Jimmyjoe, don't apologize for posting this information. That's what these boards are for. Potential patients have a right to know.
Wasa is crucifying you because you posted this person's experience, that's all. It does not help her Quest here. She has her own agenda. Now she claims to have a health history of this person, even more than the person's friends and family! She will now proceed to accuse you of using a fake ID...oh, I see she already has.
She doesn't have any special contacts other than the people she works for. She has been asked to share her contacts with us here or provide documentation to validate her statements and she never has.
You were not wrong. Wasa is wrong here. For the rest of us, our hearts and prayers go out to the friends and family of this person. Revision surgery is a very technically challenging procedure and should only be done by surgeons with a great deal of experience and expertise in this field. Mainly because of the abundance of scar tissue and risk of bowel perforation, which is what happened in this case.
Don't let wasa chase you away. Stay here and share with the rest of us. We appreciate it and can help each other. Also, don’t give up the idea of having surgery or even going to Mexico. Just do extra research and you will find a good surgeon. Many of us have.