Okay girls...this question is a little embarrassing but yeah I need to know.

After I get banded will I still be able to please my boyfriend and then...swallow what he gave me? I know a bit weird...but it's something I've always done...

Just wondering...:thumbup:

dont like men on this site...I question their intentions

Ouch, I thought is was all about helping each other in losing weight and all the things that go with it.

Edited September 2, 200817 yr by Renob

I like men on this site!!! I enjoy reading their thoughts and comments on stuff.

If the things we (women) write don't freak the guy out, then hey - the more advice, the merrier, right?

I especially like sex advice from men - and men I don't know who have no intentions towards me. It's like gold, straight from the source and clean. :tt2: LOL

Ouch, I thought is was all about helping each other in losing weight and all the things that go with it.

Since this is not only a Girls only group, stay here. I have been helped through this thread by some of the guys here. And that info is valuable to me. Like all the other forums on this site, if you don't like what you see, don't come back. But guys are welcome here.

lol...OK your best guy friend is acting like a jerk. Personaly I would not have carried the stuff in for him. if he wanted it he should carry it in himself. GRRR pouting men is SO not attractive.

(one topic down on to the next)

I like having men comment in this forum. I mean come on we all know they are reading. I have to give a thumbs up to the brave ones that admit it and post to help us out. I say thank you and keep on posting.

NOW to whomever thinks we are too graphic?! lol this is incredibly tame compared to the dinner conversation my group had on sunday. lol

This is very tame compared to the converstions my coworkers and I have at work!

lol yeah. We discuss EVERYTHING! at work, with friends, at dinner

ChrisAnn, I can't believe you carried his crap in for him. I can't believe you went shopping for him. IF you were going to the store and he asked you to pick something up while you were there and said he'd come pick it up from your house, then I'd understand. But, going shopping JUST for him and then carrying it into his house while his fat lazy ass stayed in his underwear in the bed.... it pisses me off just reading it!!!!!

lol...OK your best guy friend is acting like a jerk. Personaly I would not have carried the stuff in for him. if he wanted it he should carry it in himself. GRRR pouting men is SO not attractive.

ChrisAnn, I can't believe you carried his crap in for him. I can't believe you went shopping for him. IF you were going to the store and he asked you to pick something up while you were there and said he'd come pick it up from your house, then I'd understand. But, going shopping JUST for him and then carrying it into his house while his fat lazy ass stayed in his underwear in the bed.... it pisses me off just reading it!!!!!

Thanks ladies, I said that to myself driving away, what a moron I was for carrying the stuff in. I even said to him on the phone, can you come out and help me, he was like I am laying down. I should have said well its in the trunk of my car when you are ready to get it.

See even at 41 years old, you have to learn something about the opposite sex.

I finally got up the nerve to go with my BF to a sex store. We bought what is supposed to be a G spot stimulator.

I don't think I have a G spot. That thing didn't do anything. It's a few inches long with a curve on the end. We rubbed it all over trying to find a spot that felt good, but honestly, I didn't feel anything.

OK I have to ask cause I dont remember. Do you masterbate?

Have you ever played with yourself while having sex?

I have to say that my BF gets so turned on if I play withmyself during sex. I can orgasm from penitration. For me it is too much sensation that I am so arroused I get lost in all the feelings. And skip over the orgasm. I have mini ones. I am talking about the big orgasm that shakes your body. But this weekend we were having sex and he did something that hit my clit just right and I wanted it again and I couldnt express what I wanted...so I started playing with myself and he got so turned on it was crazy. Later he told me it was the hottest thing I could have ever done. and it felt good and I was able to cum.

SO if you do masterbate maybe try doing it while having sex.

I finally got up the nerve to go with my BF to a sex store. We bought what is supposed to be a G spot stimulator.

I don't think I have a G spot. That thing didn't do anything. It's a few inches long with a curve on the end. We rubbed it all over trying to find a spot that felt good, but honestly, I didn't feel anything.

ATD, I think I've posted this before, but I swear I read a study that claimed that a percentage (the majority, I believe) of women didn't have a "G Spot".....and that may be the reason some women have difficulty reaching orgasm through penetration. If you want me to look around for it, I will (the study, I mean. Not the G Spot). lol

that would be great if you didn't mind finding the study for me. I have been looking all over the net trying to find out more information.

I am thinking I am going to ask my dr. for some testosterone cream. I have heard this helps a women with orgasm, especially women past menopause.

that would be great if you didn't mind finding the study for me. I have been looking all over the net trying to find out more information.

Here ya go!

www.newscientist.com/article/mg19726444.100-ultrasound-nails-location-of-the-elusive-g-spot.html

There are some site out there that actually teach you how to find the g-spot. For some women it's more difficult to find than others. A friend on an another forum actually posted a step by step for finding and stimulating it. Everyone said it was great. Naturally, I can't find it now!

Well, I sure wish I could find mine. It sounds like having a G spot would be absolutely fabulous. I have an appointment this month for my annual woman's exam so I am going to ask my dr. to see if she can find out if I have one or not. I am very comfortable with her. I have been going to her for years. She has to stick her hand up there anyway, for the annual test so she might as well look for it so I know whether or not I actually have one.