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The guys that are so afraid of my surgery...

By HoneyBrown

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Okay this guy I used to mess with (4yrs known) , he's all like he think I should wait and try to lose weight on my own first before I make rational decisions. First of all 2 yrs ago he claimed if he hadn't just gotten out of a relationship he would be with me. He played this lil games of saying I love you's;then when I caught feelings he had the NERVE to say..I don't like you like THAT I thought we were friends. now in 2010 he has this girlfriend he been with for 2 yrs that he previously lied about. He hits me up on IM all the time telling me i'm beautiful and blah blah.all I have to say is.I'm getting fit and fab, and will he have a chance? NO. He want to be FRIENDS, sure I can be FRIENDS because my feelings for him has been caught in the wind somewhere. I bet he is going to SO wish he never let a good woman like me go.

 

 

 

ALSO my friend that I talk to occasionally said what I was doing was dumb. Dumb for ME or YOU is what I wanted to ask, i just told him its my damn body and he has no say so over it and i hung up. He can go kick rocks with no damn shoes on because he has YET to take me on a date, we been talking since Feb now are you serious, please get out my face, he keep texting me now that I been stop paying him attention since two months ago, now he think he can make negative comments about my surgery...HA not

 

 

And I SO can't wait to turn some heads. I want to be fierceeee by my birthday Jan 3rd!!!

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    Aspiring Evangelist

    pupichupi

    Gastric Bypass Patients

    Honey you do your Thang, and don't let no man tell you what to do!!! Good Girl!!! You don't need their permission to do something that is going to help you be healthy!!! You need to do for you and forget them, they don't stick by you through this then when it comes to the other end, they don't get to be with you!!! I wish you good luck, and just know you can do it!!!

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    HoneyBrown

    LAP-BAND Patients

    Thanks! I am going to do this its all about me and my health

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    maggs79

    LAP-BAND Patients

    You will definitely be turning some heads by January! You're gorgeous as it is NOW! Just imagine how smokin' you'll be in a few months!! :) Any boy will be lucky to have you!

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    Giby97

    LAP-BAND Patients

    Hi your looking great, and you will be even looking super down the road on this journey. It works and you will not believe it. Do it for you and a healthier lifestyle-life is too short. You will turn heads for sure as most of the bandster's has already, marvelous progress reported on this site. People tend to play games but you will have to do like I do and just be aware and press on with your life, there will be more chances for you in meeting the man of your life. Good Luck.

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    imaluckydog

    LAP-BAND Patients

    You have a great attitude for the LB Journey you will need it. Do NOT let someone in your way of SUCCESS. NO ONE!!! You will do this for yourself and no other. It is a huge decision and when I made it, it changed my life. Your life will be forever changed. I have lost 100 pounds in less than a year and I look different people who know me do not recognize me. Best wishes imaluckydog

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    HoneyBrown

    LAP-BAND Patients

    You have a great attitude for the LB Journey you will need it. Do NOT let someone in your way of SUCCESS. NO ONE!!! You will do this for yourself and no other. It is a huge decision and when I made it, it changed my life. Your life will be forever changed. I have lost 100 pounds in less than a year and I look different people who know me do not recognize me. Best wishes imaluckydog

    Thats GREAT! WOW 100 lbs is a major accomplishment, you give me HOPE!

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