Oh I so know how frustrating it is this is the story of my life my husband was truly against me getting WLS. What I did was take in to several seminar so he could get an complete understanding of the the sugary entails and why people get WLS from a third party it help almost a year out he came a long way still calming some hills him,not understanding why I have to work out 5 days a week and even when I go to get adjustments he often disagrees but I always explain that I need to do this for myself. Now 98lbs down this is one of the best things I've done for myself I think educating your husband and reinforcing that your doing this for your health and let him know how important it is that he support you will go along way Good luck