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betrthnever

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  1.    Lillymunster reacted to a post in a topic: So.. sex and extra skin...
  2.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Feel like such a failure...
  3. I'm sending this out to those who have been revised from band to RNY for several years now. But anyone who has had RNY who would like to chime in are welcomed as well. I'm curious about loss after regain. Does it get harder the longer out you get? I'm over a year out and have gone up just slightly (a couple of pounds) but I'm getting back on track. Those of you even further out, is it hard to lose that regain? Is it easier to stay on track?
  4.    NewChiGirl reacted to a post in a topic: My band surgery vs. RnY surgery
  5.    Rachel412 reacted to a post in a topic: My band surgery vs. RnY surgery
  6. I agree! It was light the light when on and I could live again. I'm over a year out from RNY revision and couldn't be happier!
  7.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Starting over with the band..
  8.    NewAngela reacted to a post in a topic: Starting over with the band..
  9.    OKCPirate reacted to a post in a topic: So.. sex and extra skin...
  10.    DSLdiversity reacted to a post in a topic: Starting over with the band..
  11. My guy LOVES my extra skin. But i would love to have it off. I want to see what others say.
  12. After thinking about this, I feel I need to say that I understand that not every one can have a revision, or even WANT a revision. I met a woman at my work today and she still has her band (she was banded a couple of months before I was) and right now she is unhappy with it but her BMI is not high enough, and she's not sure if it will be covered. I myself was denied for a revision in 2014 with a BMI of 37 because I technically had no issues with the band at that time. What helped was that my barium swallow showed in 2015 that the band had moved, and even though it wasn't officially a slip it was enough for the dr to convince the insurance company. So Secret, I DO hope you make it work!!
  13.    RonnieRab reacted to a post in a topic: Starting over with the band..
  14. HI Secret, I was banded in Feb, 2008 and I am now a revision to RNY as of 10/5/2016. It took me 2.5 years to lose 80 pounds with the band, and now, at 9 months out from RNY, I am down to 142 (69 pounds down and almost to goal). I will say good luck to you, you will need it - and using your word - BUUUUUTTT - my surgeon says that it is not a matter of "if" but a matter of "when" that it comes out. It is a foreign object and might cause problems for you in the future. My mother had her's out 3 years after getting banded. She ended up with an erosion. And as of 2 weeks ago also had a revision to RNY. It would be cool if it does work for you long term. I can eat better now. SALADS, chicken, beef. Happy days! Good luck to you :-)
  15. I had my revision from the Lap Band to RNY on 10/5 and I couldn't be happier! I can actually EAT right. I am almost to goal at 142. With any surgeries there will be complications, and for those who have the complications I'm sure there are regrets (sorry to hear Gina Campbell!). Just wish I had had this surgery back in 2008 instead of the Band. I'm happy now! Don't regret it in the slightest (ok I have those days when I wish I could eat like real crap but they are few and far between).
  16.    Steven1954 reacted to a post in a topic: Band Removal Approved; BYPASS DENIED!
  17.    OKCPirate reacted to a post in a topic: Unsolicited Online Dating Advice
  18. Well its probably better in the long run. Are you moving along OK?
  19.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: So it turns out my wife is gay...
  20. It's been 6 months since I posted on this thread, and almost 5 months since surgery, and I have to say I haven't developed a new addiction. An addiction, imo, is something we do outside of moderation. Something we feel we don't have control over, or is used as an avoidance technique. And this feeling can apply to good things, such as working out. If you are going to the gym and working out 2 hours a day, and the thought of your spouse doesn't bring happy thoughts, then maybe you might be using the gym (in the name of getting healthy-there IS a positive side to this) to avoid a situation that must be dealt with. I'm the first one to admit that I need clothes but I don't need more then what I can wear within a week or two. Collecting stuff isn't going to make me happy. I love to travel, spending time with friends and family - no different then before but not centered around food. I like what Alex said - being into life. And into balance.
  21.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: New "addiction"?
  22. RJ - wow 22 year? Didn't know they were doing those surgeries so long ago! Look into all options out there if your insurance company won't pay. Even Mexico or other overseas destinations. It's so expensive to self pay here. There is hope and it's good to see that you are feeling it!!!????????????????????
  23.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Revision to RNY - Best decision
  24.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Unrealistic expectations
  25.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Unwanted advances
  26.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Unwanted advances
  27.    betrthnever reacted to a post in a topic: Unwanted advances
  28. 22 Pounds in 12 days is nothing to sneeze at!
  29. Ok I've been out of the loop ... Have u decided to divorce or will u be dating while u r still married?
  30. Isn't that the truth?! One thing I realize tho is that I can eat more then a person who hasn't had a previous surgery.
  31. But drying doesn't necessarily have anything to do with desire, tho. I have seen my OB/GYN and just waiting for blood test results. I love my weight loss but am missing my libido!
  32. I just want to say that I'm so thrilled with my decision to go with a revision and I wonder why I even bothered with the lap band in the first place.. Because I didn't want to be internally altered... Like many of you, I suffered more from the band (and what it was doing to me - cutting into my liver) then from the alterations that have been made to my body by switching to bypass. I can now actually eat good foods - salad and Protein - and not throw up or be in pain. Surgery on 10/5/15 and 3 months later down 46 pounds. Awesome!
  33. Yeah Bobbe! Great to hear! The revision has been the best thing and so much easier then the band itself.

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