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I wonder if your pouch is swollen? I'd try a few days on a liquid diet to see if that would help. Warm liquids in the morning seem to do some good.

Most reputable programs suggest that we lose two to three pounds a week. Many of us lose more or less for periods and sometime we stay the same for a while then lose ten lbs almost overnight, it's seldom linear. What's important is that we average 2-3 lbs a week over a several month period. If we don't, we're eating too much no matter what pop science says.

You probably should see a GOOD WLS doctor soon. You shouldn't be having those problems. It sounds as though your band has slipped, eroded or you may have developed GERD, all of which need medical attention. You need to either get to an ER, or make an appointment tomorrow. Please take care of this immediately. I hope it turns out well for you.

In our program, we were told that for unusual fatigue, to take vitamin B12 (sublingual) tabs. It's worth a try.

In my opinion, a BMI of 35 or greater, diagnosed diabetes and sleep apnea should be enough to qualify you for WLS surgery, with most insurance companies. Any other comorbidities would only strengthen your case. Please keep posting here and keep us informed as to your progress. Good luck.

Hi Difa, you've come to the right place. You can get the benefit of other people's practical experience here, and if you can help others, please do so. Best of luck.

You might try a few days on liquids and see if that helps.

Most people find relief by walking a lot and others say windmilling your arms helps (in the privacy of your own home), some swear by GasX tabs, but time is the best cure.

I'm assuming you were recently banded. My minor pains lasted about 3 days. Were you given any post op instructions? I guess you know you're not to lift more than 10 lbs for about 6 weeks.

I had a big, long answer to your PM until I saw this. I am so happy for you, now it's time for you to get to work and make a success of this. It will take a lot of work on your part, and you're going to get discouraged from time to time, when you do, come back here and see if there isn't something we can do to help. The very best of luck to you.

If you put enough effort into this and lose slow and steady, at your age, I'd be surprised if you have any excess skin. Get enough excercise and follow your dietitian's instructions, all you'll put on is muscle. Good luck.

There's nothing to be nervous about, Amanda, in fact he'll be trying his best to put you at ease. It's mostly just a get to know each other meeting. If you have any questions about your surgery or any thing else, write them down beforehand, because you'll forget them, otherwise. I hope it all goes well for you.

Sounds like you're off to a good start. You'll find this a very helpful group as you go along.

There is a routine called "The 5 day pouch test" , look in the search box here or on Google. A number of people here have tried it and had some success with it, It's free and an easy way to get started again.

Good to meet you, you'll find this a very helpful group.

You'll have to try soda yourself, many people react differently to it. After you have all your fills, things may be different for you. Be careful with food and soda, go slowly until you find out how it affects you. Most dietitions say to absolutely abstain, but lots of people don't. Just be careful.

Just be sure to do at least an internet search of any doctor or clinic you're interested in. Find out their experience and history. As with any profession, not all surgeons are created equal. Your few hours of research may save you a lifetime of misery. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best of luck.

I'm no medical person, but it sounds like you've irritated your stoma/pouch and need to go on liquids for a day or two to let any swelling go down. If you're stil having problems in a couple of, days, you should probably make an appointment to see your doctor, but give it some time.

The phone number for Cedars WLS center is 310 423-5619.

