I got all dressed up the other night to go to a xmas party and men at the party were flirting with me. It felt great. I have been invisible for the last three years at least. At least that is how i felt. Now i feel attractive again. I may be 54, but i am still very much alive, and now i feel that way. I am so..... glad i got this band. Who knows i might even start dating again. Never too late!!! Donna

Good for you...it feels great getting attention, doesn't it? My husband bought me a robe and a coat for Christmas that I have to take back because they are too big. He said..."I didn't realize that you were shrinking that much". It's kind of funny...he seems me everyday so I don't think that he realizes, but others see me and are amazed. I love my band. I love losing weight and I love the attention...I think that you should head back into the dating world...why not????

Woohooo Donna!!!!!

What a great victory to be noticed and to NOT be invisible anymore!! :eek:

I'm sure your eyes were sparkling as well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Start practicing your flirting skills........ I have a feeling that 2008 is going to be a wild ride for you! :eek:

What a great NSV!

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YAY YOU!!!

You were always attractive....It is the fact that you feel it again that draws the attention!!! So much of this is the way we feel about ourselves! Good for you, you should date and have fun....you worked hard for this, you might as well enjoy it!!!!!

Donna, that is so fantastic! Way to go

Excellent Donna! Of course you can start dating again. You don't have to worry about raising small children... It's all about you! Have fun!

That is such a great feeling and I can relate. I went to a graduation party a month ago, and men were flirting with me, in fact there was one doctor who was at the hospital at the time of my surgery and I remember seing him.... we are dating now, and it feels so great!!!!!!

Thanks everyone, and way to go Tonks!! I feel like life is a big adventure again. Love this band.

DonHoll1- It is so nice to noticed again by the opposite sex, isn't it? Even old married gals like me appreciate compliments and flirting. It keeps us young.

I went to California in September to visit my nephew and my Mom and I went to his school and talked to his principal about his studies, etc. We talked for over two hours to this man (he was around my age) and at one point he asked what I did and I made some comment on my job and I said something like "Well, in my line of work you have to be something-or-other..." and he looked at me and smiled and said, "....and beautiful too!" and I tell you I nearly fell out of my chair!!!! (Damn, Mom didn't have her ears in and missed the comment!) Talk about an ego boost! I wish everyone realized what a boost little comments can make in a person's life! I think that's one that is going to stick with me for years!