blankmama

Welcome to the forum. You'll find that this is a great place with great people who provide awesome support. Good luck with your journey.

I'm having doubts lately about having surgery. There is nobody that is talking me out of it except myself. Since march I have lost over 20 lbs on my own. I'm doing it for myself, by myself. Know the surgery would work but I don't know if I'm at the point in my life where I can go through with it. With these doubts I will not undergo surgery. I will however finish all my preop requirements so that if I change my mind in the near future I'll be able to get it done. I wish you all the best. Thank you for being there for me, and for each other.

Make sure that you check how much it'll cost. Luckily my insurance covered mine with just a copayment of $25.00, the psychologist I went to charges $500 for the psych evaluation.

I actually considered it. But I spoke with my surgeon about it and I've read up on it. I know you have higher chances of leaks with the sleeve. My surgeon recommended rny, so did my primary physician.

Congratulations!

Good luck with your surgery and way to go for being able to lose the weight you did. That's quite incredible.

I hear you have to each phase after surgery. Good luck.

Thank you all. and Jessica I'll remember that next time. thank you

So he apologized to me last night. He told me not to read into what he said and to totally ignore it. He was hungry and pissed and spoke without using his brain to filter his mouth. Last night we sat down and discussed finances and he explained what was going on in the world of finances this summer. He told me that if I want this surgery he understands and he's not telling me that I cannot get it done. He did ask me if I could put if off until after August, which is fine with me. I am willing to do that. I don't want to screw us financially, especially during the summer when the we all have time off. Next month my car license fee is due, I have 100$ just in doctor visits, not including the gas to get to them twice. Unfortunately my insurance dictates that I cannot go to the doctor for more than one in thing in a day. So that means that I cannot have a nutrition appointment the same day as a pre-op. I was planning on going down there for my psych eval but decided against it because I would have had to make 3 more trips down there. My husband is a good man, he helps out a lot with laundry, dishes and the kids. He just gets burned out, like we all do. Some days he snaps, like we all do. He's supportive of my decision though he wishes I could do this without surgery, but so do I. I just needed to vent the other day. I was hurt and he knew it. He didn't say anything else cruel. I love my husband and my kids, that's why I want this surgery. I want to be around for them. I want to feel healthier and I believe that comes with weightloss, not just a little weightloss but a lot of weightloss. I'm sorry for everyone dealing with dificult situaltions. I know that we all have financial trouble and we all probably have to deal with unsupportive people. Thank you all for your support and kindness. I really enjoy this forum and the people on it.

Thank you for your kind words Amy. We are lucky enough to have insurance so all we pay are copays but the surgeon I'm going to is 179 miles from our house so it's the gas that also puts a financial strain on us. But I don't know what I'm going to do. I don't know if I really want to have surgery now. I've lost 20 lbs since march 9. I'm drinking a protein shake for breakfast and I've cut out sugars and lowered my calorie and fat intake along with portion size. I want to give myself another chance but I don't want to screw up my chances for surgery. I know I'd love it if I could lose the weight and keep it off on my own without surgical help. I just worry that I'll put it back on without surgery. Or worse, what if I put weight back on after surgery. Ugh! I'm having doubts

I like the unjury chicken soup too. I get sick of the sweet protein all the time. I am not a fan of any other unjury flavor though. I need to go to gnc or look online for different flavors.

Yay! Look forward to getting a new cookbook or two.