Cleo's Mom

@@cute1 This is why I say all weight loss surgery is a crap shoot. You never know until you've had it what YOUR results will be or what complications you many have. I hope you have success with your resleeve.

@@losinghope15 My suggestion to you is to call your surgeon's office and get copies of everything - all of your pre-and post op tests - most especially each operative report - every time they cut you open. Create your own timeline of when and what happened. Keep copies of all your overdue bills and your financial situation, including losing your job. You might need this for future litigation should it come to that. You've been in misery for 8 months and this is unacceptable, IMO. I think the suggestion to call various agencies is a good one. Start with SS disability and then try the other ones suggested. food banks, churches, etc.. all good ideas. You shouldn't have to put up with the pain and the financial problems both. Seek help and good luck. Your post is a reminder that complication might only happen in 1% but if you're that 1% statistics don't matter.

My understanding is that all forums on here are open to all members who are free to post their opinions as you are yours. Neither I nor anyone else posted fears or misconstrued risks. I simply stated what I would do and I stand by my statement. People are free to have their surgeries anywhere they wish, as am I.

You are smart to do your research an you are right that every minute count in an emergency.

If I were having this surgery I would want it in a hospital that could handle any emergency that would arise post-surgically and not have to be transported to another facility. Every minute counts in an emergency and I wouldn't care how close another facility was. For me saving money isn't worth risking your life.

@@JanetPRN My husband also had fundoplication surgery about 33 years ago to control his chronic heartburn. He had no muscle at the base of his esophagus. Back then it was a large incision (not laproscopic). The surgery was unsuccessful. He continued to have heartburn, started on PPI's and then developed Barrett's and then esophageal cancer from which he died. @@craigcu Having Barrett's was definitely a precursor to my husband developing esophageal cancer. No, he did not have WLS but did have the fundoplication surgery. The "wait and see" approach with the yearly endoscopies was clearly a failure. Because he had no dysplasia one year to esophageal cancer the next. They removed his esophagus, pulled up his stomach, he had no lymph node involvement, so the prognosis was good. Eleven months later it was in his liver and terminal. They have made progress in treating Barrett's now and if I had it I would undergo any treatment to remove it, including surgery to remove the Barrett's portion of my esophagus. Good luck to you.

Be very cautious with Barrett's. Personally, I would not have the sleeve with Barrett's. My husband had Barrett's esophagus (did not have WLS), took acid blockers (PPI's) and had yearly endoscopies and went from one year with no dysplasia to esophageal cancer the next and died two years later despite being caught early and given a good prognosis. Esophageal cancer is a very difficult cancer to treat. His treatment was to remove his esophagus and pull up his stomach to create a new one. Can that be done with the sleeve? Ask your surgeon that question. There's a reason some surgeons won't do the sleeve on patients with Barrett's esophagus.

@@Band07 I am so glad things went well. I have been following your posts about your difficulties with both the lap band and the sleeve. I hope the MGB works out for you. I think your experience underlines the fact that no WLS is perfect and each carries its own risks and results. And the results for one person are not necessarily the results of someone else. The complications forums certainly prove that. You decided to get the sleeve because of all those who said it was "great" and your experience was that it wasn't. Good luck to you and I hope you have much success and will let us know.

While the band might not be about restriction it certainly NEVER, and I mean NEVER dimmed by appetite or reduced it in any way. The physiology of satiety is when the stomach is stretched (from eating) it sends signals to the brain that it is full and you've reached satiety. The amount of food it takes to reach this point varies from person to person. When I ate with the band I was always still hungry - like the bottom part of my stomach was saying "feed me" but I couldn't eat more because it would have caused pressure or pain. So, for me the band was the worst of both worlds - still hungry but couldn't eat. And of the 75 pounds I lost, only 15 were from the band. I lost the 60 prior to and right after the band with all the dieting and month of liquids only. Research shows that it is not very effective for long term weight loss. It is even promoted as allowing for a loss of up to 50% of EXCESS weight. So, if you weigh 300 pounds and should weigh150, then it will allow you to lose 75 pounds - you would be at 225 and still be obese. There is a reason why some surgeons no longer do lap bands. You have to ask yourself why.

@@Erica Brownlee He is just going to do the bypass with no reason? No further testing done? Nothing? Aren't you concerned about this? Did you ask any questions or get a copy of your sleeve operative report?

My surgeon said no NSAIDs for life. Said they can cause ulcers and thin the lining of the stomach. Since I have chronic and acute back problems and arthritis for which Tylenol is ineffective, that would be a problem for me.

You are right to be concerned about the long term affects of GERD and esophageal cancer. I know because my husband (who didn't have WLS) suffered from GERD, developed Barrett's esophagus which was being monitored yearly and went from NO dysplasia to esophageal cancer the next year. Though caught early (they removed his esophagus) and given an optimistic prognosis, it was in his liver 11 months later and he died the next year at a young age. If you have GERD the sleeve can make it worse. They suggest RNY for those with GERD and it seems to resolve the issue. It seems like you are too tight. I have always said that regardless of which WLS you have - eating should not be painful. Didn't we go through this to get healthier? We shouldn't have to have pain when eating or not be able to drink water or sleep sitting up. That is not a healthy lifestyle regardless of the weight loss. Btw, I had the band put in in 2008, unfilled in 2009 and have hated it every single day. It has never done one thing for me, including helping me to lose weight. But I am not ready for a revision of any kind. Too many problems with each of them. I think you should get an unfill, let yourself heal for awhile and not worry about the weight at this point and then maybe have some testing done to see what is going on with your band - and upper GI and endoscopy perhaps. Good luck

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