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IT'S OFFICAL!!! I AM A BANDIT!!!

OK i know some of you are waiting to see how I'm doing. The surgery was yesterday and I was a little nervous, but i prayed a lot and that helped calm my nerves. I'm gonna write my full story in the surgery day stories so I wont write it twice. I've gotten a lot of support from my friends and absoltuly none from my sister. I was in tears cuz she has not once called to check on my or shown any interest in if i'm alive or dead! I asked my mom why she's treating me like this and the only thing we can come up with is jealousy!

 

Anyhow. I'm in some discomfort more than pain. I have 3 incisions, one so small i thought it was a scratch till i touched it and felt the dermabond. Getting out of bed and back in is the worse!!!!!Can anyone offer any suggestions that will make it easier. I've been sleeping on/off since I got home. Still taking pain meds, just cuz i'm afraid if i stop i'll be in a lot of pain.

 

I'm so glad I did it. I gainded 4 pounds back after the surgery! Did this happen to anyone else? I'm guessing it's the gas. All in all I would do this again and I'm so excited to start my new life. My friend who took me to the surgery gave me a visa gift card to buy my first "skinny" shirt and I cant wait to so that!!!!

 

Does anyone know if we can video blog on here? I started that yesteday before I went to the surgery, not sure what i'm gonna do with it though.

 

Hope all is well with everyone. Feel free to PM me if you have further questions. I could not have made it without you guys, thanks for your support and concern!!!

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EbonyDawn

LAP-BAND Patients

Yeah... So happy to hear that you are doing well. I to am on my way , day after tomorrow. Fell better Jennifer and I am sorry about your sister. I too have a sister that is over weight and though shes not having any surgery(she dosent believe in it, and her insurance company does not approve) she is trying her best to be supportive.

jennifer1

LAP-BAND Patients

well my sister finally came and brought me some flowers, a card and some balloons, but she still hasnt asked my about the surgery. i'm over that now. i have to concentrate on healing and figuring out better ways to get out of bed without feeling like my insides are ripping apart! FYI...dont sleep on the couch! yeah it's toooooo low and i bout cried when i tried to get up! Cant wait for you to join me on the other side! lol

how's the diet going?

MissMary

LAP-BAND Patients

Im so happy for you. I had to use pressure like a small pillow against my stomach when I got up. It really helped not hurt as much. And tried to get up sideways instead of flat from lying on my back. It is sad you are not getting any support from your sister. As far as video blogging on here I dont know. I do know there is a huge community of WLS patients who video blog on youtube. It is very encouraging and you can scroll and see them when they started. If you do upload let me know. Id love to keep up on that. I havent decided if I was going to or not yet.

Kymbethin

LAP-BAND Patients

Congrats Jen!

The best advice I can offer for getting up and down is a great strong hand of another person there with you and making sure that as you get up exhale simultaneously, it does ease the pain a little. I'm finally at the point where I can get up on my own, but there is still quite a bit of discomfort, healing in progress!

NULadiCumin

LAP-BAND Patients

Congratulations!!!! Im happy you are on your way to be a "skinny girl".......rest and recover girlie! Looking forward to joining you.

Fee1970

LAP-BAND Patients

When you new skinny shirt becomes to big for you, sent it to me!!! (Like the Sisterhood of Traveling Pants)....

not a bad idea actually.

You have a lot of support and people who are pulling for your success on this journey...so talk to us, don't worry about other folk...can't nobody do you like family...

jennifer1

LAP-BAND Patients

ugh i hate this thing some times..i so just wrote a response to this and it just disappeared!! ugh!

anyway i am such a lame....not sure why i'm just now seeing these posts! i wasnt ignoring you ladies, please know that, i just never saw this till today.

Thanks for your words of encouragement. I truely appreciated all of you.

@ kym...i see you over there gettin it in in the gym..i'mma be like you when i grow up!

@ NU...thanks girl i'm on my way!

@ fee...girl i will happily pass on these 18's and 20's!!!! 16's here i come!

I truely thank God for all of you cuz you are truely an awesome support team for me!

SENDING CYBER HUGS YOUR WAY!!!!! MUAH!!

brendac40

LAP-BAND Patients

Congrats! I hope mine goes as well next month :( getting a little scared. But ready for my life back!

jennifer1

LAP-BAND Patients

awwww woo woo wooo....it's perfectly normal to be scared before surgery..i mean it is surgery!!!! pray before you go in and you'll be just fine. believe me it's gonna be sooooo worth it!

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