sonnymom

Which do you think is best for us non-runners? They both sound really good. Since you've used both, you're a great resource. I have about 50 lbs. to lose and am hovering at 200.

When was your surgery?

I've been pretty selective about who I've told. I work with a know-it-all idiot who has already stated that the LapBand is the worst type of diet. If she knew I was having the surgery, she would be spreading it around our high school campus so fast. Only 3 people on my campus know I'm doing it, and I'm hoping that one of them (the administrator who I report to) hasn't said anything to the idiot. It's hard enough working with this person, but this will definitely put me to the test. My young, physically fit daughter's comment was "why don't you just eat better". I haven't told my son yet (they're 27 and 30). Thank goodness my husband is incredibly supportive - love him!!! Surgery is mid-Feb, so I'm pretty sure my weight loss will be noticeable by the end of the school year. I say - let them wonder how I'm looking so good!

My husband is extremely supportive about my upcoming surgery. I was quite surprised when my physically fit daughter responded with "why don't you change how you eat?". I've told three people at work - my best friend, the school nurse, and the administrator I report to (I'm a teacher). All 3 have promised to not say anything. I haven't said anything to the person I work closest with is because she's like Western Union with an opinion - already said in a discussion that lapband was the worst of all diets - like she's been so successful on her HMR diet! I have a feeling that my administrator may have said something to her, but being non-confrontational - not sure how to bring it up. I know that students and teachers will talk when the weight starts coming off, I'll deal with it then. As many of you have said - it's none of their business!

I too am extremely anxious about the surgery - being knocked out. Both of my parents died in their early 50's due to heart problems caused by weight, smoking, lack of exercise, diet, etc. Well, I don't smoke, I am overweight (duh) and exercise more than they ever did combined. Still, I'm worried. Never had surgery before and it truly scares me. My husband says it's a breeze, just like all of you. This forum is extremely helpful, glad I found it!

Thanks for the tips on what to purchase. Not a big V-8 fan though. Guess that's what may have gotten me to where I am now. I guess I'll develop a new appreciation for it soon.