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BDME

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    BDME got a reaction from MochaKelly in Have you experienced jealousy?   
    I am only 1 week post op so the jealousy over weight loss has yet to be seen. But in general life I have experienced jealousy. People who were mad I got married and they were yet to find a mate. I find it best to ignore it. It’s not worth it and does not contribute to your overall happiness. But sometimes it is fun to flex for the haters. Like if you’re mad now let me post some more pics so you can throw on a cape and be SUPER MAD. [emoji24][emoji24]


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    BDME got a reaction from MochaKelly in Have you experienced jealousy?   
    I am only 1 week post op so the jealousy over weight loss has yet to be seen. But in general life I have experienced jealousy. People who were mad I got married and they were yet to find a mate. I find it best to ignore it. It’s not worth it and does not contribute to your overall happiness. But sometimes it is fun to flex for the haters. Like if you’re mad now let me post some more pics so you can throw on a cape and be SUPER MAD. [emoji24][emoji24]


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    BDME got a reaction from cyndib in Have you experienced jealousy?   
    This sounds like my family. I love them and they mean well but I told my mother my goal size was a size 6/8. She basically told me that would be to thin. In what world is a 6 thin? She was like you should be a 12. Girl. I did not go through all of this to be a 12 [emoji23] I’m a master at ignoring my mother though. Shes an great Mom just from a different time I guess. I also think she has no idea what a 12 looks like because she kept showing me old pictures of myself of how she would like me to be and in all the pictures I was a size 16. I’m only a 18 to begin with. So I just nod my head and keep it moving.


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    BDME got a reaction from MochaKelly in Have you experienced jealousy?   
    I am only 1 week post op so the jealousy over weight loss has yet to be seen. But in general life I have experienced jealousy. People who were mad I got married and they were yet to find a mate. I find it best to ignore it. It’s not worth it and does not contribute to your overall happiness. But sometimes it is fun to flex for the haters. Like if you’re mad now let me post some more pics so you can throw on a cape and be SUPER MAD. [emoji24][emoji24]


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    BDME got a reaction from Biddy zz 🏳️🌈 in Ok, how long to go down a trouser size?   
    I started at a 18/20 now I am a 16 bottom and I can comfortably fit into most size 14 or L/XL tops (depending on the boob room)
    I noticed my pants getting bigger about 3 weeks out 4 weeks was that weird time where I was falling out of my 18’s but squeezing into a 16. I am 8 weeks out and comfortably in a 16. Hopefully in another 6/8 weeks I’ll be comfortably in a 14, maybe even a 12 since I can work out now.


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    BDME got a reaction from Biddy zz 🏳️🌈 in Ok, how long to go down a trouser size?   
    I started at a 18/20 now I am a 16 bottom and I can comfortably fit into most size 14 or L/XL tops (depending on the boob room)
    I noticed my pants getting bigger about 3 weeks out 4 weeks was that weird time where I was falling out of my 18’s but squeezing into a 16. I am 8 weeks out and comfortably in a 16. Hopefully in another 6/8 weeks I’ll be comfortably in a 14, maybe even a 12 since I can work out now.


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    BDME got a reaction from timarland in Spicy food   
    I am 2 months post and spicy food doesn’t bother me at all. I get heartburn almost like clockwork in the morn about an hour after I wake up afternoon between 1 and 2 and at night around 7. Doesn’t matter what I eat so I know it’s not spice related.


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    BDME got a reaction from Iscarelys in Hard Work Pays Off ♥️   
    Beautiful!



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    BDME got a reaction from Creekimp13 in H pylori positive   
    I had to do 2 rounds of the antibiotics before t as all clear. The upside is all the antibiotics do wonders for you skin. My skin was the clearest I think it’s ever been in my adult life.


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    BDME got a reaction from Trishe70 in Recommendation for Cream during weight loss to avoid stretch marks, etc   
    I use Jergens firming lotion for the loose skin ( I don’t really have any yet but I’m being proactive) and I use Bio Oil for the stretch marks and it has worked wonders. Cheaper than mederma and in my option works better and faster
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    BDME got a reaction from Dolphinlover70 in What is Dumping and how do I know if it is happening?   
    Can someone explain to be what dumping is, what the symptoms feel like, and if it’s a common problem with VSG?
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    BDME got a reaction from Aries331 in FIRST THANKSGIVING SINCE SURGERY....   
    You’re amazing for waiting a year for sweets. I’m a little under 2mo post and I had a piece of pie today. But back on the grind tomorrow!


