Yes, I've had this happen with most people that I told. I'm 5'6, 230 pounds with an apple shape and full face. I guess I hide my weight pretty well, but for me this decision has been motivated by a heart condition, being exhausted all the time, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and a lot of cancer & diabetes in my family. My cardiologist said I needed to lose 100 pounds. I cried when he told me that because I think in my food addicted mind, I thought I wasn't 't that bad either. The truth is, I'm on bad shape and my health is at risk and I just pray that once I have surgery, it will be the answer to my prayers.