No not me, my fiance. How long after surgery did you wait before having sex again?

My post op instructions say three weeks!

I am not attracted to guys who are overweight. I am trying to lose weight because I expect that of guys. It's not a sin to like slender people. I don't feel attractive at my weight and I expect that of the guy I date who is quite slender. I don't think it has anything to do with the person liking you for yourself and personality only -physical looks do count!. In my books there is still physical attraction and I aim to get back to that place.

I waited a little less than a week. Like many have previously mentioned the port area is the issue. Experiment and find what works for you. We did the same position a couple of times until my port wasn't so sensitive. Now everything is back to normal w/ no isssues :thumbup:

I'm laughing because I'm like woohoo!! I wonder if I can tell him 6 weeks like when we had our daughter?!?

That's funny!! :thumbup:

I waited exactly ONE day. LOL As everyone else says, just be careful. I obviously didn't do the "work" but I assure you my husband didn't mind :thumbup:

17 days and it was GREAT!!