Tracyann1983

Thanks! Everyone I really appreciate you all taking out the time to answer my question. I had no idea Plus sizes had such a wide range

Thanks! Everyone I really appreciate you all taking out the time to answer my question. I had no idea Plus sizes had such a wide range

I totally understand. I have lost 75 lbs and yes, I have changed clothing sizes but it took a while. Just yesterday I went thru my closet and was able to eliminate size 3x and most 2x. However, I have things that I can wear that are 2x, 1x, xl, and l. I decided it is all how they are made otherwise I couldn't be wearing 4 sizes at the same time. I eliminated some pants that were of stretchy fabric so I think that is why I could wear them so long. I need some new ones.
It just takes more pounds and more time. At least you aren't having to spend money yet on new clothes you will grow out of.

I totally understand your frustration. Since starting the whole journey I've lost about 60 pounds. My clothes fit exactly the same. On another group I'm in for those who had surgery in December a guy posted he lost about 25 since surgery and went from a 4x to a 2x already. WTF? How???

@@Tracyann1983 congrats on your 60# loss. Please don't compare yourself to others experiences. Stay with your program, utilize your tool correctly and you will lose inches, pounds and sizes.
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Lol! Yes, your abdomen is still swollen. My tenderness and swelling didn't go down from like 8 to 10 weeks. I couldn't even wear a bra for a while. That was a nightmare.
Still probably have gas trapped too so walking helps the. Plus your G.I. tract is going through a bunch of trauma. You're likely to experience Constipation that you won't even notice because you'll be so focused on trying to get all your Protein and Water in (start the Fiber or Smooth Move tea habit now), the entire abdominal cavity is going through things and won't be settled for a while.
Expect to see most of the changes in your face and arms and legs for the first 4 to 6 weeks and then suddenly your pants are dropping and you need suspenders or new pair pants'

What?????? There is swelling in my abdomen that will go down more???? That explains why I've lost over 20 pounds and only two inches off my waist. Please tell me more (chin on hand, paying attention) Sent from my KFTBWI using the BariatricPal App

It will happen!! Don't worry. Plus, it's only been a month! Be kind to yourself. Understand that your body is adjusting to a huge change. The swelling in your abdomen hasn't even gone down yet. Don't worry, you'll be falling out of your clothes quickly!

After I had my son, I had gained 100 lbs. I started yoyo dieting and would lose 20 lbs but still be in the same size. After excessive gains and losses I noticed that plus sized clothing isn't accurate. I could gain 20 lbs and still fit into all my clothes and then I weigh myself and see a 20 on increase! Like whoa!! On the flip side, when I was a size 6 which seems like sooo long ago if I'd gain a 5 lbs (during that time of month) I'd need a size up cuz then the 6 was too snug. Each size allows room for 5-10 lbs in "regular" sizes. But you can gain 20 lbs and easily still fit in your plus size clothes. <---I blame this for not catching myself before hitting my all time highest weight.
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As you get smaller, you'll change sizes so much faster.
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I lost way over 100lbs before I needed new pants. the bigger the sizes, the bigger the weight range covered by each size

happytrooper11 works for this surgeon. Their IP address was coming from Mexico and they've been banned.
I'd be a little careful if I were you....
Oh and the email they used to register was worklongtermvsg@XXXXX.com . That was a pure giveaway.
It's impossible to offer actual surgery using decent equipment, facilities, staff, non-expired staples etc for such a low price. They're skimping on things that you don't realize but you're putting your life at risk.

@@Tracyann1983 definitely time to find a new girl group. Are those friends heavier also? I've noticed that some of my chubby friends are the ones with the smart remarks. Best of luck to you. Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Reading this helped me a lot I was one of those people that tend to "Cheat" on a diet and reading this just drove home the seriousness of sleeve and how I cannot and will not cheat my way into the hospital or worse.

My family and best friend are excited for me however my "girl group" you know the ones that you have Thursday drinks with or Ladies night with.. Yeah alot of negativity alot of smart remarks. I think its time to find a new group.

11 days out and ive lost 10 lbs... I had been having some severe lower abdomen pains.... doctor feels is constipation...I've only have 2 bowel movements, 1 6 days post op and I took a major Sh!t ???????????? later that night after my doctors appts...today was day 12 and I can say I feel alot better....I'm getting in the recommended fluids but in still dehydrated....to me I feel like I'm drinking the same amount of fluids pre op.....I have 64 oz jug that I use to track my Water consumption, but I WAS one of those ppl that drink tremendously WHILE eating also as well a getting in 64 oz of water so I think/know that my require way more that 64 oz to be fully hydrated. I also have no sense of thirst or hunger which makes it harder for me to consume even more water....but I have no complaints it's not a race, it a marathon so is about the long run of things.
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Oh Forgot Mention I'm having mine done in Mexico

Yes December 5th.
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My family and best friend are excited for me however my "girl group" you know the ones that you have Thursday drinks with or Ladies night with.. Yeah alot of negativity alot of smart remarks. I think its time to find a new group.

I sometimes drink a carton of Premier Protein before going out with friends to eat, then I order a cup of Soup, or just say I am not hungry and I talk and have coffee or a drink. I have not let the sleeve keep me from going out. My husband and I play Trivia and go listen to bands, concerts, but it helps us to eat before we go out. It just works for us.

I would like to remind all the newbies that you need to be firm with your families. If someone says here is a chicken nugget, say NO! If you know the family is going to a fast food place, stay home. Always drink a Protein Shake or Protein Bar while the family is eating fast food, so you won't be hungry. We all have to be strong to succeed. Your family may feel bad because they know you want to eat with them, but do not allow them to enable you. They will love us to death with food. Good luck everyone.

(RN and comprehensive sex educator hats on)
There is nothing structurally different at any point in the intestines for a sleeved patient. For the lower intestines including the rectum, sigmoid, and descending colon (the parts that could potentially be involved), there is no structural difference for a RNY patient either. I don't know much about duodenal switch, but I wouldn't imagine that they've rearranged anything that far down the intestines.
So structurally, there's nothing changed that would affect the act.
However, there are bowel habit changes that may need to be considered. Many people have Constipation which of course can result in retained stool that you might want to address beforehand due to hygiene or comfort issues. Constipation also has the complication of creating or aggravating hemorrhoids which can cause pain and bleeding with anal intercourse. Other people have varying degrees of diarrhea post surgery, and sometimes with some stool incontinence (hence the warning "never trust a fart"). So this could create a hygiene issue which again you might want to address beforehand.
While I know the topic may be shocking to many, I believe it's important for adults to be able to discuss sexual matters and their bodies without embarrassment. Our societal discomfort with the subject of sex is a holdover from our puritan roots, and I believe it should be reversed.

I don't know of many of us that are medically qualified to answer that question. You really ought to check with your doctor on that one.
As far as people's sexual preferences if you don't have a good answer here then don't reply. I can see the concern in this question. My wife is a four-year degree Psychology major with an emphasis in abnormal sexuality. This is not considered abnormal anymore.

I'm SOOOO excited to read this!!! I have paid my deposit and booked my surgery with Dr. Illan for Aug. 23rd!! AHHHHH!! Let the countdown begin!

I was just sleeved 13 weeks ago. I started at 410. I'm now at 330. I have lost 80 pounds. I know the sleeve was the right choice for me. I feel great. I have more energy now than I have in 10 years. For me bypass was too risky. I didn't want anything rerouted. I was worried about running to the bathroom after eating. With the sleeve I feel normal. I don't have any side effects.