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Everything posted by Violet953
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Sex
Lmao this is funny. Honestly though...I wasn't thinking much about it either ...I was in no mood for it...and I think I waited about 2-3 weeks? Something like that...because I know the first two weeks it wasn't happening even if he asked me!
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Frustrated To The Point Of Crying
Hey hun...I feel your pain...I am only a month out and haven't lost a thing... My fear is that I will end up not loosing much 6 months out...since I get my fills every month and have to wait another month to get my second one..didn't get any restriction from it either. What about just walking? You don't have to do vigorous exercise but if you just tried to walk for 30-60 minutes a day it may make a big difference. I think you've done great so far though ..think about it this way..at least your not a year out and have only lost 15 pounds! You really haven't done too bad..some ppl just loose wayyy faster than others...they are lucky...but I know we will get there. Good luck!
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Enough!
Same for me...I've only had one fill since surgery though. How long has it been since surgery for you?
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How Long Am I Going To Have To Wait For Restriction?
Thanks everybody for the advice I really appreciate it. I do notice a tad bit of restriction from this fill...really not much to mention but I guess its something. I am going to ask the doc if they can give me fills sooner than every month...maybe I'll wait about a week or so and see what they say. I have a feeling that they don't but who knows we will see...maybe they will do it in like 3 weeks or something...or maybe I have to reschedule a week earlier than my appt! LoL They'll probably catch me on that one though. I really don't want to wait until the middle of summer to finally have restriction...I want to be able to have the restriction with my exercising right now...I'm doing so good with that part of it, I just need the rest to get me started! I know I will do great once I do!
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How Long Am I Going To Have To Wait For Restriction?
Ugh Geez! I gotta run to work but I just wanted to mention real quick that they put 3 ccs in my band! And its a 10cc!
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How Long Am I Going To Have To Wait For Restriction?
Hi everyone...I had my surgery on February 8th and haven't really lost much weight since. I've been loosing inches because I still exercise but not really any weight. I just had my first fill a few days ago...and they told me that I won't feel restriction until my 3rd or 4th fill...so this means that I have to wait another 3 or 4 months? They do a fill every month...it just seems like that's soooooo far away. I have no restriction yet. And trust me I know that I need to wait it out and see how it goes like everybody tells me...which I am prepared for...but it just doesn't seem right that I have to wait this long for restriction..does it?
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Zumba
I lost 30 pounds before surgery walking away the pounds! Look Insanity up...its from the guy who did Hip Hop Abs...Shaun T. Its really brutal but they say you will loose a lot in 60 days!
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Zumba
I didn't like Zumba for that reason...it was wayyy too fast and I couldn't keep up! Plus I didn't understand the moves...but I also can't dance...so it really just wasn't for me. I do Walk away the pounds mostly but have been switching it up so that my muscles don't get used to the same moves over and over..and now that its so nice out I've been walking outside and I'm going to today with weights. Last night I tried Insanity...LMAO! Have any of you tried that? Now its just crazy..but I did my best and I'm really thinking about sticking with it...the more I do the better I'll get!
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Finally Got Around To Taking A New Picture...
Holy Crap what a difference!!!!! You look amazing girl!! Congrats!
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Help!! Severe Constipation...
Hey hunny...Idk if I've told you this before but I drink Danactive everyday. I have been for a few weeks now and it helps me go. It's been doing wonders for me and I think it tastes amazing...I just get the vanilla flavor but there's a couple more. I forgot to take it one day..and I definitely noticed because I had to struggle to go! Got back on track and have been fine ever since! Hang in there I know how you feel and its just awful.
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Communication Problems
If I were you I'd be asking them why nobody called you to let you know about the appointment...that's not right! The lady that took care of everything for me always called and told me of my appointments and was very on top of things. Every place is different but still I would say something and ask them to please make sure that they call you for everything from now on.
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Failed Lap Band!!!!
Yeah it sounds like you should just get that fixed and get yourself some fills! At least you lost some weight..that's what I would do before having another surgery.
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Straws
http://www.lapbandtalk.com/topic/143124-straws/page__fromsearch__1
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Thanks guys. I called today and found out that it probably will be covered, it's just a big huge process. I found a pump from Lympha Press and they had me call one of their retailers and this lady who told me she had just started there helped me with everything...she was really nice and said it takes about 4-6 weeks I soooo don't wanna wait! I need this now, not a month from now. So I'm thinking of maybe going to the hospital and having them put them on me for a while so I can get some relief. All the paperwork is being sent to my doctor and to help speed the process I made an appointment to see her on Wednesday ...so when I go she will be able to write me a script for the pump and sign all the paperwork for me. Then it gets sent back to that lady and she will send it to my insurance...then I have to wait. Sweet!
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Cheri found it for me ..it was the compression pump. I'm pretty sure that's what they put on me too during surgery.
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Okay yeah I'd love to hear how she dealt with hers... SHiki have you been to a lymphodema clinic? I just looked one up and I'm gonna call them as soon as they open. All I want to do is go there and get relief. I am praying they will have an opening for me.
