My husbsnd is going cookoo over this stuff, but.I.want.to wait for.a safe time.period. Any suggestions....

I'm still using my surgery as an excuse not for sex! Now my "monthly" is here. I guess afterwards, I have to suck it up and do my wifely duties...no pun intended!

My doctor said 3 weeks and take it slow. If you are in pain stop, just listen to your body.

The only thing you need to worry about is the incisions in your abdomen.

There was no way I could have waited as long as you ladies have haha. We had sex 3 days after my surgery. It was not uncomfortable at all, I was on top. Just go slow and don't get all freaky deaky hehe ????

There was no way I could have waited as long as you ladies have haha. We had sex 3 days after my surgery. It was not uncomfortable at all, I was on top. Just go slow and don't get all freaky deaky hehe ????

HAHAHAHA....GIRL I HEAR YOU!!!!!

I'm usually wanting it all the time but I have no sex drive left! We have done it once in five weeks since surgery. I have no energy and I just don't feel like it at all.

I don't know what I'm going to do if this is my new normal!

I'm usually wanting it all the time but I have no sex drive left! We have done it once in five weeks since surgery. I have no energy and I just don't feel like it at all.

I don't know what I'm going to do if this is my new normal!

I DONT THINK IT'S THE NEW NORM, I THINK IT'S THE HORMONES, TRAUMA TO THE BODY, STRESS ETC. I'VE NOTICED I BEEN DRY (( ITS DRIVING ME CRAZY, I KEEP THINKING THIS CANT BE HOW IM GOING TI BE, DR SAID ITS MY HORMONES......AND UNTIL MY RIGHT SIDE HEALS COMPLETELY, THERE WON'T BE MUCH GOING ON...IT'S TOO MUCH!

My doctor never mentioned it. I had sex week 2.

I feel like my doctor had everything happen early. He took off all my bandages at my one week checkup. And I was approved for "personal physical activity" that day. I felt fine by week 2, and we took things easy. I wouldn't be trying any Cirque Du Soliel moves or anything....

One week after surgery my Doctor told me that I could go to the gym that day and run on the treadmill, eliptical, whatver I felt that I was confortable with. Just listen to your body.

Thanks I hope it does return soon but right now I'm about to get Aunt Flo so I don't care.

Wow....weeks? No way I could wait that long. My surgeon said we could do it as soon as I felt well enough.....so I woke him up early on day 4 post-op. He was hesitant, but I wouldn't take "no" for an answer.

It was fine. Just listen to your body!

Am I the only one that that is so good my wife stays satisfied for 6 months at a time? I have to wonder will it grow to 12 months of satisfaction after surgery?

Am I the only one that that is so good my wife stays satisfied for 6 months at a time? I have to wonder will it grow to 12 months of satisfaction after surgery?

Lol let's hope not!

Am I the only one that that is so good my wife stays satisfied for 6 months at a time? I have to wonder will it grow to 12 months of satisfaction after surgery?

Lol that's exactly what it is. My husband is that good too. Lol.