MJ's comingN2form

I mean did u have a cocktail

Ok what I need to know is did I have a cocktail and if so how did I effect you? I'm 2weeks post op and I can't wait to hit my favorite Mexican spot and have a cadillac Rita

Hi Michelle congrats! I'm also new to the site and find it very helpful but a lot of responses are opinions and experiences. You will be able to determine between the 2 but don't let some comments discourage you. I wasnt really down to have the surgery on my own my mom kept pushing the issue. 2 coworkers and myself decide to make it a team effort and had the surgery together. It all happen so fast. We talked about it in April and in July we were all ready for surgery. I was the scariest one becuz I knew I had to be head strong and I wasn't ready to give up good food! Oh how I love my chicken wings! But when I looked at the example I was setting for my daughter (who is also obese) I knew I wanted to do it for her if not for me! She gave the ok becuz i didn't wanna feel like she was getting cheated becuz I chose to go the easier way and it's my fault she's obese. But she is my biggest cheerleader and @ 14 showing her support for me brings tears to my eyes. She doesn't blame me for her being over weight I blame myself. It's not easy by far it takes dedication and lots of will power and that's speaking from only being 2 Wks post op. I hope all goes well with you and congrats once again!!