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Family reactions

I'd like to share about my family's reactions to my announcement that I have scheduled band surgery in Mexico.

My sister, a nurse, said nothing after I told her of my upcoming date.

My older daughter, a nursing student, and my younger daughter were immediately afraid for my life. And can't imagine why I would even consider risking my life by going to Tijuana, of all places.

Nope, not much sharing in my joy from my family. Expressed and unexpressed fear.

My dog, Millie, is supportive of me no matter what I do. A little rub on her tummy and an occasional treat and she's good to go.

Hmmmmmm. I wonder if I could bring my dog as my companion for surgery.

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Carolml

LAP-BAND Patients

I'd like to share about my family's reactions to my announcement that I have scheduled band surgery in Mexico.

My sister, a nurse, said nothing after I told her of my upcoming date.

My older daughter, a nursing student, and my younger daughter were immediately afraid for my life. And can't imagine why I would even consider risking my life by going to Tijuana, of all places.

Nope, not much sharing in my joy from my family. Expressed and unexpressed fear.

My dog, Millie, is supportive of me no matter what I do. A little rub on her tummy and an occasional treat and she's good to go.

Hmmmmmm. I wonder if I could bring my dog as my companion for surgery.

wendytip

LAP-BAND Patients

Forget about them! You go, girl! Do what is best for you. If they're both nurses then they should know that the risk for this procedure is virtually non existent. I mean, I guess something could happen...but every day something could happen. And what about your quality of life when you're not "banded?" I'd be taking my dog. With what you're saving from having it done in the states, you could afford it!

Best of Luck,

Wendy

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