Ok, so going to vent a bit about my current situation, ive lost so far about 75 pounds since my surgery july 12th. Im looking a bit thinner, I feel good, have energy and im only going to lose more weight, im roughly 60 pounds away from being at my goal weight. Now that being said my partner is getting soooo jealous lately about anything I do outside my home/job, I mean if I go out with my friends, im apprantly going out to find someone else, now im not one to go looking for anyone else because im happy with what I have. Im not liking the new issues...does anyone else have this problem??? what can I do??

Make sure he understand, show him little extra attention., I lost my boyfriend of 8 years just before I had surgery. Not only he was scared but very unsecured of himself and imagine me all skinny and running off with another men right after I had surgery so he decided to leave me

For sure it was hard on me and I went true a hard time before the surgery and I really thought he was the man of my life but he didn't trust me and I'm not sure why since I never went out without him I'm not a bar person at all. He left me and now I'm single and looking for a new man and i never felt better and healthier.

If you think he is the one for you and your happy with him you will find a way to get true to him and if he loves you for who you are he will be there for you. For sure not easy situation but I'm sure it will all work out

I'm trying to date now and I just wish I could meet a guy that had the surgery at least we would both understand each other better

I am sorry you had to experience that pain before going through your surgery. I do hear you being positive about your life and that is what is the most important thing. Thank you for your comforting words, I will continue to love him with everything that I am.