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Bonawanabfree

Gastric Sleeve Patients
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from VSGmary in NSV shout outs   
    As embarrassing as this is to admit I have to say the biggest NSV for me thus far is not having bathroom complications anymore. It is so much easier to get in and get out now.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from 4MRB4PHOTO in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    I had a date with a man once and he said to me "I dont want a baptist church i want the Sistine Chapel" This was many years ago and it was very hurtful. If I could go back to that point in my life with the same confidence I have now i would have slapped him so hard he would have landed in the Vatican city. This was about 13 years ago. I was timid and knew nothing about dating. I look back at it and laugh because he was the most disgusting person I ever went on a date with. He helped raise my standards. Maybe you should do the same. Just say to your friend "Thank you for showing me what kind of friend I dont want in my life"
    By the way I am baptist and I dont want to be the Sistine Chapel
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from chelleshocked in How long does authorization take?   
    Im with BCBS IL. Approval took about 2 weeks.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from JustWatchMe in My mother had weight loss surgery - Our relationnship?   
    I do not agree with anyone picking on anyone at all, Maybe you should tell your mother the she is making you feel attacked and uncomfortable and that you wished she was more comforting to you. That being said I need to speak to you about this other issue of blame. I gre up in a family that did not care what they ate either. We were never health conscience and I was always a lage child. I never in my wildest dreams thuoght to blame my partents. It is not their fault that they were ignorant to the causes of certain foods. I developed a metobolic disorder over time and that is why I made this decision for myself. I have struggled with my weight all of my life and never once did I blame anyone but myself. The best advice I can give is to take responsibility for yourself right now. You are in charge of you. Sure, When you were a kid what choice did you have? You ate what your parents gave you because you were not thinking about long term health issues because you were a child and I can almost bet your partents diddnt think about those issues either because they probably grew up thinking of food as a way to show love to you. There are many factors as to why they ate like that and fed you that way but I remember one day my Mom said to me "It's pretty bad when you wake up one morning and realize your parents are human". We all make mistakes but you are blaming your parents and wasting precious time being upset when you should be enjoying and loving them. If you let go of the past hurts you will be able to create a more fulfilling life for yourself.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from 4MRB4PHOTO in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    I had a date with a man once and he said to me "I dont want a baptist church i want the Sistine Chapel" This was many years ago and it was very hurtful. If I could go back to that point in my life with the same confidence I have now i would have slapped him so hard he would have landed in the Vatican city. This was about 13 years ago. I was timid and knew nothing about dating. I look back at it and laugh because he was the most disgusting person I ever went on a date with. He helped raise my standards. Maybe you should do the same. Just say to your friend "Thank you for showing me what kind of friend I dont want in my life"
    By the way I am baptist and I dont want to be the Sistine Chapel
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    Bonawanabfree reacted to 4MRB4PHOTO in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    You should have told him "With an attitude like that, you're getting NUN (none)"!
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from tiffanymarie6997 in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    You should have said "I am not pretty, I am Beautiful! and don't ever say something so ugly to me again in your life!"
    (Then you do a hair flip and walk away like you own the place.)
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from 4MRB4PHOTO in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    I had a date with a man once and he said to me "I dont want a baptist church i want the Sistine Chapel" This was many years ago and it was very hurtful. If I could go back to that point in my life with the same confidence I have now i would have slapped him so hard he would have landed in the Vatican city. This was about 13 years ago. I was timid and knew nothing about dating. I look back at it and laugh because he was the most disgusting person I ever went on a date with. He helped raise my standards. Maybe you should do the same. Just say to your friend "Thank you for showing me what kind of friend I dont want in my life"
    By the way I am baptist and I dont want to be the Sistine Chapel
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from 4MRB4PHOTO in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    I had a date with a man once and he said to me "I dont want a baptist church i want the Sistine Chapel" This was many years ago and it was very hurtful. If I could go back to that point in my life with the same confidence I have now i would have slapped him so hard he would have landed in the Vatican city. This was about 13 years ago. I was timid and knew nothing about dating. I look back at it and laugh because he was the most disgusting person I ever went on a date with. He helped raise my standards. Maybe you should do the same. Just say to your friend "Thank you for showing me what kind of friend I dont want in my life"
    By the way I am baptist and I dont want to be the Sistine Chapel
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    Bonawanabfree reacted to tiffanymarie6997 in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    I'm cracking up!!
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from tiffanymarie6997 in "You'd be much prettier if you lost weight"   
    @@tiffanymarie6997
    You should have said "I am not pretty, I am Beautiful! and don't ever say something so ugly to me again in your life!"
    (Then you do a hair flip and walk away like you own the place.)
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from kimpossible67 in I blew it   
    I know the stress you are dealing with. You are fine. Just try to stay calm and dont borrow trouble. Right now you need to focus on family more than your food. Stay strong. You are in my prayers.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from peteyrulz in Things men say when told about WLS :)   
    @@hadouni
    Wow! I wouldnt want to deal with that last guy at all. That was a huge red flag. Run the other way and dont look back. Dont be blinded by his looks either. He will end up treating you terribly just because he will degrade you and lower your self worth. I can see it in my crystal ball already.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from Miss Meg in Who all did you tell?   
    i forgot to tell you why i tell everyone. I want everyone to know that this was my saving grace in life. I want others to be inspired by this decision cause they may want to make the same steps and they may need a hand to hold. I have always been an open person though. I am an open book and if people dont like my decision they can fly a kite....lol
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from yamshams in Who all did you tell?   
    I told everyone capable of hearing and still do.
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from Miss Meg in Who all did you tell?   
    i forgot to tell you why i tell everyone. I want everyone to know that this was my saving grace in life. I want others to be inspired by this decision cause they may want to make the same steps and they may need a hand to hold. I have always been an open person though. I am an open book and if people dont like my decision they can fly a kite....lol
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from Miss Meg in Who all did you tell?   
    i forgot to tell you why i tell everyone. I want everyone to know that this was my saving grace in life. I want others to be inspired by this decision cause they may want to make the same steps and they may need a hand to hold. I have always been an open person though. I am an open book and if people dont like my decision they can fly a kite....lol
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from Djmohr in Anyone buy Premier Protein at Sam's Club?   
    I get the chocolate ones from costco. its the only shakes ill drink now.
    I get an 18 pack for $25
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from Miss Meg in Who all did you tell?   
    i forgot to tell you why i tell everyone. I want everyone to know that this was my saving grace in life. I want others to be inspired by this decision cause they may want to make the same steps and they may need a hand to hold. I have always been an open person though. I am an open book and if people dont like my decision they can fly a kite....lol
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    Bonawanabfree got a reaction from VSGmary in NSV shout outs   
    As embarrassing as this is to admit I have to say the biggest NSV for me thus far is not having bathroom complications anymore. It is so much easier to get in and get out now.

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