Everything posted by auntiemel
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Phooey!
My sister just spoiled me and bought me some cheap tank tops from old navy in various sizes. They had a 30% off sale and she had some of their old navy bucks so the tanks cost less than 2.00 each!
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recipe blog for post op! also, supermarket finds! add yours!
I am blogging my journey with vsg and just started a section for recipes and it's called "what's in my sleeve?" Adayinthesleevedlife.com
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Asking all you post sleevers: What do you wish you had known or done before surgery?
I wish I had known how sensitive my sleeve was going to be post-op. I can't take Vitamins or medications without food now, or I am really nauseous and end up dry heaving for a good 10-30 minutes. So everytime I take medicine I crush them or split them in half and add to my yogurt or applesauce. I also wish I knew how I would feel post-op, but that we can't experience before hand. Going out to eat is a chore. I went with my sister to Red Robin and got Soup and barely ate a few spoonfuls.
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Dealing with food addiction POST SURGERY
I wish I could snack sometimes lol, my sleeve is pretty sensitive and if I overeat, or even attempt one more bite I will throw up...well dry heave for 10-20 minutes. I know at some point I will have to add Snacks in and eat 5 mini meals, but it seems so daunting to me right now. I'm a month post op on Monday, and still don't have much of an appetite, and when I do eat, I can eat a few bites and be done.
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Need ideas did purée/mushies stage.
Refried beans with taco seasoning, scrambled eggs, applesauce, baby food (the fruits are delicious lol), steamed zucchini with marinara sauce, mashed potatoes with minced chicken
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Hiatal Hernia site
As a fair warning to everyone...do not lean over and get laundry out of a washer if the washer hits around the surgical site. I made that mistake and am now having pains ???? I know it will feel better in a few days, but it is frustrating!
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17 pounds down since surgery on 9/22
It has been almost a month and I see some others losing weight faster and even slower than me, but we are all different! High Weight: 337 Pre-op diet start weight: 320 Surgery day: 312 Today: 295 To even lose this amount of weight is amazing to me! I hope everyone is experiencing amazing weight loss as well!
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Boudoir Photos
I was thinking of asking my friend who is a photographer to do some pics for me when I get to my goal weight. I may not show tons of skin as I have ugly stretch marks from my fat, but I wouldn't mind some nice lingerie for the first time in my life.
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hi there!!! are there really gay people here?!?!?!?
I saw this and had to chime in...I'm not lgbt...but I hope everyone here feels welcome! If people don't like who you are because of your sexuality or even your choice to have wls, then maybe they aren't true friends/family. I have had many people say this is the easy way out, but it is far from it! Good luck and let me know how your surgery goes ????
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4 Wks Post Op Miserable
I was getting mucus built up in my tummy from my sinuses/allergies and was getting sick everyday, just pulling up mucus. I read another gal took Zyrtec to clear it up and so far I'm on day 2 without getting sick...hope it lasts ???? Please contact your doc/but and make sure they know what is going on.
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Popcorn
It can be eaten as a treat or out at the movies. But, I wouldn't eat it all the time. We should be able to make healthy food choices and not waste our sleeve space, but even my nut says sometimes you just need a little treat. If we deprive ourselves of a few pieces of popcorn some of us could end up in a tailspin to overeating...not sure how that's even possible as I can barely eat anything lol
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Eating after surgery
The meatballs are pretty small. Maybe as round as a quarter or less. I wasn't aware we had to time our meals.
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Eating after surgery
I have baby food fruits and still eat those. I mush up my food but still can't eat much...which is the whole point of surgery I know lol
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Eating after surgery
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Eating after surgery
I am on a soft mechanical diet and can have ground turkey/chicken. I made homemade meatballs and shave them down and chew them well. I also made sure they are moist with sauce on them to make it easier to eat. I didn't eat noodles or anything carby with them, just some meatballs and a bite of very steamed zucchini. My surgeon's protocol is day of surgery and next day- liquids. Week 1 puréed foods Week 2 & 3 soft mechanical foods Week 4 and beyond is "regular" foods that are chewed well and introducing foods 1 at a time. I am following the post op instructions given to me. I know all doctors are different. I was basically commenting on how I'm shocked that some people can still eat huge quantities of food when it seems like it would be impossible to do so.
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Eating after surgery
I know I didn't have much restriction during phases 1 & 2, but now that I am on phase 3-the soft diet, I can barely eat a meatball. It takes me about 2 hours to eat 2 meatballs...I know I'm 3 weeks out and it will get better...but I don't get how some people can eat so much after surgery. I watched "my 600 lb life" and one gal was eating fast food and large quantities after surgery...do some doctors only cut off a tiny bit of stomach? I feel stuffed on such a small amount, I couldn't imagine eating a full meal.
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You know you lost weight when
your capris fall off when you get out of the car...or anytime you walk...time to find my belt
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Sleeve buddy wanted
Lucky! I'm down 15 lbs since surgery on 9/22
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Brazillian Wax
Any ladies have a brazillian while still bigger? My sister and I are Supposed to be going today, but I'm nervous!
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Maintaining Her down there
Lol I was just going to ask if anyone has had a brazillian while stole bigger
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Read me.
Where they ate candy and...
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Really scared...
Very true! I could eat baby food and puréed foods without any restriction. Now that I am onto the mechanical soft phase, I can barely take a few bites. I know I am still swollen, I'm hoping down the road for a little less restriction LOL, but if it stays this way, I will just eat another mini meal to keep my calories where they need to be
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Anyone want to be fat again?
I could care less about saggy skin. I already have bat wings, so they will get worse, but maybe I will save for plastics some years down the road. I'm sure just being able to do more things will make up for a little extra skin. I actually walked up a hill at my nephews soccer game the other day and didn't have to stop multiple times. For his birthday at Chuck e cheese, I could actually fit in the booth. I wanted to burst out crying with happiness. It was always so embarrassing to me to not be able to sit at a booth. One time at Black Angus the waitress asked me if I wanted a chair without arms and I was already sitting down just fine...I told her I was fine, I had plenty of room on each side of me, I'm Apple shaped, so fitting into a chair with arms isn't as much of a problem. She actually brought another chair over and kept trying to make me sit in it. I should have got up and left. I know she was trying to make me comfortable, but when a fat girl says she is fine...leave her alone lol
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Lacking genuine support but hearing horror stories
I know plenty of people who do weight watchers, Jenny Craig, medifast, zone, atkins, south beah and whatever new diet that pops up...I used to be one of them...now that I have my sleeve, I don't have to worry about food. I'm never really hungry, I don't have cravings, and I hope one day to reach my goal weight. I could lose 10-15 pounds on a diet, sabotage myself and then gain back double. My family has a long history of obesity on both sides. It is something I inherited, that and my love of food. I watched my mom eat her way to 350 pounds during her abusive relationship with my dad. Although, growing up with such large family members, I never knew it was "bad." We always had to clean our plates, we were encouraged to eat seconds, and sometimes even thirds. Portions were always large, and even now I still cook for at least 6 people, even when it is only my hubby and I. I am 3 weeks post op as of yesterday, and for once I feel like food no longer controls me. I don't wake up jonesing for food, like some crave cigarettes. I do hope that the nausea I experience will pass soon, and that one day I will be able to eat a little bit more than I can now. As of now, I eat such small portions, it's no wonder I am still exhausted. My sister who is about 125 pounds can out eat me now LOL, and she eats such small portions already.
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Nerves
Deep breaths and xanax...I usually have some for my anxiety, but they played me to take it as needed pre-op...I didn't take any since I didn't feel like going to the pharmacy for more meds If you don't have anything, you can always ask your surgeon