I think many of the people on this forum were in the same boat you're in. We had let ourselves go, for one reason or the other, and finally decided to do something about it. For us , the band was the answer. As far as safety, the band is the safest form or WLS. Here is a blog that the writer has given me permission to repost. It gives an excellent reason the band is successful: My name is Amy Workman and I am a bandster (everyone: HI Amy). I haven't posted on here in a long time and thought I might share with you my blog post from today. If any of you watched the recent Dr. Oz show about Lapband, I thought it might be nice for those of you just beginning to see a more realistic idea of the band. I was banded January 27th, 2009. I weighed 327 and today weight 159 pounds. I love my band. My before and after pictures on here are not updated, but you can find all my pictures on my blog. If you have any questions, please email me and ask away. Sometimes we forget when we were first beginning. Do you remember the first time you googled Lapband? Or the first time you logged into the forums...frantically searching for before and afters....looking at successes and getting pumped...stumbling upon a horror story and then getting scared? Do you remember the stupid questions you asked? I remember posting on lapbandtalk.com something like "is one cup of Wendy's chili bad for you?" Well, I am going to try and remember back to when I didn't know much about the band...and what information would have been helpful. Here goes... Did you know: I started at 327 pounds. My doctor, the wonderful and handsome Dr. Jeffrey Friedman, told me that the band is not always the best choice for someone who is a grazer. They find that the band is actually more successful for men, because men tend to eat in volume (sitting down for a huge dinner and getting really full, vs eating and munching on little things all day). Some doctors say that the band will not work as well for those of us who are or were really morbidly obese. I disagree. And there are plenty of us out here who are proving them wrong. Did you know: The band may not work for you? You could have the surgery and not lose much weight at all. It is not a sure thing. BUT, if you work with the band...it can and will work for most of us. What does "work with the band mean"? Every doctor has a different regimen they want you to follow. Every doc is different, as it almost every patient. Some say no pop/soda, some say it's fine. Some have a 2 week liquid preop and scare the sweet baby jebsus out of you about not shrinking your liver enough for surgery and not being able to operate (thank you Dr. Friedman). But, you will have to do your part with the band. You will have to watch what you eat. You will have to eventually get your ass up and exercise. You will have to make healthier choices and just be better. I know you are saying WHAT? That sounds like a diet to me. And I fail at diets!!! The band is a TOOL, not the Alpha and Omega of your weight loss journey. You can "cheat" the band by eating sliders and soft food. I for one could eat cheetos all day long and the band would sleep right through it. But with the right restriction, your band prevents you from eating that large pizza, the extra value meal, the entire bovine. You have to find a doctor that you can have a relationship with. They have to be open with you and you have to be open with them. You HAVE to go see them for fills. You have to follow up. You have to be a good patient. ASK QUESTIONS. What can you eat once you are banded? At this point in my journey, I can't think of one thing I CANT eat. However, there are somethings that I try to stay away from because they are difficult with my band. Example: Bowtie Pasta. It doesnt go down well. And then it just sits in my band and expands...causing me to PB (get to that in a second). I can't eat a sandwich, or a hamburger with a bun, but I could eat a roll if I tear off little pieces at a time. Hot dogs give me problems for some reason. Dry chicken or reheated meat (with the exception of a hamburger) often give me problems as well. I still drink soda, I still drink beer. I love Soups. I can eat veggies. I can eat fruit. Eating after being banded is about going slow. It's about chewing. They say with proper restriction that 4-6 ounces of solid Protein (a piece of meat about the size of your fist) should keep you full for 3-4 hours. Most docs want their patients to avoid "slider meals". Meaning, eating a bowl of Soup for lunch or yogurt for Breakfast isn't going to keep you full or satisfied because it will SLIDE right down. You want your food to stay in your pouch, and slowly drop down. Sometimes though...food may get stuck and then you get "sick". The Dreaded PB: A couple things may happen if a piece of food gets "stuck in your pipe" as Heather refers to it. You aren't going to die. It's not like it gets stuck and you need the Heimlich. But if a piece of food gets stuck, ain't nothing else going down until it moves or comes up. The first thing that may happen is a productive burp (PB). This is not throwing up. When something gets stuck, your slobber starts to build on top of it. For me, when this happens, I get a weird sensation in the back of my jaw. And if I wait long enough, I will have to get somewhere private (hopefully) and let it come up. What comes up is this weird slime/foam combo. It doesn't hurt. And hopefully...it moves whatever is stuck. Sometimes though, it takes a little more work. Sometimes that one piece of food I didnt chew enough will be down there for hours. And then, it's not PBing. It's sort of like dry heaving until that piece comes up. There is a tightness in the chest...a pressure. It's not fun. I will say that not everyone gets stuck or PB's. And most of us would agree that when we do get stuck...it's our fault. We eat without being present, we didn't chew, we ate too fast. Restriction and Tips for Eating: Unless you are extremely lucky, you will not awake from surgery with perfect restriction. Some docs put a little liquid in your band to start with, others wait. I had to wait 6 weeks for my first fill. And again, unless you are the rare case, you probably won't get restriction with your first fill. It took me several fills before I had good restriction. ASK your doctor what his/her fill policy is. Some docs are super restrictive with their fills. They only fill on a schedule. They don't care whether or not you have restriction. All I know is if Dr. Friedman hadn't let me tell him that I was ready for a fill...and if he had made me wait regardless of what I could