed vegetables. It's from dennys because it was the only open restaurant with food I could eat in the town we were in. Before and after
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AAmazon for body pillows. I did that so I wouldn't have to leave
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI haven't been weighing daily although it is hard not to. I lost 1 pound over the course of a week. I lost 2 pounds over the course of the prior week. I don't expect to lose weight daily but over the course of 7 days I expected to lose more than 1 pound especially after the prior week of only 2. I know it's normal to stall but I think a lot of it is mental. I failed so many times before to lose weight.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI have not cheated and I can't eat larger portions. I am eating at set times. No grazing. I can't even eat the amounts yet that my nutritionist wants me to eat. I do weight and measure all my food. I'm supposed to be up to 500 calories this week and I still cannot eat more than 350 no matter how much I try. I make sure to get my water in. I still have to do a protein water or half a shake to get my protein in. Hopefully next week I'll see a change.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI am really getting fed up with my lack of weight loss. I get it's normal at 3 weeks out but I lost 13 pounds in 10 days then 2 pounds in the next week and 1 pound over the last week. I haven't lost any inches for over a week now. I feel the same guilt and shame I've always felt dieting when people would tell me that spinach and bell pepper was causing me to stall because they have a sweet taste or I must be eating more than I think or sleep eating. People always insist that's it's just a simple matter of calories and that heavy people could just be thin if we eat less. Except the last few weeks have shown me that is such a bunch of bs. I really hope I start having some steady weight loss soon.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI'm not supposed to lift my 2 year old until a month out. She weighs 30 pounds. She is almost 3 so is able to follow some instructions like laying down on a towel to be changed since she is being difficult about toilet training.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI use toddler plates from Ikea and just regular measuring cups and spoons. I also have a food scale.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI hope you are feeling better today
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Anyone in the Tacoma WA area?
I have a desk job he had said 2-3 weeks but at my follow up his staff said I needed a 4th week to get used to eating. I'm bored at home but I will be back at work Monday
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Anyone in the Tacoma WA area?
I am all right. 3 weeks out and down 16 since surgery but I have only lost 1 pound and no inches in the last week. Everything seems to be healing well but the clinic doesn't want me to return to work until 7/1
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI had some pureed chicken mixed with refried beans today. I could barely eat any of it but it was good
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI can barely eat but I've hit the three week stall and am not losing weight either. half a scrambled egg fills me up
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AHad my 2 week follow up. They are recommending I take a 4th week of short term disability for work because I still get dizzy and tired and they want me used to eating purees. I have mixed feelings about it. I miss work but I probably do need a little more time
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Anyone else not losing?
I'm not losing but I think it's because I hit the 3 week stall
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI was able to pass gas about 2 days after surgery but didn't have a bowel movement for 6 days. Right now I am using miralax to prevent constipation
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&ACan you do broth or strained cream soup at all? Low fat cream of chicken and broth helped me through.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AIt was hard for me at first to pee. It gets easier
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Finally got my surgery date... when did you cut things out?
I started working on cutting things out as soon as I started the pre op process at the end of January.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AYes. I am 2 weeks post op. Before surgery I loved sugar free water flavorings. Now I hate all of them. I'm getting my water in with decaf herbal teas with a tiny bit of sweetener by putting the tea bag with a couple ice cubes in my water bottle to make ice tea. I was never a big herbal tea drinker before. Now I can't get enough.
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regret not doing this sooner
I totally understand wishing you'd had the surgery early. I've always been a painfully slow loser due to PCOS and it's so frustrating to see people losing 25+ pounds the first 2 weeks while I lost 15 and am hitting the 3 week stall early. If one more person says something about "well people with a higher starting weight lose more" to me I will scream. I was 282 on the day of surgery. That's a pretty damn high weight. I had someone tell me my weight loss on the pre op diet was "slower than keto" and I laughed because I've never had rapid weight loss on keto and my pre op weight loss was exactly the same to the amount I lost on keto in the same time. I wish I'd had surgery at a lower weight so my goal didn't seem so far away.
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Anyone get surgery without "needing" it?
I had zero comorbidities. But my BMI was over 50 and I'd been yoyo dieting for 20 years. I was starting to have knee pain and had a family history of sleep apnea. type 2 diabetes and high blood pressure. My mom had VSG after years of dealing with comorbidities so I knew my health was heading in the same direction
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AI'm now 2 weeks post op and just hit 15 pounds down today. Jealous of people I see losing huge amounts right after surgery. I've seen people losing 20-30 pounds in the first 2 weeks. Officially on purees now but can't eat much. About half a scrambled egg or 1/8 cup cottage cheese or 1/4 C cream of chicken. Restriction is definitely real.
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Anyone else NOT eating like they should Post-op?
Even in America there is a huge variety of differences between provider. My stage 2 was protein shakes but for others it is purees. I'm starting purees now at 2 weeks post op. I tried a few days early but vomited.
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June 2019 Surgery Siblings!
starladustangel replied to BulletWithButterflyWings's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&AMe too. I put a little pepper on it but I am full after half.