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    BDME reacted to ThickGirl5683 in FIRST THANKSGIVING SINCE SURGERY....   
    @BDME Welllll..... I didn't wait... I had a piece of brownie and a little bit of ice cream.... After today though I'm back to business... Keep up the good work.. WE can do this

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    BDME got a reaction from FluffyChix in Surgery didn’t work?   
    I’m literally screen shooting what you ate in a day. This is so helpful!


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    BDME got a reaction from Apple203 in How long were you out   
    I’m 10 days out and will be returning tomorrow to work. I feel like this is the right time. The last couple days have been so great and I’m feeling more and more like myself so I’m excited about going back



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    BDME got a reaction from timetraveler in Final pant/dress size?   
    That’s very interesting! I am only a few weeks post and I started at a size 18 but I was 295. Crazy how everyone’s body is shaped and proportioned differently!


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    BDME got a reaction from watsongirl17 in 7 days 20lbs feel like dancing.   
    I don’t own a scale so I haven’t weighed myself since before the vsg. Visiting my mother and decided to give hers a whirl. 20 whole pounds. Gone. I cried a little. That’s amazing. I remember working out and eating like a bird for months and only being able to shift my weight 7lbs. This is such a breakthrough. I don’t see if much in my tummy area, I feel the same. But my ankles wrists and fingers are definitely slimmer, and my little chubby chins are practically gone. So I’m counting it as a win. YAY!
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    BDME got a reaction from southernbellair79 in Protein Shakes   
    I was just sleeved on the 13th. My nutritionist recommended Unjury Protein. I’ve only tried the unflavored one which I added into some watered down Tomato Soup and it didn’t change the taste at all. Tomorrow I will try the chocolate but I hear good things, and it smells good! 21g protein 2g sugar



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    BDME got a reaction from MrsJones215 in Back on the grind   
    The last couple days have been terrible. As far as my personal food choices good. I’ve had pizza, a mini cupcake just crazy. And while my stomach is fine I️ can physically feel the difference. I️ feel sick. Not nauseous but just Ill I️ can’t really explain it. Anyway I’m using this platform as an accountability tool. I️ think it took me slipping up and feeling icky to get me back on track. I️ have always been hardheaded lol
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    BDME got a reaction from Dametris in My VSG success!   
    You look great!



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    BDME got a reaction from Sosewsue61 in Skin ... what to do   
    I️ am 1 month post and as soon as my incisions healed which was about a week post op I️ began using Jergens Firming lotion all over my body. I️ also do a salt scrub on my tummy and thighs once a week. And I️ plan on going to the spa and getting a massage & sea weed wrap every 3 months. All of these things help with circulation, skin elasticity, and firming. Granted there is no cure all. And it largely depends on genetics, age, and how much weight you have to loose. Also it’s been proven melanin in your skin aids in elasticity as well, so if you are darker skinned you have that on your side as well :-)


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    BDME got a reaction from Berry78 in Let's Dish!!! Do You Still Like To Cook and Interact With Food?   
    Berry78 I’m laughing because as a kid my mom was having none of that. I️ ate what was put in front of me or I️ didn’t eat at all.



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    BDME got a reaction from Sosewsue61 in What Post-Sleeve Rules Do You Break?   
    Thanks, I️ wasn’t trying to be rude I️ just always get scared when ppl say they don’t take their Vitamins cuz of the horror stories I’ve heard. I️ don’t judge ppls food choices cuz I legit had pizza the other day I️ was just concerned is all


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    BDME got a reaction from Sosewsue61 in Skin ... what to do   
    I️ am 1 month post and as soon as my incisions healed which was about a week post op I️ began using Jergens Firming lotion all over my body. I️ also do a salt scrub on my tummy and thighs once a week. And I️ plan on going to the spa and getting a massage & sea weed wrap every 3 months. All of these things help with circulation, skin elasticity, and firming. Granted there is no cure all. And it largely depends on genetics, age, and how much weight you have to loose. Also it’s been proven melanin in your skin aids in elasticity as well, so if you are darker skinned you have that on your side as well :-)


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    BDME reacted to ms.k_all_day in November 10 bypass   
    I'm HEADED HOME,I COULD HAVE LEFT YESTERDAY, BUT I TOLD THE DR.. MY 6 KIDS WOULD BEE WAITING FOR ME... HE TOLD HIS STAFF "NO NO SHE'LLBE STAYING,IT DOESN'T EVEN FEEL LIKE I HAD SURGERY.NICE STAFF, EVERYONE WAS SOOOOOO PLEASANT
    Sent from my SM-J700T using BariatricPal mobile app

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