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Hmm. Well, with all due respect, none of us are here on this site because we aren't (or weren't) "big girls". Was it indelicate of him to use the term to describe you? Sure. But is it truthful?
People typically use the first or most distinguishing physical characteristic to describe a person to someone else, ie. I'm often "the black chick" or "the black Rebecca"; other people are "the blonde guy", "that nerdy girl", "the bald guy". Is any of that PC? Nope, but, it happens. The thing I note here is that they both agreed that you are attractive. Even more so now that you are slimming down. Further, like you pointed out yourself, he pursued you. Something to ponder. Now, however, I fully agree with the person who posted above that he ain't the sharpest knife in the drawer if he sent you a video wherein he was insulting you (inadvertently or not). So if you aren't feeling him anyway, then just take it in stride and keep in mind that Marilyn Monroe quote "if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best!" Take care.

Talk about insensitive. IMO, every pound lost is a victory. What a horrible thing for the doctor to say. I am sorry you had to hear that.

Surgery weight:258
Today weight 170
Goal weighy 150/155...

Congrats

My incision pain is the worst. Yes the 28th and I have air bubbles. I have had Tomato Soup and today I had mash potatoes. Not really hunger my stomach just growls really really bad. Jello I cant stand now or broth. ????

I was right there with you 2 days post op. Walk as much as you can and it will flow, if u are laying on ur back rub your stomach and then walk every hour and thirty if u can, I did it and the gas has been rolling. Hope u feel better.

I Couldn't Tell You Qbout Number 2 Because I've Yet To Get There Lol I Was Sleeved On The 26th Of Feb. Only Thing That's Coming Out Is Gas. As Far As A Shower I Took I Full One For the First Time Today My Doc Said it Was Ok Just Don't Peal The Tape That Over You Incisions. Hope That Helps Peace And Love

My name is Tabitha I'm from Raleigh NC
My sx date is 02/28 I am very nervous. I am ready for a new life but kinda not ready to answer all questions. I don't want to lose so much that I look like a horse in the face lol, I have seen some terrible looking folks up and close. I love all the success stories here. Congrats to everyone ????

I have mine today at 235
Good luck

St. 256.8 lbs. Now 176.8 is this ok I seem to be a slow loser ??
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Time and love will surpass all of this! Good luck and don't be stressed

I made an appt to see Dr Tyner next week. I missed my first post op visit ecause of a death in the family. I look and feel good but eager to check in.

Time and love will surpass all of this! Good luck and don't be stressed

Good luck I started preparation 02/04 and I will have sx 02/28 I am excited and nervous still. Read and do all things with an open mind. Everybody is different! Good luck ????

Glad u ok

Awesome... You guys keep it fun ????

You guys will be a ok! Praying for your success! Be blessed ????

You guys will be a ok! Praying for your success! Be blessed ????

My surgery is scheduled for February 25th. I have been on liquids only for the last week with one week to go. I have not cheated once. But I am thinking about it all the time. Do any of you have any suggestions to get me through this last week? I know after surgery I will still be on liquids for another 4 weeks, but I'm really struggling here.

Another good fb group is One pound at a time girls only and they are all amazing! Let me know if you want to join and i'll add you.