My boyfriend and I have sex like rabbits, after surgery how long until I can get it in? What about "servicing him?" Lol I don't want to be too personal, but we are grown ups right? What happens if you gag? Will it cause slippage?

Scared,

Tomika

Its more important to heal then to service him. I would at least wait three to four weeks so that your healed. You have the rest of your life to have sex. Take care of you.

if you gag, best not to do what makes that happen

the first month is vital to let your body heal (inside and out)

and throwing up could be dangerous...but if you do have sex,

if it hurts or uncomy, stop..your well being is more important then you know what..

there are other ways to pleasure each other while you heal...

Right, lol I am definitely not dying for no sex.... Lol thanks ladies!

I had a small hernia repair with my surgery so my doctor told us to wait 4 weeks for sex. He did say I don't care how you get off but don't mess up my hernia repair lol

That's sooooo long. Lol but I will also have hernia repair, I guess I have to refrain from it. He should be ok...lol

Hand jobs are great too ! JUST SAYING