I think it's just that we are scared of success and failure, change and staying the same all at once. I'm scared of always feeling it, like never feeling like me again. I dread recovery. I've had several surgeries. I've recovered well...not sure why this is so freaky. I had a hernia repair, oral surgery, sinus surgery, a c section, and bilateral carpal tunnel releases. All successful, all good results, one equally life changing!
I'm scared I'll be a big burden to my husband, both if I do this, or if I didn't. I want the health that will come with losing weight.