eat...I wouldn't have been as successful as I was. You will know you have restriction when you have it. It's sort of like having sex. If you have to wonder if you had an orgasm or not...um...you probably didn't. Restriction will keep you full and satisfied for 3-4 hours. You will be able to eat less. Restriction DOES NOT RESTRICT YOUR BRAIN. You may still mentally crave things. You will have to learn the difference between head hunger and physical hunger. This is very hard. When you do have good restriction, you will have to change the way you eat. This is easier said than done. You should be taking small bites. For example, if you are eating steak, you need to cut that sucker up into pea sized bites. You need to chew. Then, set your fork down and wait a few seconds. You should eat sitting down. You should pay attention to what you are doing. You will learn that things like eating in the car is rarely going to end well. (Always have your emergency PB kit in your car. A couple of bags, some papertowels or handywipes. Trust me.) You probably shouldnt drink with your meal or for 30 minutes after. liquids can help push your food down...thus...cheating the band. How much weight will I lose? How quickly will I lose it? Now you know that there is no one answer for this. Statistically, Lapband patients lose around 40% of their excess weight. SO, if you are 100 pounds overweight, statistically you will lose 40 pounds. I hate statistics. And remember, they are an average. 17 more pounds lost and I will have lost 100% of my excess weight...and I am not alone. It can happen. However, there are so many factors that go into how much and how fast. Genetics, age, diet history, personal support, family life, exercise. Some weeks I lost 7 pounds. Some weeks I gained 5. The weeks I gained, I gained because I ate poorly. I cheated the band The weeks I lost, I ate and made healthy choices. There are some weeks, even when I WAS doing the right thing...I didn't lose. It can be frustrating. But you can't give up. You will have to keep upping your game. At some point, even with the band, you will either have to adjust your food or exercise. But, I feel like the band is "cheating". I feel like if I have WLS, I am weak. I'm gonna tell you what. Who gives a flying monkey's ass?! Cheating what? Cheating early death? Cheating sleep apena? Cheating high blood pressure, sore joints, diabetes? I say CHEAT AWAY then. There is no shame in WLS. It's not about will power. It's not about failing. It is about trying to find a tool that works to give you some power, give you your health. I tell whoever wants to know or will listen about the band. And yes, I have heard "Oh...well...I thought you did it the hard way"...or "hmmm...that must be nice". I say listen FOOL. There ain't nothing easy about the band. It makes some things easier but it is still work. And I find that people either give you 'tude about the band bc they are afraid or jealous or because they don't understand. Either way, that is okay. I will educate or I will ignore. I feel like if I were to say "oh, I am just watching my diet and working out"...that I would be lying by omission. AND, my real fear is that someone who is overweight will think "Well, Amy did it "the old fashioned way", and they will feel like a failure when they try and do not succeed. Will my relationship fall apart if I have the surgery? We all hear the stories of what happens when someone has WLS. The divorce rate and seperation rate is a little higher for us. There are several reasons. One, for some of us....when we lose weight, we become a different person...or the person we would have been if our bodies hadn't been our enemies so long. Our expectations may change, we may want more. OR, our partners may not be able to deal with the new us. OR, as in any relationship...sometimes it's just time to move on. I don't think that having WLS should make you fear losing or changing your partner anymore than the normal person. There are tons of bandsters out there still happy and maybe even happier with their significant other. Sometimes though, even though we can't see it or don't want to admit it...we have settled. And once you start to shed your cloak of security or denial...you realize you deserve more (too bad we don't realize that to begin with. Long story short...people change and grow...with or without weightloss surgery. Are you worried about complications: No. But most days I am not a worrier about things that may or may not happen. I heard recently that the stats for band slipping are about 5% and for erosion, about 1-2%. Slipping for example, can be avoided most of the time and according to the docs...is easy to fix. Erosion is of course a little more scary. But I hope that by always paying attention to my body, my band, and how I am feeling...I can avoid it or if it ever happens...catch it early. Do fills hurt? Mine never do. My doc has never done one under fluoro. He gives me a numbing shot and then the fill. How many fills do you have to have? To get restriction, it took me 4. My first year I had around 6 fills. My second year, I had 2. Will you ever have the band taken out? Lord I hope not. Even now that I am at goal weight and weight loss is more of what I do instead of what the band does for me...it's always there. It's my safety net. It will keep me from ever being 327 pounds again. Why did you choose the band over other options? I was 28 when I decided on the surgery. I didn't want my stomach cut apart. I still wanted to be able to absorb my nutrients. I wanted to be able to eat sugar and other things without getting physcially ill. I liked that the removal of the band was a possibility if something went wrong. I liked the idea of being able to control my restriction. And even though I bitched and complained along the way, I liked the idea of a slower weight loss (vs Gastric bypass). It gave my skin and my brain a little more time to adjust. Did you know there are different brands of lapbands? I have the Allegran Lapband. Ask you doctor your choices and the differences. Mine is a 10-11cc band. Some are smaller. Were you worried about the loose skin? Barely. I figured I may look like a saggy deflated sack after I lost my weight, but I would rather be deflated then morbidly obese. And I am lucky. My skin is nowhere as bad as it could have been. Again, so many factors go into skin. Age, genes, working out, sun...etc. Would you do it again? In a heartbeat my friends. In a heartbeat. It was the best decision of my life. It was a tremedous catalyst for change. I can't think of one negative consequence of the band.