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Thanks Cheri. The one lady who I called that has the pumps said my insurance doesn't cover it...so who knows if it will cover these. I honestly feel that when I call the doctor I'm gonna burst into tears because I can't take this anymore. I felt SO GOOD after surgery and as soon as I was back on my feet they blew up again!
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Wow Shiki thank you..that is terrible...I have seen some awful cases of it and I just feel so bad for everybody who has this...its SO bad! I too hide my legs...have had to for about 3 years now...its so embarrassing. I do not have any boils but my skin looks a bit rough at times...I put lotion on from time to time and it helps with that. Yours sounds just awful! I can only imagine what you go through..I have heard about draining the fluid and that its a painful process...but I don't think I need to go that far. Sounds like you did that on your own!
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Yes! Thank you:) I'm looking up all kinds of stuff right now too and didn't see that..lol
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
Elcee I have compression stockings, I get 4 pairs a month that the insurance covers that cost over $70 a PAIR! But I'm talking about the things they put on your legs that they plugged in, it was like a personal massage on my legs. Helped with the circulation flow. Is that what you mean...do they sell those? And Cheri, that's what I'm really hoping for. I want it to go away so badly. I didn't have this when I weighed a lot less so I don't think I will once I loose the weight.
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Does Anybody Have Lymphodema?
My ankles look unhuman. I was diagnosed with Lymphodema a couple of years ago and I can't stand it...all they did was prescribe me compression stockings...which worked at first and they went down significantly...but now they aren't working as much even though I wear them every single day and sometimes at night! I looked up people with this disease on google images and saw some really awful stuff...people with wayyy worse cases then mine...So I can only imagine how much pain they are in...because I am hurting! And not to mention this extra Water weight I want GONE. Just to let you know what I'm dealing with here...I'm going to measure them to let you know how huge they are right now. This is after being on my feet for 9 hours, too. My left ankle is the worst one and is 18 inches...the right is 17 inches. Its disgusting! They really should be about 12 inches or less to give you an idea of how much bigger they are. Now, when I had surgery, I'm sure many of you also had those compression things on your legs to help with your circulation...well these were awesome for me...it was like a treatment because up until the week after surgery they were beautiful, completely un-swollen! And I lost 12 pounds from it! Once I was back on my feet, and my ankles blew back up again, I gained it right back. It was really upsetting. The doctor also told me that I should be prepared because even after I loose all of the weight, I may still have this condition...but they say that a lot..for my sleep apnea too. I really hope not...but I am going to call my doctor first thing tomorrow morning because I can't take this anymore I want those things that they put on me at surgery! What were those called? I called this one place who had something similar and they didn't take my insurance...I have Medicaid. So does anybody have this condition and Medicaid? I need to know what I can get covered for this ..I looked it up online too and I'm finding all kinds of stuff but who knows if they take my insurance. It looks pricey. I also would love massage therapy for it. Ugh I can't wait to talk to my doctor about this! I decided to take a couple of pictures to show you what it looks like. HERE GOES: God I look like my legs are stubs amputated off my feet!
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23 Days Post Op And Feelin Good!
Wow look at you! You are doing so great girl! You must be so happy. I'm doing great too except for the fact that my ankles are driving me NUTS. I have Lymphodema. Do you have it/know anyone who has it? My ankles are huge and its starting to cause me even more pain... But anyway congrats...keep loosin it!!
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To Those Of You Who Say You Don't Have Time For Exercise...
I definitely agree to disagree! That's for sure! I have a right to rant if I want to...just like everybody else on here..just like Hummingbird has her opinions... And one more thing, Cheri...I'm not "pushing my beliefs" on anyone..I'm simply speaking to anyone who wants to listen..Is that okay? Isn't that what people do all day long on this forum? Like I've already said in another post...People will do what they want to do.. How dare all of you tell me to "shut my pie hole" I didn't have much more to say anyway but if I did, I'm allowed to say it! I never told anyone to shut up- just because I didn't like what they have to say...if you don't like what you are reading...stop reading it! And Hummingbird, I apologize for letting this get out of hand. I admit I was rude to you and shouldn't have been...it is great that you lost the weight. Congratulations on your weight loss.
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To Those Of You Who Say You Don't Have Time For Exercise...
Who do I think I am? Hmm Lets see...I think I am an overweight woman who is trying to take a new lease on life and do things right for a change...and I think I should try to get people to do it the RIGHT way...not the wrong way...so whoever reads this...please think about whats right and whats healthy. And they are excuses! I see people make excuses all day long in my own personal life and in here! And yeah its not my concern about how you lost your weight! You are the one who shared it with me though!
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To Those Of You Who Say You Don't Have Time For Exercise...
No actually I'm just using common sense and everything I learned from this forum & my surgeon! Are you really trying to argue that exercise is not beneficial? That its just "optional"? Its people like you on here who give false hope to the newcomers. There is no way I'd be able to loose the weight without exercising- and I wouldn't want to! Most of us here have to struggle every day! To make people think that you can just breeze through this is ridiculous!