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So seems as everyone's libido was low after surgery for a few weeks. Mines returned a week after but bc I'm not healed yet I haven't. I feel like I'm going to die. Has anyone gave in bc I'm not sure how much longer I can take. Surgery date 11/28/12

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    • TinyMamiOf3kids
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      It's fun. I find my self saying is this how you like it. I'm such a naughty chick.

    • ladyspl
      ladyspl

      We waited 2 1/2 weeks. Libido is not in full force, but the 22lbs of fat gone is definitely noticeable when ur tangled up. There's less to get in the way :-)

    • TinyMamiOf3kids
      TinyMamiOf3kids

      You will notice the sex increase once you lose the 1st 20lbs then it's so damn good. Almost give hubby heart attack

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    Yes it is honey moon stage

    I have no desire to do anything. Ive had a hysterectomy though also so that may have a lot to do with it

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    Mine was on fri the 30th of nov and we were back to doin our thing the next friday and i did t ha e any problems.

    Wow y'all didn't waste any time

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    I have no desire to do anything. Ive had a hysterectomy though also so that may have a lot to do with it

    Many people feel as u it's pretty normal.

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    Had sex a week after surgery all was good and its even better now with 70 lbs lost!! Good luck to you!

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    In scared of the increase risk of fertility.

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    I was too! A month before surgery I got the mirena. My husband and I want it removed at 15 months post op so far it's been a great choice for us

    .::SurgeryDate 7/25/12::.

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    I was too! A month before surgery I got the mirena. My husband and I want it removed at 15 months post op so far it's been a great choice for us

    .::SurgeryDate 7/25/12::.

    The horror stories scared me away. Have u still been able to lose weight on it?

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    In scared of the increase risk of fertility.

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    I told my husband he has to wear condoms for a while. Bc I was told birth control can increase risk of bloodclots.

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    I told my husband he has to wear condoms for a while. Bc I was told birth control can increase risk of bloodclots.

    What did he say?

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    What did he say?

    He's not feeling it but he has no choice bc no babies till I hit 100 pounds. Lost

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    He's not feeling it but he has no choice bc no babies till I hit 100 pounds. Lost

    Good plan:)

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    We haven't been brave enough to try yet, but we will be doing condoms... it's what we've always done when we weren't 'trying'. The doctor wants us to do a backup form of BC too though... like spermicide or something. I don't know about all of that.

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    I have no desire.... Low Libido.... Weird....

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    I increase everywhere. Energy level I last longer. I just simply love it!

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