I feel restriction with no fills. I was banded 10 weeks ago and haven't had a fill yet and am still losing 2-3 lbs a week. The surgeon said if I'm not too hungry, then there was no need for a fill until I do get hungry enough to stop losing. Several people here have said they were losong without fills. Good genes, I guess : > ).

Why not use Hersheys Chocolate powder with Splenda and skim milk? You have to work out the proportions yourself, everyone's taste is different.

We've discussed this several times. Diabetics often experience hypoglycemia on the pre op diets. If your blood sugar levels go below 70 or so. especially if you're not used to those levels, drink some orange or apple juice or even eat some table sugar to raise your levels to a range you're used to. Time was when my B/S got below 100 I'd feel it, now, with 50 lbs lost, levels of 75 don't bother me. As your weight drops, you'll slowly get used to sugar levels that are more nearly normal. If for some reason you can't get your sugar up, then by all means see your doctor. Levels approaching 50 or so are dangerous.

Hi Maddie, I don't think you could stretch your band, and while you can expand your pouch, temporarly it will assume it's original shape when the pressure is off. If you're interested, there's an excercise called 'the 5 day pouch test'. You can find it on Google or look in the search box in this site. It's free and has helped several people to get back on their weight loss journey. It's worth a try. You've done quite well so far. Keep up the good work. Someone is always here to help.

Most people take some type of chewable vitamin. I take Centrum Chewables w/iron, and vitamin B12 for any fatigue. After a few fills, you'll find whole pills a little difficult to swallow. Most folks have a pill crusher of some type, but you have to mix crushed pills with yogurt or something. If a pill had a enteric coating or is a time release, you'll have to ask your doctor. There are a lot of other suppliments people take, but you have to be careful not to get too much of certain vitamins or minerals.