GoldyGirl

Lol

Don't mind her something is extremely wrong with her. It's ok to post how you feel even if you cuss every now and then. It's sad you need our support and she just wanted to chastise you. I hope everything works out and you get the support you need! Us real supporters will be here if you need us!

Against forum rules.
Lol

I noticed it right away myself.
I noticed it right away myself.

I am dealing with life and death things here and NO Support!!!! SMH
She used the F-word. If you take the time to read carefully, you will see that it has since been deleted by a moderator. That word is not considered acceptable to many people. My request was perfectly reasonable.
It seems the same 4 or 5 members of that little high school clique that were following me around are at it again, wagging their finger at me.
Get off my case. Take a hike and burn some calories, girls!

I noticed it right away myself.
I noticed it right away myself.

I'm sorry; but, it's funny how no one noticed the deleted word until you pointed it out. It's funny how THAT is what you noticed.

So sorry your husband said those thing to you. It is probably just the stress of everything you have been through. He was probably just letting off frustration eventhough there is no excuse for it.
I too have the same issues. Although, I don't think they are as severe as yours as of yet. I've posted about this and how scared I am that I may too be facing gastric bypass. I had my sleeve surgery 5/21/12 then gall bladder surgery in March of 2013. I have also been diagnosed with bile reflux and gastritis. Also the worse diagnosis is esophageal spasms. UGH.. so painful. My surgeon mentioned the bypass to me and I told him no. Not yet. I will see how things are. Unlike your conditions, I can still keep food down. You are underweight I see and you really have to do this so you can get nutrition in.
I'm praying for you. I hope all all is well for you on Thursday. Please keep us informed on how you are doing.
Good luck and God bless you!

What. In. The. World.
Goldy, I am so very sorry you're feeling alone and victimised at this very moment.
Here's hoping your husbands exasperation got the best of him and he re-evaluates his standpoint. After all, you probably did this to improve EVERYONES lives in the long-term and he's solely thinking about things in the short-term.
You're not alone. We're all here and will be here waiting for you on the other side.
Just a little bump and it'll be over and you'll be flying again. x

I was hoping not see your name again trust no one is following u Aren't you in your 50s why are you so rude I don't get it this is a new group of people here u come with a dumb comment no u take a hike and burn some of that hate of of you miserable lady

I am so sorry you are going through all of this. I will be saying a prayer for a speedy recovery. Please know that we are here to support you.

I am so sorry to hear that you have told have another surgery....sounds like you have had one helluva year. I'm also sorry that you have hubby issues on top of it all. No one "chooses" too be fat...that's crazy. What you did do, however, was choose to get healthy and have the sleeve surgery. I commend you for that...I know how tough it can be.
Please know that you are not alone...we are hear for you anytime. Feel free to message me anytime!!!!!
(((Hugs)))

You need prayer!!!!! I think u need to seek help for your hatefulness!!!!!

I'm sorry, but, she didn't say anything out of line. This is not a place to be judged or to be corrected for your language. Really???

I think we are all grown here. She's really feeling bad and if she felt the need to say a cuss word then she is entitled to that. You didn't have to comment on it. Don't try to down her more by lecturing her she's obviously going through some things. Not trying to blow this up.. So no need to comment back..

Really, you're pissed that she said pissed? Get over yourself.
Goldy, PJackson's probably right - unless he's always like this, he might just be feeling overwhelmed and scared and maybe just doesn't know how to tell you that. I hope things calm down for you soon, and Thursday's surgery resolves your health problems. In the meantime, you've always got support here on the boards!

Goldy girl, so sorry he is not being supportive. It is not your fault you had complications. We all know it's a risk going in. I will be thinking of you Thursday and wishing you a speedy and uneventful recovery.
Lynda

Oh geez, I have no answer but am so sorry you're having to go through this. Both physically and emotionally. It is absolutely exhausting. Fingers crossed that this is it and y'all can get back to normal after this.

Ive never left a restaurant without a to-go box and then I eat it for lunch all week... If my son doesn't find it first

My attitude can definitely go from 1 to 10 with you just looking at me wrong.
My emotions where are they ?
I definitely don't have any empathy or sympathy for stupidity and foolishness.
My attitude is getting worse by the day.
Not really nervous , but feel so stressed out.
Has this happened to you ?

I just recently started looking into the RNY gastric surgery. I wanted lapband originally but found that it isn't right for me and my needs. I am confident in rny and very happy i may get it done. Still in early stages but i am so postive and ready for a lifestyle change. But no one around me supports it. All my family and friends keep telling me i'm making a mistake. I will be miserable, i'll hate not being able to eat junk food and fast food like i do everyday, they say i'll be sick all the time and will regret the surgery. No one thinks it's a good idea or even understands why i want it done so badly. My bmi is 47. i'm young, 21, but in need of a serious wake up call and lifestyle change. i believe rny is it and i'm so postive it will work great for me.
Does anyone out there regret the surgery? or had the same fears from family and proven them wrong?
I know i'm doing this surgery for me and no one else and not to listen to them, but it really sucks when all they do is try to talk you out of it.

Everything was great can't really consume the 4oz of clear liquids I get full before it and the sugar free stuff is kinda nasty it seems sweeter than the ones with sugar... How log will this abdominal pain last? Officially post op yay after this pain is gone I can finally start living

I got y'all all beat! I'm three and 1/2 years out and STILL FREEZING! LOL.

Girl...I don't know what you should do to fix the problem...but I do know I'm scared for you to have the bypass....ugh...so scared. Please keep us posted.