ohboyherewego!

Just saw this. I hope you're doing better! Diff brands of vit D make ALL the difference. I ordered one on line I found thru a natural website called Stop Aging Now brand. Different name I know but man I felt awesome. Made a HUGE difference. I hope you gotnover the hump. Write back if you feel the need. My sleeve is TOMORROW! so excited but scared too!

I just don't understand people. I feel for you all. Recently I had a very sexy friend keep coming on to my husband and she sent him private fb emails with her number hoping he'd want to "talk" I guess. I know all about it because he told me lol I'm not insecure and my husband loves me fat or thin and we have a great marriage. My husband is rather oddly handsome (I'm prejudiced I know but really...he looks like a cross between Kevin Costner and Sam Elliot lol) so anyway...he isn't the least bit interested in her and I'm sure she can't figure out why someone like him loves a fatty like me lol. I just cut her loose. It was a little while after the email so she doesn't know exactly why but she can't be THAT stupid. One thing I have never had a problem with is cutting out toxic people. It hurts...and I have gone back to certain friends for a while but they always offend again. Fat or thin I'm still a better person than she could ever be! It is tedious. ..people come and go. I've learned to look past some people's idiosyncrasies for real friendship tho. I have a wonderful friend who loves to give unsolicited advice about stupid stuff way too often but guess what? She's happy for my surgery and SHE wouldn't come on to my husband!! Lol

How was your pain?? Is stuff staying down?

How are you doing Lee how much have you lost?

I'm a clovis girl! Doing my surgery this thursday nov 7 in LA. No one here could accommodate my insurance and or care credit. They all treated me like welfare was paying or something. Ridiculous. Anyway. ..very good and "creative" surgeon in LA. I CAN'T WAIT. I just wish I'd wake up thin lol. There is a fb support page called November Sleevers Support group. Much easier than using this forum but I like this too. I'm 5'7" 264 I'd like to be 170. First I kept saying 190 would be nice but hey...why not? Lol. My husband will not like it if I lose my ass lol. He is very supportive tho! He's out of state working so I hope to lose something substantial by the time he comes home. His job is keeping my insurance in place tho so tit for tat I guess. Whats your story? Who is your dr??

Gosh you guys have all nailed it. She will totally turn the tables and try to say you think you're better than her now. You know what I find? All us fatties in here seem to be well written, articulate, sympathetic, thoughtful. ...a might better than the idiots I see on Facebook! What a bunch of drama they can be. So many people miss out on what's inside a person. I am so proud of all of us who are working so hard to jump thru the hoops, save, scrimp and put in the hours to make ourselves better and healthier. Remember not to change TOO much after surgery folks. Or you'll be just like "them" (fat or thin..."them" meaning the negaters and haters and game players!) CHEERS!

Yay you!!!

I feel silly but all of the sudden two days before surgery and 10 min after reading some horror stories in here I really need some better info on this guy!

You lost a whole person! That must feel incredible! GOD my feet cannot wait to walk without pain. Ugh.

HOLY MOLY! that is SO AWESOME!!!!

Be happy it happened now. If she were to stay in your life she would just be a saboteur to your success. She is obviously jealous and immature. Best of luck to you! You will do great!

My surgery is thursday. I have not been put on a liquid diet. I obviously know to not eat the night before surgery but I haven't been given a lot of pre surgery instructions. ????

Hahah ya I just made a small pot of spaghetti tonight and man was it good. *sigh* Buh bye spaghetti.

I'm 42. I noticed while drinking from the big office water bottles that my hormones went nuts. Come to find out the BPA in plastic is a synthetic estrogen and threw me into an early menopause. It stopped tho completely but had a dose of that and THAT is for the BIRDS! LOL. I am so excited at the good but man I love beer and I know that will go bye bye and with it will go potatoes with ketchup my favorite day after food if we go out drinking. This has really hampered my dieting before so good riddance. I know I have to just let it go. Its like a favorite old pair of shoes. What did you guys give up that really made you sad or nervouse to say good bye to?

Welcome and congrats to you and wifey both! I just joined today as well. Hoping for my date to be about first week of November. Keep the stories coming. You will do great!