I have never seen so much two faced people in my life. This girl was going to get gastric bypass just a month after me. Well I have a date and she's been so out there with her attitude!! So I go on fb and read this comment clearly about me on her friends posts how I'm jealous I don't have a man! A MAN!?? Ummm haha no 1. I don't need a man in my life atm 2. Why would you think I'm jealous of not having a man!?! I got bigger things to be jealous over for one not owning my own black horse, or not Winning the Lottery! So I said my goodbyes and blocked her butt! I don't keep friends who are trash and the only thing I should have done was to have gotten rid of her a year ago to a new life and new friends!!

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That's the spirit!!

Way to go. Nobody needs that kind of back stabbing in their life. Toss out the trash. Good riddance! Surround yourself with positive people!

People always pick the one thing they currently have to dig their claws into you. But it usually shows their fear while doing it. They will hold on to someone that isn't their mr. Right, rather than god forbid be alone.

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Well, you can tell her that if she is trying to express a feeling of wanting what someone else has, for example, a boyfriend, then the word she wants is ENVY, not jealousy.

Congrats on your surgery and your new friends! You do not need people like that in your life while you are going through such a significant life change anyway!

Some people are emotional vampires, you have to let them go and wish them God Speed. I'm having a neighbor situation and trying to remember that.

What keeps coming to mind is you can't fix crazy!!! That and the rest of my neighbors have my back and bail money.

Going through this process caused me to let a long time friend go from my life. I wrote this quote down "Sometimes you have to let things go, so there's room for better things to come into your life." This too shall pass.

Sometimes the trash takes itself (its self?) out!! Go with that.