Ok so I'm newly single out of a extremely toxic relationship of 5 years but I know eventually I will start dating again and even just get out in the real world go to dinner with guys or movie even just as friends but when it gets to the next level when is a good time to bring it up should I just play it by ear or be honest from the start I have a young son who will not meet an man until I think it's right it's only fair to him just asking for some advice for some post op ppl who have kinda been in my shoes

Great question! I am newly single (a year out) myself and have been wondering the same thing. Anxious to see some of the responses to this....

In my case, I tell men up front. So far, they've been really cool about it. I'm a very open person, so I put it out there at first so if they have an issue, they can walk on by.

I think you should only say something if it is really burdening you. Otherwise, business as usual!

_{You also have to consider the man you are dealing with. If they are around long enough they're going to notice the weight loss, the small amounts of food, and your eating habits.}