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Dating!

I had my surgery in August this year! And I'm not sure where to put this so I'm writing it here... I started talking to this guy and went on a date yesterday I really like him we have been talking for two weeks. Well yesterday I saw his phone and he messaged a girl on sat on the dating site. Then he was talking to a girl who texted him I think he found on fb which he adds a lot of single girls. My issue is I don't like it! How do I tell him and get him to delete them? Or delete the dating site? Should I Waite longer or get him to get rid of them now????

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  • Not all people would consider talking for two weeks and going on a date as setting an expectation for a serious, exclusive relationship. Have you two talked about not seeing other people? If he has

  • Honestly I don't think you've been knowing him long enough to mention it. You're not exclusively dating just talking. Give it some time, hell you should keep looking and keep your potions open as well

  • Oh sweetie. Get to KNOW him first! You have no idea who or what he is actually about yet. Go sllllloooooowwwww. And then slower still. No amount of anything can take the place of knowing what

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On ‎11‎/‎16‎/‎2016 at 11:00 PM, melbell2222 said:

He wants to see me a lot. I went and saw him on his lunch break the other day. He's a good guy I will give him a chance. I just get so jealous and it sucks. What do you do when you get jealous? I deff don't want to be w a guy who is having sex with other women eww that's just gross.

I also have had some dates go bad bc I was fat... not this guy tho he knows I'll be getting smaller n stuff he don't care.

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your self esteem is in the toilet ,,, you actually think it's okay if he don't like you now since he know you will be "getting smaller" it's acceptable and that's all you deserve? you are so much more than a size....Recognize that....

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