Hi All, I'm frustrated and could use your help.... I met with a dietician on 12/30 before the 3-mos required interdisciplinary program, weighing 260#.... started the 3-mos program several weeks later at 265#.... Have learned a lot during the program and made a lot of progress with eating better and more exercise but finished the 3 months at 264. While I didn't lose weight from the original meeting, I didn't gain weight during the program, I exercised more, was shopping, packing Breakfast & lunch, was cooking more at home... Made lots of progress but still struggling with portion control & hunger at night. BUT, since I didn't lose, the program I am with won't submit to insurance even though they never told me I had to lose x amount of weight. I was told this was a program to prepare me for life after surgery so I focused on things that would help me in the long term... Drinking more Water, eating more Protein, exercise, not drinking with meals, taking my Vitamins, chewing thoroughly, reading the VST forums regularly, etc.... Maybe I didn't lose weight but I made significant progress. I'm disappointed that they don't see that. Now they have said i have to continue to the 6-mos program before they will submit to insurance. My next appt is May 11th and my 6mos appt is June 8th. I need your help & encouragement to do what it takes to lose weight before those final appts to show them I'm serious so they will submit to insurance. I've thought about exploring self-pay or starting over with another program but want to give it one more try. I am serious, this is hard but I've tried everything else and feel that surgery is my best option. If insurance would deny me, I'd do what it takes to get approval, I just feel like I'm being held hostage by the program because they won't submit my request. I'm sorry I just needed to vent. If there is anyone else who has to lose before they will take you seriously, I'd love the opportunity to support each other to reach our goals.