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Fredbear

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    Fredbear got a reaction from AgentSmith in Big day tomorrow   
    Good luck!
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Beautiful 1 in Reason for being off work   
    You've already volunteered too much information.
    If you're going out on leave, you only need to tell HR enough to get the leave paperwork completed, and you don't have to tell them why/what you're doing. Do you have to tell everyone what you're doing on vacation? No, and medical leave is the same way.
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    Fredbear reacted to theantichick in Spin Off thread: do people comment often?   
    I give some variation of this each time I'm asked.
    http://www.theantichick.com/2016/08/05/the-easy-way-out/
    My parents stopped by this evening to check on me, and I had to repeat it for them for the 2nd or 3rd time. They'll get it eventually.
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from darima77 in Annoying Co-Workers   
    Always best to not give a flying fig what people think of you!
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Dub in Any good comebacks?   
    Try this, I use this all the time for situations where people comment on things that are really none of their business:
    *look at them, confused*
    *when they continue talking, suddenly look like you understand something *
    "Ohhhh... I get it, you think I give a s h i t what you think. How silly/egotistical/self-righteous/retarded/stupid (choose insulting word that fits the person) of you!"
    Then laugh and walk away.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Caribear in Did you sweat less after surgery?   
    Looking forward to being cold all the time! :-)
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    Fredbear reacted to Bufflehead in Bored with Breakfast! Any dieticians out there?   
    If your dietitian says to avoid starchy foods, then avoid starchy foods. Your dietitian isn't just "one person" that you should decide to disregard, your dietitian is a crucial member of the team you should be trusting to lead you to weight loss and health. Why would you throw away your dietitian's advice in order to follow the advice of random internet strangers?
    Also, IMO being "bored" with food shouldn't be much of a consideration right now. You should be eating for health and weight loss, not entertainment. It is okay to not be entertained by your food. If you need to switch it up, are there high-protein, low carb options you can look at, like tuna or salmon salad, chicken breast with green veggies, turkey sausage or bacon? Cottage cheese? Ricotta bake? It might help to go away from traditional "breakfast" type foods if you want more options.
    Good luck!
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    Fredbear got a reaction from Caribear in Did you sweat less after surgery?   
    Looking forward to being cold all the time! :-)
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    Fredbear got a reaction from darima77 in Annoying Co-Workers   
    Always best to not give a flying fig what people think of you!
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    Fredbear got a reaction from jintycb in Please Read: Keep BariatricPal a Safe Place   
    The only medical advice appropriate on a message board is "ask your doctor." You're paying them specifically for care, and it is their duty to provide it. Use it! All other advice here should be "this was/is/has been my experience."
    I don't put up with emotional bullshit from anyone... I'm not here to soothe the mentally unstable or provide therapy; again, there are medical professionals you can pay for that.
    Which means that I'm not going to play head games with the easily offended/those looking to be offended. Go play with your dumbass girlfriends if you need that drama.
    And I have to disagree with Alex... tone is relatively easy to pick up in text. But "tone" isn't taught in English until 9th grade, and for many, if not most Americans it takes 13 years of their education (K-12) just to get to a 7th grade mastery of the language.
    The trope that "tone is difficult" is just a way to disguise one's inability to write effectively... not to mention the reader's ability to comprehend the material (again, 13 years to attain 7 years of mastery).
    In conclusion, I would simply recommend growing a thicker skin, and asking your doctor for real advice. For tips, message boards are fine, if you can learn to simply ignore the squawking hens.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from LowBMISleever in Need Help With Working Out / Training - Clueless.   
    Get a trainer. You're just going to injure yourself without guidance. It doesn't have to be a ton of sessions, just have the trainer teach you how to start and go from there.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from LowBMISleever in Need Help With Working Out / Training - Clueless.   
    Get a trainer. You're just going to injure yourself without guidance. It doesn't have to be a ton of sessions, just have the trainer teach you how to start and go from there.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from LowBMISleever in Need Help With Working Out / Training - Clueless.   
    Get a trainer. You're just going to injure yourself without guidance. It doesn't have to be a ton of sessions, just have the trainer teach you how to start and go from there.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from LowBMISleever in Need Help With Working Out / Training - Clueless.   
    Get a trainer. You're just going to injure yourself without guidance. It doesn't have to be a ton of sessions, just have the trainer teach you how to start and go from there.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "
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    Fredbear got a reaction from darima77 in Annoying Co-Workers   
    Always best to not give a flying fig what people think of you!
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    Fredbear got a reaction from unique_cathy in Tomorrow is the day   
    Good luck!
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    Fredbear got a reaction from OKCPirate in Annoying Co-Workers   
    If you work with women, you should expect cattiness, lies, and gossip; it's what women do.
    If you have a Human Resources team, you can bring up the gossip and try to get it quashed (though that usually just makes it worse, and you'll be ostracized). Better to take the gossip up with your boss and see if she/he can stop it.
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    Fredbear got a reaction from OKCPirate in Annoying Co-Workers   
    If you work with women, you should expect cattiness, lies, and gossip; it's what women do.
    If you have a Human Resources team, you can bring up the gossip and try to get it quashed (though that usually just makes it worse, and you'll be ostracized). Better to take the gossip up with your boss and see if she/he can stop it.
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    Fredbear got a reaction from OKCPirate in Annoying Co-Workers   
    If you work with women, you should expect cattiness, lies, and gossip; it's what women do.
    If you have a Human Resources team, you can bring up the gossip and try to get it quashed (though that usually just makes it worse, and you'll be ostracized). Better to take the gossip up with your boss and see if she/he can stop it.
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    Fredbear got a reaction from nickisleeve in Psych eval?   
    My initial psych test had about 400 questions. I thought the questions about "hearing voices, being spied on, and people are stealing my thoughts!" were hilarious. It made the test go by quickly. The actual psychologist just spoke with me casually about family, relationships, basic stuff like that.
    "When all is said and done, usually more has been said than done. "

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