Okay girls...this question is a little embarrassing but yeah I need to know.

After I get banded will I still be able to please my boyfriend and then...swallow what he gave me? I know a bit weird...but it's something I've always done...

Just wondering...:thumbup:

I suppose that everyone that responded to my post is correct,besides its been 29 years and she now drives a Mercedes and has all rhe money she wants to spend and figures that she doesnt have to do it anymore.

Some of us do it for the love of it, not for the money :redface:. I personally list that as one of my absolute favourite things to do in bed and can't remember/can't imagine any sex encounter without at least a little of it, if not taking it to completion every time.

Some of us do it for the love of it, not for the money :redface:. I personally list that as one of my absolute favourite things to do in bed and can't remember/can't imagine any sex encounter without at least a little of it, if not taking it to completion every time.

God bless you Fanny. I wish there were more women like you, lol..

Hehe :redface: I don't really get why some women don't like it or only do it out of a sense of obligation. I am very oral and love kissing too. Sex without some bj action would be like sex without kissing, to me...bleah!

Hehe :frown: I don't really get why some women don't like it or only do it out of a sense of obligation. I am very oral and love kissing too. Sex without some bj action would be like sex without kissing, to me...bleah!

Yep, I absolutely love giving bj's and deep throating too. Sometimes that is all we do, seriously, I can get off on that.

Oh, but I digress, no longer do I have a fling guy and with best friend guy, this is not something we are discussing.

Help, I need a man!:redface:

my poor bf never got off that way b4 me. he thinks i am WONDERFUL!

AND the neck action is GREAT for slimming up the under chin area!!

I love it too....what is it with all these retentive women who barely even want to poke at it let alone put it in their mouth? SIGH:sleep:

If you are a clean freak, ask him to shower first, my fling guy used to do it anyway, and I did too, there is something about blowing a guy naked with your wet hair getting in the way. He loved that. :biggrin:

I also think BJ are extremely important to sex. I love giving them. But I will stop giving them if my BF wont kiss me after. That pisses me off.

If he goes down on me I am all for kissing him. So I dont know what the big deal is. lol But THANKFULY my current BF sees no problem with kissing me after as I love to kiss him after giving AND receiving oral.

UMM I am going to have to give him a call to see what he is doing tonight lol

I love the sounds of sheer ecstasy my bf makes. It makes me happy.

I do not like the term BJ though. I think it's gross.

Edited September 9, 200817 yr by Oregondaisy

Well, I have to admit the reason I like them is because that is probably the only time you can have complete control over man, unless they are in a coma.

The look in their eyes when you are down on them, and admit you do look at them sometimes, is incredible, not to mention the sounds they make during a bj are not the same sounds they make during sex.

I agree on the kissing, because I went back down sometimes during sex because he wanted to cum in mouth. You want me to do that, you have to kiss me after too.:biggrin:

lol Yeah. well the BJ thing as in the term...It is just one of those things. lol We could call it OG for oral gratification. lol

I kinda like that term lol

Frankly, I'm bored with the BJ talk. I want to go back to Chrisann's personal soap opera -- what is happening or is nothing happening? If nothing is happening, may I suggest you start something up? Nothing like drama to help you lose weight.

OG could also mean Oh god.

Frankly, I'm bored with the BJ talk. I want to go back to Chrisann's personal soap opera -- what is happening or is nothing happening? If nothing is happening, may I suggest you start something up? Nothing like drama to help you lose weight.

Thanks but is been a bit boring.... Fling guy isn't calling. Best friend guy doesn't want to talk about it.

However, he was over last night for dinner. He was getting ready to leave, so I said lock yourself out, I am going to take a shower and went. Imagine how freaking scared I was when I come out of the shower down to the living room, and he is sitting there. I usually walk around naked now because of the weight loss, but its my TOM so had the towel on. I never ran out of the room so fast. Know what he says? Ok, you are out, I wanted to make sure you were ok since you didn't eat much and I wanted to make sure you didn't faint in the shower. He gets up, and leaves, and says lock me out.

Today at work, he calls and asks if I want to go on a cruise, I say alone, he says no with me. I say two beds in the room right? He says, I guess so.

I just got out of the shower, and he just called and is coming over tonite after his class, which is 10:30pm here. So, do I put on a sexy nightgown or get dressed? I am sitting here with a robe and towel on.